toukki
(Ann )
43F
3985 posts
2/10/2006 7:28 am

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:28 pm

Escaped


Now, every have their stupid moments.

I just had mine

I know this guy 6 yrs younger than me through net. Once i agreed to go out with him, i have really enjoyed the moment.. till he asked if i ever had sex before.

Right. U asked this sort of question to the person whom u know for less than 2 weeks.

Interestingly, my female instinct has told me. We dont share the common interest.

Hes just looking for a stress relief partner.

Be careful dearest friends. In this world, there are too many dishonest people.

Again, ive done something stupid. I liked him very much. Im in luck i have not even get to hold his hands HAHAHAHHA.

Ann

TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
2/10/2006 11:31 pm

It's not 'stupid' - just part of the learning experience. Each mistake (if you call it that) is a lesson for future reference. Don't be so hard on your self. You have not gone very far down 'the path' so you can still turn back from this one. And you say you had some fun - good for you!
TG


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
2/11/2006 2:53 am

depends how u view sex.

but there exits many stressful and nasty bored guys really. dont know why.


kireinakawaii2
(KK )
43F

2/11/2006 12:26 pm

tough question and tough answer.. so what's your answer to him?


dogdarko
(Samuel McCann)
113M

2/11/2006 5:17 pm

Speaking as someone who didn't lose his virginity til he was 20yo (to a 26yo), I think you maybe misinterpreted the question of the younger party, in that maybe he was looking to reach out to someone he desired as his first (or maybe I'M being naive in that assumption, and that HE's been around a bit toomuch for his own good )

That's the risk you take going on a 'date' with someone so much younger and more uncertain in his approach and experiences in life - you either lead him on and damage him, educate him, or stonewall him and end up leaving him feeling even more uncertain and inadequate than he already is...

Your choice

Just remember that these young and impressionable guys are the MEN of the future that a lot of women go on to complain about when they end up turning the tables and treating them like shit

Think long and hard about it


toukki
(Ann )
43F

2/16/2006 2:40 am

well, i didnt expect but he is expecting.