toukki
(Ann )
43F
3985 posts
3/19/2006 6:03 am

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5/6/2006 5:09 am

The "guy"'s way of dating a girl


U wont believe me when i say there are 3 guys (17 yrs old, 20 yrs old, 22 yrs old) that approached me. I am already 26 yrs old. Considering myself attached (not married yet) to a boyfriend that is 6 yrs older than me. And we are very very much committed even though hes in australia and im still in malaysia.

As far as i know,these younger look for me NOTHING but free sex, free experience, free meals, free drivers, free maids. If u want me to put it in the BLUNT way.

Now, when i say younger .. that does NOT apply to mid 10s or mid 20s. It also apply to those in mid 30s that seek for older mature women.

Constantly i feel this whole cycle way of getting a girl is really getting ridiculous. Nowadays, seemed like our dating integrity has changed. People does not bear the prinple of "Yes i do love you very much and ONLY you".

A bit of the private news:
One of my new classmate. He is 17 yrs old. The gf (known for 1 month) asked for him to book a hotel for 1 night.

wth.. 17 yrs old !

fortunecookie80
(Shayley )
44F

3/19/2006 7:52 am

wah? tht girl is so happening!
1 mth and is asking for hotel room....
duh duh duh


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
3/19/2006 7:58 am

It's a crazy world - but you know your own standards and they should be your way. You don't have to follow the crowd. Glad to hear you have found what may be 'your one' - it's about time there was some real success in here. But don't start feeling like 'the older woman' just cos some kids are chasing you. You are still very youg compared to some. It's all relative.
TG


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
3/19/2006 12:24 pm

Yep Goan - If I was 25 years younger, I would 'submit my CV' as they say.
Any 'news' Cookie? (being nosey again, I know)
TG


fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
3/19/2006 7:20 pm

Let those kids enjoy they're youthful days while they are young... the only caution is, Just be careful with things that will hold an individual down , like unwanted pregnancies and STD...you can never tell!


fortunecookie80
(Shayley )
44F

3/20/2006 2:45 am

Goan, looking at how faaaaaar off your previous guess was, I can't say I am thrilled to have you guessing again.

Anyhow TG, some news are in my blog now. I am now waiting for your 25th *hehe*


inexperienced54 69M

3/20/2006 3:07 pm

Toukki: I believe the 20 year-gap marriage. A 20 years old boy can marry a 40 years old lady. If he is 40 years old, he should marry and 20 year old girl.
A 60 years old man can marry a 40 years old lady and vise versa.
When both are 80, they can marry the same age to settle down.
There are some reason behind this if you think of experience, wealth...etc.
Haven't seen you for almost a year. Nice to see that you are still very active in writing blogs.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
3/21/2006 2:27 am

Kids are just enjoying being young; like we are enjoying being btw young and mature.


toukki
(Ann )
43F

4/2/2006 6:33 am

LOL has been very fun reading the comments above thanks for contributing. Oh yeah??? If im 20, i dunno where im stuck in this world. 20 yrs old i am still stuck in university, busy adapting the uni life, cramp with all the assignments. Really no time for dating but i do have a bf at that moment too lol...

*nod* nowadays kids are very open-minded. Not to mention, the gals are getting more aggresive while the guys *clear throat* arent that direct anymore.....or should i say never was direct?

inexperience54,im glad to see u around would love to see more of u around here.


inexperienced54 69M

4/13/2006 9:59 am

    Quoting inexperienced54:
    Toukki: I believe the 20 year-gap marriage. A 20 years old boy can marry a 40 years old lady. If he is 40 years old, he should marry and 20 year old girl.
    A 60 years old man can marry a 40 years old lady and vise versa.
    When both are 80, they can marry the same age to settle down.
    There are some reason behind this if you think of experience, wealth...etc.
    Haven't seen you for almost a year. Nice to see that you are still very active in writing blogs.
Toukkif I have your e-mail address, I will send you some pictures that I took in NW of China last summer. I will be back to China again this year around summer time. This time I will go to the SW and visit the Hinayan Temples and Tibertian Temples. And of course, the Sangrila.


kcxj
(Kang )
42M

5/5/2006 2:29 am

A "guy's way"?

It's interesting to hear a female perspective for once.

Toukki, I'm curious just how often men approach you on this website that would prompt you to get so annoyed that you need to vent like this.

How many e-mails do you get per day? 10? 20? More?

Catching men's attention, and having them let you know you've caught their attention is the whole point of being on this website in the first place right?