toukki
(Ann )
43F
3985 posts
3/28/2006 3:26 pm

Last Read:
4/2/2006 6:25 am

Gossips


Recently there has been some changes happening in the hair saloon.

As usual, its been a very boring time for me to spend on setting the fake hair from mon till fri & morning till noon. I find the process are getting into my nerves as it has been continuously going on for one month.

At times, i often likes to joke around with my classmates.

However, things has changed when your classmates cant bear some of the jokes or critisism. Instead of face to face telling you what happened, they just go around, use someone who stand in a much better position to attack me.

I find this pretty amusing (yet, annoying). Yeah, i admitted calling that teacher as a joker/crazy/gay/sissy.

*well, one has to know why people would have called you sissy/gay, right?*

After i received my warning in front of others, i do find myself facing a bunch of "xiao ren" (means those who likes to talk and do small things to hurt others).

The whole night, ive consulted my bf about this. His advice would be to focus on what i learn and those classmates of mine are just "temporary" people. (Looks like the temporary would be to look at them for another 4 months).

Pray to me that i can quickly and safely survive the class.

Hate them.

swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
3/29/2006 1:56 am

Touki,

With xiao ren, you should guard yr words. You have humor but not everyone has. Yet i know it w/b so boring to shut up during a course of 40 days and stay in a not-welcoming group.

So happy and relaxed to be with ppl that understand you and accomodate/bear with your jokes, critism, and sometimes, wrong statements.


fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
3/29/2006 6:15 pm

Just a little patience and handful of understandings will do the trick ...besides 4 months is not a long time...

Oh! I did'nt know nor notice that you're taken already ...

good luck!


fortunecookie80
(Shayley )
44F

3/31/2006 5:01 am

Little people are like that. They can make their own crass jokes but you can't. So, at end of day, it depends if you are in their league or not.
Anyway, why bother? Those are not friends, just acquintances so just make fake faces in front of them lah. Entertain only loh....


toukki
(Ann )
43F

4/2/2006 6:25 am

cookie: I aint their league. Im slowly taking up bf's advice.

*nod* wilddream. Im glad they dont look very satisfied when i didnt show "black face" in front of them. Now that i know, i should always guard my words (just like what swallowtsui said)

fedders/goan: 4 months isnt short. I will try to quietly and fastly go through my time....