toukki
(Ann )
43F
3985 posts
4/11/2006 6:44 am

Last Read:
5/1/2006 6:52 pm

Ban someone u hate or dangerous people?


Its only beginning of this year, i just understand how am i supposed to deal with myself and my thoughts on the people i hate and the dangerous people (so called as hacker or non-stop bully).

I find my "block list" expanded tremendously as i spent more and more time in the chatroom. Having not to read some of the annoying messages, i just simply click ignored this member button (check it urself on the left side of the window).

As the list reached more than 50 people, i find myself very bored of what i have done.

What is the point banning these people? What do i get? Why do i need to ban them? Should i inform my other friends? Is it by doing all the precautions can actually solve the problem?

The answers?

If u ban him once, he will come in with at least 10 accounts by opening 10 different emails account (since emails are FREE!). How many times can u spot him? Are u tired of trying to find him? Playing the cat catch mouse game?

Inform friends about him? yeah, why not? sure! Even i inform her/him about this, can u guarantee she/he will not fall into this same old trick again? nah....

Toukki's little hint:
- Hate him? Block him without any question.
- Dont complain because (i feel tired too).
- If u dont know how to take care of urself, how would u think others can take care of u? Just like if you dont respect yourself, how can u expect others to respect you?

Hope this little piece of article doesnt offense anyone because i dont find the whole thing annoying but really amusing The whole thing really sux and i still spent heck 2 minutes typing all "these" down.

touch213 69M

4/11/2006 8:45 am

I'm sorry that you are plagued by such silliness... you are such a nice and wonderful person.. and very much a sharing individual..

Stay positive and let them not get you down..

It's a world that .. some are continually maturing, in positive ways, and it's those who embrace the continuing maturing of life, to keep growing and learning more of self and facing the changes that bring one to higher and hier level's of matured being..
so stay on your track.. and let them not deter you with such ignorances.. You are managing being preetyy, fine, sexy naturally and happy in spirit in a very self honorable manner... and if they can't see and understand that.. then you are doing the right thing to block them... because you do not present yourself as if you are interested in being anyone's toy or play thing...
stay wonderful in the heart of whom you are...


WisemanPhD
(W )
60M

4/11/2006 9:11 am

Hatred and anger are the poisons we swallow to beat out enemies over the head with, we die of soul sickness first.

I wrote a Poll in my blog in which you have visited.
It's called: Is Cyberspace a Black Hole.

I believe it is debate, and mostly pure anger/hatred and revenge that keeps people engrossed on this website.

I had to step back from the site and only pop in from time to time and blog here and there. Write a response here and there. Write a article here and there, open my Chinese FriendFinder mail here and there.

I spend maybe an hour at the most on the site in the morning and maybe a half an hour at night and then log off.

I use to spend 8 to 12 hours on the site because I am retired now and have to much free time on my hands. So I have chosen to write a long awaited book rather than raging with a buch of unworthy fools on the site, and only engage in conversations with my friends and thoughtful commentors.

Ignore the rest or it will drive you insane, literally! Read my blog about it, this website can become like a Black hole wich can suck in everything, including planets and light even.

Don't let this website suck you in, the less time I spend on it, the better I feel. Just hang with your pals and don't get caught up.

Hatred is like a cancer that spreads though this website and kills peoples souls, don't allow it to kill yours.

Peace,

Wiseman


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
4/11/2006 8:26 pm

Be peaceful and put down weapons will do good.

I dont bother to do any hostile action here. The useful way is to ignore them and they will disappear if nobody plays w/ them.

Guess some ppl put too much time/effort on AFF. It's better this: if like it, come read blogs fr some minutes; not like, dry it up fr some days.


adhikapokoya
(Adhikapokoya )
70M

4/12/2006 5:28 pm

I block people regularly in chat rooms, and think nothing of it. It does not necessarily have to be directed towards me. I think of it as making more room for people I'm interested in. I think 'blocks' evaporate after a given time, anyhow.


stratoca7144
(Strat )
60M

4/13/2006 1:27 pm

T: I havent had to ban anyone yet but I dont use the chat rooms at all so I probably have less exposure to offensive comments. I wish my TV remote would work as a ban for some people in real life!


toukki
(Ann )
43F

4/14/2006 9:34 pm

I have stopped banning people 3 months ago. It deters me to see how some got fed up of facing such troubles. Look at the recent blog posts and u will understand what i mean. I mean, being an imposter and again an imposter and still attack others... by all means, it does waste a lot of time. Perhaps for some people, time is not wasted after all the clock still ticks away.