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Why so many women dont want to marry? (a Translation, in Chinese viewpoint only.) Why I dont want to marry you? You asked me for a reason. Yes, I have many a reason. (Here is the list 1. After married, I am not your lover, nor important to you, but a housewife. I dont want to be ignored. 2. After married, my position will be lagged far behind any member of your family. I wont get any loving eyesight from you. 3. After married, all the relatives and friends will greet me, “when are you expected to have baby?” I don’t want childbirth, nor to tell them, “M working hard.” 4. After married, I am a -in-law. I don’t want to have mother- and -in-laws trifles and troubles, nor do I want to show filial piety to my mother-in-law, because I don’t like her. 5. After married, our nest will become her ’s home. The mother-in-law can visit the anytime and we need to reserve a room for her. 6. After married, my will become someone’s grandchild and have to accept his/her education. I can educate my own . 7. After married, your mom becomes my mom while my mom is still my mom. My mom never needs me to look after her, yet I’ll have to look after your mom. Only one mom do I need! 8. After married, I am reduced from my mom’s sweetie to your mom’s waitress always under her orders. 9. After married, we cant go traveling anywhere we like. If we travel not far, I worry that your mom would ask, “Why don’t bring me along?” If we travel far, I worry that your mom would moan, “ So good at spending money!” 10. After married, our house must keep clean and neat anytime, in case that the Queen Mother will make a sudden inspection visit. 11. After married, you might have a mistress. I don’t want to check your mobile phone day by day, nor do I want to smell your shirt to distinguish the perfume different from mine. 12. After married, I will become a servant. I don’t want someone to point at my back groaning about my laziness and disrespect to the senior. I need to work yet need more to rest. I don’t want to be a servant in our home and additionally one in your mom’s home. Why I don’t want to marry you? Just because I don’t want to lose my original life! Still great to be single. I hope you can understand me. |
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Niko, Like many men, you are finance-wise. Men are more rational than women. That's why so many men in China prefer to have one wife, two mistresses but never want to divorce. LOL. But women would divorce bravely if she finds the marriage unsatisfactory. How abt in Japan?
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Oasis, Indeed grateful to your appreciation of the 2007 Swallow. I had experiences in young-old couples. Not really a matter of security, it's more abt maturity, considerateness and vision. All feels are quite different. An older man look more charming than an impulsive selfish young guy. But in general, all men are selfish, incl. you. LOL. These young girls want older guys are greedy, they merely dont want to grow together with a young partner. But I love both - young or old. LOL.
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DVC, Long time no see, where is your hibernaculum? Your manifestation abt older men is damn right. Thanks! A man will not change much from his 3-year-old infancy. But your appraisal of me is not quite. I am like any other woman. Love bcoz we feel like it. Strong when our men are weak; weak when they are strong. And one more thing, I think quite traditionally as I deem it good tradition: A good Chinese women (or men) must submit to all the family, to make everyone happy.
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LIFE IS ALL ABOUT STRUGGLE!
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You have a case of mom-in-law phobia. Not all prospective mothers-in-law are so frightful. Well, Prince Charles is married, and you can rest easy now.
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