swallowtsui 51F
1120 posts
7/17/2008 1:21 am

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7/30/2008 8:36 pm

Guys are troubled


Guys are troubled.

I am going to convert this why.

Today two male animals made me exhausted, one by one. No matther they are your love or or work partner or whatever how relevant and irrelevant, they look so damn troublesome and unbearable half of the time.

Ten convictions of men:

1) Unreliability: they promise/agree something, then twist it or break it, sure, with some good reasons.

2) Frugality/Stingyness: they save up love and money and energy for themselves or for themselves and their male friends. They never want to give. In work relationship, some guys can discuss a dime back and forth.

3) Bad logic: they relate a to b which is two irrelevant thing. They debate eloquently with their hypothesises, most of time ignoring the substance. Their logic connection is fabricated.

4) Selfishness: they talk and act in I/me, never we/us. They justify the end, not the cause.

5) Sensitiveness: they are like babes, needing attention without expressing it; they are like pandas, plumb but weakly sensitive.

The rest, I want you to add on.

swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
7/22/2008 7:56 pm

Tks folks for visiting and sorry for getting back to you late.

I am very occupied by work these days.

Yes the more you get to know men, the more you know how to tackle them. In a word, a combination of a kid, a selfish man and a (ok, sometimes) sweet candy. But i never see a father or mother in them.

SGNobea,

Do you agree that we are less troubled than them, and more devoted/determined in everything? I dont believe in good man/bad woman match or the versus.

Anar,
Your hunting theory is no more fresh and fun. And who on earth have the time and energy for this now?

DVC,
Yeah, in some sense. But do u think, for example, you are more troubled than Nam or SG? this is the generality, dont try to shift the topic. Hehe..will find time to read your contentions later.

Nam,
Same to you my words to DVC. Maybe these troubled men will make us longevity by provoking our blood circulation.

Yeah, they surprised me a lot, sometimes.

WM,
I am going to surrender to your frank analyst and retrospection, but I wont, as far as the fact is here.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
7/23/2008 8:19 pm

DVC,

By troubled I mean they deter the smooth process of things and create problems to other ppl. Dont u agree?

I want you guys to add the other five, yes, i am troubled in this sense putting the eager readers (if ever anyone) in wait.

I will read your Dont Judge soon.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
7/29/2008 8:19 pm

Ric,

Are you saying Touch is a troubled man blogger? haha...Noop, i think he just forget abt the rule 'to make things simple'. But well, by detering his process of elaboration, he prolong his ideas.

Nan,

Nan, I know. I may apologize as well. By putting forward the 5 of 10 convictions, i wanted to conclude something general and similar in men, compared to women, in a humorous way (apparently, you guys/gals dont find me humorous but worrying abt my cynicism.

Ok, thank you for all kindness. Yes, they keep surprising me one by one and i ought to believe you for you've read them more and deeper. In general, i am still happy with men and wont convert to women. Hehe..


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
7/29/2008 8:22 pm

Nan,

Abt difference, i agree with my feet up. It's difference that makes up our funny world.

Frankly, i cant stay with a same person or same group of persons doing same things repeatedly, i'll be bored!