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Happy NY! Who has ever made a NOVE (net love)? There are advantages and disavantages if you have a nove (after my interview fr some ppl hv this experience): Pros: 1) You talk many secrets privateness with him/her and feel the tacit understanding is greater than w/ yr real love. 2) You can even talk "make love" there by typing each other if you were close enough in feelings. Hotter, sweeter than reality. 3) Only by exchanging pics, you can enhance yr imagination. The space is huge. No need to face2face, no misunderstanding as the real lovers. 4) You can make promises but never expect it come true but there is a dream. 5) Free, free. No dates, no responsibilites, no fights... Cons 1) You will compare him/her w/ yr real love. and think Nove is better than love. 2) In some peculiar moments, you will miss your Nove but never can reach out to him/her. 3) Nove can disappear fm computer screen anytime. Some ppl would be sad if such happens. 4) You take the nove as yr illusion and tend to beautify him/her into more wonderful an illusion. Danger! Then you may forget the real love/life. Suggestion: If not strong or hard-hearted enough, don't take up this game w/ any nove. Take care of yr love instead. 
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1/4/2006 12:23 pm |
Ha, swallow,.... seams you are a quite experianced nover, he? Hotter and sweeter then real? Is it easier for gals to reach that level, or can a ordinary boy also enjoy that kind of cyber excitement? Hard-hearted? Means, nothing for soulemate- and Mr. Right-seeker? But can a hard-hearted person be a good nover? Doubt this. Are you hard-hearted? Can't believe that. Maybe we look for another word for warm-hearted persons who can keep a self-protecting distance. 
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Ola amigo. I had a little experience so not sure my conclusion is correct. The hard-heated is especially needed for ladies who start these nove games. Because, ladies tend to be more devoted, likewise fragile even w/ noves. Hi Jenny. Guess you enjoyed yr nove story. So better read it after it happened. aha Hey Phiphi. You are a brave new-aged woman! Cheers! but we really need to be strong and realistic to protect ourselves. O, shall we paste it for our noves and loves?
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