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Body hair, ugly or sexy? It's already summer here. So hot so sticky. The less we wear, the seemingly comfortable we are, though hard to get cool. In the morning, i saw taxis waiting outside casino w/ their engines on, hard breathing they were! and i ached and felt hotter, hotter! In this tiny city, per head owes two cars. The junior highschool graduates get a dealer job at the casino, buy a car immdly and join the pollution brigade. So is the case in China. Ppl dream to have car, then buy, then pollute. And our President Hu is touring Africa to source their oil. Ouch! Ok, we are here to discuss body hair problem. Today i am a black over black swallow - sleeveless top and short skirt in black. After winter, summer, my feather on arms and legs grows quick. I dont have any problem to show it but some ppl disgust it. My question: for men, they show their hair on chest (or else where) proudly, shirt opening big. Look, I'm sexy, powerful. The more affuent their hair is, the more proud they are. Hairless men are deemed womanish. Hairy men are, Man! How abt girls and women? We must shave it, get rid of it w/ wax, painfully, pay beauty parlor to take it off, no matter where it grows (except the very hidden area, up to you, no public censor). Because we are forced to think it's ugly, unclean. Female body must be like silk, soft, and smooth. The hair may block the way of a touching hand and rigid mind? So the symbolization for the same human body hair is very far distinct. But i dont mind. I do what i want, i show what i want. Are you against me? And tell you my funny aesthetic rule: if in days most of my ppl say i look pretty, it means I m not; if they say i look not, it means i m. I call it my conversed thinking to the Customized Standard. 
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4/27/2006 4:21 am |
Dear Swallow, I am sorry to say that I am against you. First, If we were born to be women, why try to be men? Of course according to Jungian psychology, we also have the masculine inner personality, Animus, but the fact is that we were born to be women, which we cannot change. Second, what is wrong of women's silk like skin? It is not only a delight to sight, but also to touch. Third, imagine the hair under your arms appearing dark when you are trying to lift your arms! I am not a hairy girl, so I don't need much attention to what you have pointed out. If a boy likes a hairy girl with rough skin, he must have too much anima in his individuation. Do you like such kind of men? I don't. Good luck! 
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4/27/2006 6:04 am |
I love the hair on women... it's natural.. I can be shopping and it always looks good to me to see the slight hair on women's arms..
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4/27/2006 8:01 am |
 Mint, I am not following the social conventions.  First, I don't have that problem, and my shining skin is something that I am proud of and my friends envy. Second, seeing hair sticking out from the armpits of women invites me make connection with something not very clean. Third, a story for you. When I was around 12, I found no hair on my legs and arms, and I showed my envy to my friends' hair on their arms and legs. I followed their advice: stole my father's shaver to shave my legs so that hair may come out. Sure, when I grew up, I found some sparsely grown hair on my legs. Thanks for your information Goan! Touch, you only like slight hair on women's arms. Good luck to all of you!
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4/27/2006 3:35 pm |
It's a purely personal thing. Everyone is unique. Do what you feel comfortable with.
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Curious. I have only two hands to raise to express my consent.
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Gourmet, thks your thoughtful analysis. Will you try to be not conditioned and to be unique?
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4/28/2006 8:49 pm |
LOL!!!!! So the legend of male having lotsa hair on their chest live up for good hahaha. You will laugh hard when u see male dressed up as woman and never wax their legs. Yeap. For many thousands years, women just have to shave off their hair.
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Toukki, For common women, except the hair on head and another secretive place. In old time, nuns shaved head hair; in modern time, chic cool girls have shaven head.
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