swallowtsui 51F
1120 posts
5/5/2006 2:32 am

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Questioning - which part of body you feel most existent?

Pls answer without thinking, the most instinctive answer.

And, which part influence you the most?

I am taken over by two parts of my body. But i dont like this take-over.

What's yours? I bet the answers will conclude some similarity within men's group and women's group; but difference btw men and women.


touch213 69M

5/5/2006 6:13 am

my my mind, and my esteem... these two items take over and influence so much of me in every way..


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/5/2006 4:04 pm

Without a doubt I would say sexual energy and that manifests itself through the sex organs.

I have a lot of sexual energy...too much I have been told.

Practicing Tantra has been a real blessing at finding out how to channel sexual energy into my heart and mind and spirit.

You're a mischevious devil Mint with that shot at Peregrin.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/5/2006 7:33 pm

Look, already some conclusion:

Women: choose mind/brain/heart, these 3 things are more or less the same one, intellectual.

Men: if Mint is not wounded on the shoulder, i bet he has another choice similar to Pere & Curious, though he threw a sharp joke to poor Pere.

DVC
Are you that artistic to choose hand? You surprised me!

If i tell you guys my answer, would it stun you?


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/5/2006 8:09 pm

Swallow - nothing you say will stun me.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/5/2006 9:00 pm

Women: choose mind/brain/heart, these 3 things are more or less the same one, intellectual.

But Swallow your question asked which part of body ? This to me is talking about the physical so that excludes mental/intellectual (mind), emotional (heart), or spirtual (soul).

Voo_Do talked about her heart beating, which is a physical thing as opposed to an emotional thing.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/6/2006 4:26 am

Curious

Aha..a bet?

I am talking abt phisical body. In medicine, heart is for pumping blood? Brain for thinking. Mind does not exist in our body.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/6/2006 12:33 pm

Swallow - a bet? Hmmm.

I'm getting confused.

As I undertand your comment Women: choose mind/brain/heart, these 3 things are more or less the same one, intellectual. you are saying that mind/brain/heart are the same as intellectual.

sayhelltouu responded with 'brain'. The brain is a physical organ and Voo_Do responded with 'my heart.. i can always feel my pulse beating' so I agree that they are physical BUT you have also written that Women: choose mind/brain/heart, these 3 things are more or less the same one, intellectual..

So this is my confusion how is the mind/brain/heart intellectual?

So I am not looking to bet I am trying to understand.

The word 'heart' is used to talk about the physical organ and it is also used to talk about emotion.

The 'brain' is a physical organ and controls the electro-mechanical functions of the body and is therefore from my perspective physical rather intellectual.

So if sayhelltouu had written mind I would agree that she was talking about an intellectual thing. As has Touch.

In which case they are not answering your question about which part of the body has the most influnce as you write I am talking abt phisical body.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/6/2006 8:28 pm

Davinci - I really like what you are saying about hands.

I am sure many, if not most of us, both men and women have spent time holding hands with a lover, or caressing each others fingers, or touching finger tips together or just holding your hands slightly away from your lover's hands and feeling the energy flow back and forth.

I love watching the flow of energy moving between fingers...it is surprisingly easy to see the energy waves and many people can see the auras.

Of course one can then begin to think about sensuously moving hands and fingers over your lovers body...well, one can go on forever.

Yes, hands are a delight.

The simple things in life can bring us so much pleasure.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/7/2006 7:05 am

voo_do - I don't know about you but my body parts include sexual organs and sex is a regular part of life ... for many of us.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/7/2006 9:16 am

DVC

Maybe i m a bit short on the conclusion. I overlooked that gentle, thoughtfultouch chooses mind/esteem(though esteem is not body part).

Voo-do
A joy to see you tit for tat w/ DVC. There's surely huge differences btw men and women. You have your reason he has his.

Your question: see how a man will reduce your simple question on body parts and find its way to sex...

Yeah, sex is always man's question and answer. He reduces and adds to it. Sex, X. How abt us?

And, if we discuss abt mind and body,it's like discussing hen and egg, which comes first? This also refers to DVC's HAND. As you poetically and sensually sing of it, isnt your mind directing? We know, if brain dies but heart's still functional (&body not yet dies),anyone can't move his/her hand freely to do all the hand jobs.

Pere, Curious,plus DVC
You cant agree more: you sex, so you exist. AHA! voo-dowhat's yr say?


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/7/2006 9:21 am

curious

I mean heart/brain/mind is more or less the same thing that cater to emotional and intellectual functions.

DVC
If you women age hypothesis works, fm my age, can you guess my answer? lol...


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/7/2006 10:13 pm

I am very proud to have eluded your test in such a smart manner, now it will be Ric's turn - Oh dear! Test, what test? Oh oh performance anxiety.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/7/2006 10:28 pm

Ric, do you think that our agreeing on quite a number of things just shows we belong to an older generation? - Hmmmmmmm? A generational thing? You're much younger than me Davinci.

Man, it was so much easier in the 60's & 70's, or at least that's how it seems through all these acid flash-backs. hehehe. Boy and girl meet. Smile at each other. Say hello. Share a glass of wine. Smoke a doobie. Enjoy getting to know each better with wonderful carnal abandon. No big deal. Ah yes, the good ole days.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/7/2006 11:22 pm

Ric

Let's share the good old days. For me, it's my childhood in old good communist time

For you two, it's liberations and adventures?


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/8/2006 5:36 pm

Now, you know you are being a coward -- there's a bet in progress between you and Swallow. She trapped you, and you will be gentemanly enough as to comply... - whoa. What bet? I'm not a betting guy.

I never accepted a bet....I would never be so silly as to bet with Swallow.

But of course I am a gentleman, so...hellllllppppp.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/8/2006 7:40 pm

"the great gals of the seventies have turned into mature women in 2006, who seem to have lost much of their spontaneity... "

DVC
You mean the great babies of the seventies or the great gals who spent nice time w/ you and Curious?

Haha, TIME's magical hand is more powerful than yours. Btw, pls tell me how to understand Spontaneity.

Curious
Better you dont bet w/me, you'll lose. And, dont always be gentleman, be a cave man sometimes


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/8/2006 8:45 pm

Swallow - And, dont always be gentleman, be a cave man sometimes - there is a time and place for everything and I spend as much time as possible exploring caves.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/9/2006 7:48 am

Davinci - A pity not everybody understands humour on AFF. - my humour can be a little dry and a little bit off-the-wall so not everyone gets it, especially when playing with words. And anyway we all don't laugh at the same things.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/9/2006 7:24 pm

there is a time and place for everything and I spend as much time as possible exploring caves.

Wow, Ric, you last one is kind of... A pity not everybody understands humour on AFF.

my humour can be a little dry and a little bit off-the-wall so not everyone gets it.

you two

Ahahahahaha....hope i dont sadden you.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/12/2006 9:32 pm

Swallow - Ahahahahaha....hope i dont sadden you.

How could you ever sadden me? You are one of the twinkling stars who helps to brighten my life.