swallowtsui 51F
1120 posts
5/12/2006 3:14 am

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6/26/2006 7:47 pm

Love formula & sex formula #1

Acknowlegement: the threesome debaters, gourmet, curious, davinci

I only have a smaller head, less life(Love,sex) experience, less learing and knowledge. But still, you wont reject me to percieve your hot, long debate and give it some emotional approach

Everyone has set up his/her own love and sex formula, and adopt it anywhere on anybody.

First, YOU are YOU; second, you love w/your love formula; third, you make love w/ your sex formula.

Please outline your formulas to me, and I'll go further w/ you to #2.

I am serious.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/12/2006 9:22 am

Everyone has set up his/her own love and sex formula, and adopt it anywhere on anybody.

Formula? What formula? Where can I find a formula?

I've been tying myself in knots for years.


touch213 70M

5/15/2006 5:42 pm

this may of some consideration context ... some may care for.. and other may not aspire unto..

(""Asking"") use Asking

but, it's my stand.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/15/2006 7:31 pm

Hi all.

let's wait for the last threesome Gourmet

to see whether i could go on

BTW, you guys stroll away fm your topic and saying things me stupid dont understand.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/15/2006 7:56 pm

Swallow - let's wait for the last threesome Gourmet

Very mischevious Swallow.

This is just so, oh what the heck, so cliche ....waiting for a woman. ROFL


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/18/2006 9:05 pm

Oh dear, we are suffering from blogus interruptus here.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/18/2006 11:45 pm

curious

You grow-ups say something needs me babygirl to ponder, and interrupt.

Aha...


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/22/2006 5:34 am

Eclectic - ROFL


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/22/2006 5:39 am

Eclectic - Your joke finding has inspired me.

A couple was invited to a swanky masked Halloween Party. She got a terrible headache and told her husband to go to the party alone. He being a devoted husband protested, but she argued and said she was going to take some aspirin and go to bed, and there was no need of his good time being spoiled by not going.

So he took his costume and away he went. The wife, after sleeping soundly for about an hour, awakened without pain and, as it was still early, she decided to go the party.

Since her husband did not know what her costume was, she thought she would have some fun by watching her husband to see how he acted when she was not with him.

She joined the party and soon spotted her husband cavorting around on the dance floor, dancing with every nice chick he could, and copping a little feel here and a little kiss there. His wife sidled up to him and being a rather seductive babe herself, he left his partner high and dry and devoted his time to the new stuff that had just arrived. She let him go as far as he wished; naturally, since he was her husband.

Finally, he whispered a little proposition in her ear and she agreed, so off they went to one of the cars and had a little bang. Just before unmasking at midnight, she slipped away, went home, put the costume away and got into bed, wondering what kind of explanation he would make for his behavior. She was sitting up reading when he came in, and she asked what kind of a time he had. He said:

- Oh, the same old thing. You know I never have a good time when you're not there.

- Did you dance much?

- I'll tell you, I never even danced one dance. When I got there, I met Pete, Bill Brown and some other guys, so we went into the den and played poker all evening. But you're not going to believe what happened to the guy I loaned my costume to......."


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/22/2006 7:50 pm

"But you're not going to believe what happened to the guy I loaned my costume to......."

Curious
Are you the guy who borrowed his costume?
Hehehe...what a cunning husband: it's his costume did all the things. A woman can also have this kind of "cleverness".

Tell me, you create this or copy? If you create, you beat our bookish gourmet down. And, would let me wonder, is it man more creative than woman in general?


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/22/2006 8:13 pm

Pere

Nice suggestion. Contortionist or acrobat in sex. So stunning. I may try to learn and take my own pic. Wait, pls.

davinci/curious/gourmet
Wow! a wonder to see you big three reach an agreement here. Shake hands pls, once ever in your debate history. I am disappointed at you three, our audience like pere also. You make me can't go on to #2. It's like in an auction. You dont bid so the auction is over.

But i see something: gourmet is more patient, sophisticated and devoted by quoting that many jokes she read to supplement and entertain; but davinci and curious just say no for no, in direct way, very little contribution. That's why gourmet couldnt agree you two on organsm or fake organsm, and on play or foreplay.

Gourmet,relate sex w/ fate and destiny, a new theory, can you explain more?


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/22/2006 10:09 pm

Swallow - Tell me, you create this or copy?

No, I cannot claim authorship.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/22/2006 10:12 pm

Swallow - but davinci and curious just say no for no, in direct way, very little contribution. That's why gourmet couldnt agree you two on organsm or fake organsm, and on play or foreplay.

I just couldn't fake the contribution.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/23/2006 10:18 am

Eclectic - These men were just bored , and only looking for sex with someone who was different, available in the same place where they happened to be. Chance , opportunity and timing...

As were the women that they hooked up with.

Over the years, as I have travelled, I have propositioned women and been propositioned by women in hotels, restaurants, bars, on plains, trains and ships. This is just normal human nature for both men and women. People enjoy sex.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/23/2006 10:20 am

Eclectic - This begs the question, could you find love yet the sex is lousy , what do you do?

Enjoy the love.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/23/2006 10:21 am

Eclectic - Sometimes you find great sex but not love ,or love is not possible, what do you do?

Enjoy the sex.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/23/2006 9:24 pm

Curious,

Simple rule, simply said.

Gourmet
Tks for explaining. You must be a charismatic lady.

But if you can choose to have it or not have it, it's not a question of fate. You can choose to have sex or not, with whom, you are your own master. Fate and destiny does not play a role in it. We call it fate/destiny to those things fall out of our control. Sex is simple; love is more complicated. Maybe love is related to fate, as to whom you'd love w/, whom you'd marry to, etc.

As for sex, may it with or without love, at least we should have the good feelings for it. For women, guess it's more psychological and mental feelings compared to men's physical dominance. But then women would also transform message fm brain to body to arouse it. Both are interdependent.

Yeah, insteresting topic. You or curious share some of yr experience? let me learn something


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

5/24/2006 11:21 am

Eclectic - Which one would you pick?

Why do you have to pick only one?

I see this phenomenon growing amongst women, women between mid 30s to 50's who have had enough of their dull marriages,decide to make the effort to change and leave to find their own life and happiness. Strangely, all the ones I know have gone for younger men and the report is they are all having a blooming good time in bed..lol . Very interesting observation

Interesting how the pendulum swings.

It used to be mostly men who had "had enough of their dull marriages" and left their wives for the proverbial younger woman. Today one can see, more and more, vibrant women in their 50's and that is quite a change from even 10 years ago.

The pendulum now also seems to be swinging to the point where more and more couples are finding ways to reconnect and re-energize their relationships. No matter what your age change is a constant so it is a blessing when people can enjoy surfing the changes together.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/26/2006 2:33 am

Gourmet

My belated congratulation to you, proud of you! We Toastmasters here meet twice in a month. But, however wonderful i deliver my speech, i would never get ribbon fm Macau club, only clappings, laughters, and reciprocations. I thought to post an ads. for you for the November 06 Convention in Macau, attractive package, but failed to do so bcoz the bloody Chinese FriendFinder rejected it due to some marks. You want it? I can email you.

"I pick comradeship, platonic friendship, far more enduring."
But if one of them are really attractive to you for love(sex)? What would you do? Guess you are an oriental lady w/ occidental education. So comes the difference btw you and Curious on casual sex. We are closer here.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/26/2006 11:40 pm

"So go and love courageously and unconditionally and without regret."

Pretaaimer
You are a real Asian/western hybrid woman. You and Gourmet. Well, i am not Asian but more Chinese maybe i cant match you if "dare to love, dare to sex, dare to hate" is concerned.

But your positive attitude is appreciated. I should energize up to reach the degree of loving unconditionally.