swallowtsui 51F
1120 posts
6/2/2006 8:27 am

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Some queries, love or not love


1. The world is so big, why we only see that small world around us? Many things to care, why care love the most?

A Hungarian poem well remembered fm socialist:

Life is precious
Love is more
For sake of freedom
I give up both


It is about freedom in revolutional time. In peace time, freedom lies within love? But who say love is freedom? Lie. More exactly, it's both freedom and slavery, for whatever types of love.

(yes, when i write, i have only a wall, a screen, some tango music, a shouting outside, ti-da ti-da of a clock and keyboard.Silence and my sour eye!)

2. Between understanding and mystery, understanding leads to seperation but mystery leads to passion? Best status is to keep some understanding and some mystery. So fountain of love has water of essence spraying up. A belated topic suggested by strong davinci based on my comment to one of his blog.

Sorry it's not a decent post, lacking of evidences, as i feel weak in hand and mind this moment. I'd invite those interesting to contribute.

My words are wanning, hoowoo!

touch213 69M

6/2/2006 4:25 pm

Love is work and, work is love, there is no freedom without responsibility, and with responsibility comes the need to work and/or to be willing to work, .. thus consideration, is the fruits of understanding, and, the mystery is in the unknown, through such mystery and understanding .. which consideration.... bring efforts to yeild awareness. and such awareness, can start the cycle unto love...and thus one then engages work... that begats, the understansing, thru the mystery... and love blossoms.


hitoallnow
(HI )
98F
119 posts
6/2/2006 8:58 pm

Love. It's our privilege and our right. When you can share your passion, dreams, and whatever you have with the person you love, it is the greatest feelings. Freedom and love interwine with each other. When you love and understand the person you love, trust will come and along with freedom. Don't give up on love even when our world seems dim.


swallowtsui replies on 6/6/2006 3:47 am:
Hito,

Thks for your loving words spoken out of your experience. The last line is quite encouraging.

Yes, LOVE LIKE WE'Ve NEVer been HURT.

swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
6/6/2006 3:46 am

Oh, no male's opinion to this topic. Touch is a man w/ a sensitive female mind Touch, no offensive at all.

the understansing, thru the mystery... and love blossoms

Understanding thru mystery, one inch more understanding means one inch less mystery. Mystery is something that attracts. If it goes away thru understanding, it may go to the stage that i presume: understanding leads to seperation.

In some cases, only after understanding you find out that person on that thing is not suitable for you. Or, they fall out of your ideal.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
6/6/2006 4:11 am

Is love a game then for some and one that keeps them feeling 'alive'?
Is it love or just attention seeking, is it love or infatuation , is it love or just emotional insecurity and dependency?


Gourmet,

Same as usual, you raise dif. point out of a nicely "pretty" post. You notice the playboy-like love style. But is it love for them? or hunting prize adding to their trophy. Some guys caculate their power by how many women they went to bed w/. But it's no love that they claim for.

For some, love is a game that keeps them alive; but for some else, love is an inspiration that keeps them vividly live and appreciate life.

Love could be attention seeking. Do you want your love to pay attention to you? Love can be equal to infatuation as it would infatuate us when we are in love. All seems unimportant except that one called love. Idiot love.

But for emotional insecurity and dependency, no matter in love or not in love, some ppl have this syndrome. If bring it into love, it w/b destructive to love relationship.