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A matron seeks a honest good foreign retiree some while back, i posted about a divorced mother of one of our best mentored student now successful in his medical admin career. I asked her why dont she seek on line for friendship and she said almost all are unreal, preying for advantages and wasting her time. I was curious why in the mid-40 she want to find a man 15-20 yrs her senior. SHe said she doesn't want a man who is strong as she may not meet his virile demands. She wanted a constant companion, someone who's retired and only have time FOR HER, who wont go wondering and who waits for her. She is financially secure, a full owner of 2 homes in affluent Xiamen and Quanzhou. She has learnt some smactering of English. Wouldnt mind re-settling aborad but prefer the guy to stay where she is. Beign a matron, she definatly can look after his nursing needs. Knowing her, she is overall a fine women. Her former husband, an established doctor has remarried a fellow doctor and her only in his mid-20s has a good medical career too, so it is a case of a good fine petite women seeking constant loyal companionship! Another preference is that he can speak South Fujianese. Trouble is of all people, she rather I help her and I think it is almost impossible.... So I wonder if there are good men here from abroad who are REAL. |
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9/15/2007 5:11 am |
...... yanzi.... its a heavy responsibility and a tough one..... my friend..a retiree in Spore now an exec head hunter...say his a pak friends want those who can give them lift and not someone aboutto be a nai-nai.... I think I will pass this one. too bad for her my free-spirit disqualified myself...lol maybe I will visit you in Macau?....a joke, never mind! lol
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9/14/2007 5:51 am |
I got sad new from retired friends in SPore  that their peers prefer those in their 30s instead of potential grannies.
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9/14/2007 4:16 am |
yanzi..... how do I know its fake till I take them? If i know they are fake, i would not have got them right? Fake medicine are those with real packaging but the contents are diluted with flour.. It wount kill you nor heal you. It cures minor illness. Shall we say not fake but LOWER SPECIFICATIONS??
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9/14/2007 1:25 am |
AP, Indeed, I know of few frank ladies who convinced me how serious they are in this matter in view of enjoying their fulfilling years with a companion as their 'emperor' son/daughter found wings to leave the nest and the safety net can be lifted. ..... also these ladies are stable in their jobs and in control of themselves and now firmly in search of a true and real companion but they dont want to waste time with men who are not serious.... so when they ask me to help, i have little to offer in china as I cant think of a foreigner of non-chinese descent who are serious and who are in china because they WANT to and not because they HAD to. .....so I have to ask my retiring pals in Spore/Msia if there are any single men (widowed/divorced) who want to be in CHINA (and not had to)..... and strangely.... I have not got any reply so...looks like i wont be able to collect any hong-pow 
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A flyman will not suit her. She wants a label always glued on her body/mind. This is what i opposite, no one can occupay another one. Those who treat their partners as persoanl belongings are naive and this concept is totally wrong!!! Where you get fake Chinese medicine?
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9/13/2007 12:33 am |
there is a saying..... the more you hang, the more you get hung up ! The trouble is there is so much risk ..... so the best is fall back on reliable tradition method to ask trustworthy friends etc ..... so people just say.... if i come across, i will ask but these are usually lip service.... If one is truly seeking..... then one must go out a get him.... sitting down waiting is never the answer.....
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9/12/2007 10:14 am |
BTW, I am too young for her....to her I am just a trusted brother and a mentor to her son ! Anyway it didnt even crossed my mind.
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9/12/2007 10:13 am |
Miss Tsui....nothing wrong with her needs. WHen a woman has all she wanted, she want a loyal companion. If a chavinistic man want a loyal woman to wait upon him, why can a woman enjoy the same. She trust me as a friend who wont anyhow pick some bloke off the street and because I am discerning..... trouble is I cannot undertake the assignment nor have time to do that. I have turned her request down many times. Her son is now one of my good friend who will get me GENUINE traditional chinese medicine when I want as it is difficult for me to tell the fake from the real ones. I think i will have to get my fellow from Singapore to help out...retired airline chaps who can fly cheap to meet her.
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Ho, such a woman...she wants a body waiter or a companion? Wrong conception of keeping her partner like an unmovable thing. Does she have better things to do to kill her own time meaningfully? She trusts you? or your ability of this potential waiter job? Hoho...a joke, never mind!
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