touch213 69M
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9/5/2005 4:28 pm
troubles finding mates

I do think it's more the social exchange, and the "airing of myths" and sure fire delusion tricks from magazine, that never worked for anyone except to create more seperations by way of stupid criterias. then judgment criterias about why they have pains and troubles in existing or past relationships., and etc..
which is fine if that's what the premisis of the site is about.
As for mate finding, all the profiles talking about long-term mates, and marriage.. if that were the case, there are some very decent men in here that express much in their blogs,..but the problem is there will be no matches as long as women are reluctant to choose or even to be chosen.
it is a great site, for sharing jokes, sharing info on hobbies and info on situational experiences, and options to vent various expressions, and philispohical thoughts about life.
as for age difference, I don't care if she is 21, if she is really wanting a relationship.. it will work..
it's not about escaping one life style for another, it's about blending two lives to make a life of the style they choose.. but it appears highly unlikely that this is the place to find a mate.
so.. it's probably more for distant friendships and friendly exchanges..
maybe casual relations, maybe communicable lovers for a time, or something..or love mates for vacation contact... nothing appears to be .. connecting for long term..
and that's fine too.. if that's what wanted and delighted within.
Do we know of anyone who has developed a relationship via this site??


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
9/5/2005 9:01 pm

Just put yourself and your desired woman under the guide of Yuan. Yuan is a Chinese word that cannot find a matching word in English. But we Chinese believe "Having Yuan, you can meet your love from 1000 miles afar; having no Yuan, you cannot meet her even you are just inches away.

Blessings,
Swallow


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
9/5/2005 9:24 pm

When I complained of the same thing of men in chat, my friend Plassy said, "It's the Internet! LOL
Well, at least she's realistic.
Puppy


meriyaa
(Korean-Chinese )
44F

9/5/2005 10:53 pm

God.....
very good post.Touch...(but the title seems......^^....)
Thanks for sharing


toukki
(Ann )
43F

9/6/2005 3:13 am

oh yes. touch213, there are many successful couple (our friends) in here. Virgoserpent is one of them U can ask her. So envious >.<!!!!


lartimer
(Boris L)
60M
31 posts
9/8/2005 8:27 am

Yes I know someone, my friend who I can only reach him there have succed well too and I can tell you it's true because I have see the girl, the friend and they are together, then it works


touch213 69M

9/8/2005 8:30 pm

thanks, that's inspirational..