touch213 70M
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4/21/2006 7:37 pm
A Charitable Heart

This is something so wonderful if and when we embrace it.. it enriches us, and allows us to see each other from a heart view, rather than a visual view..and then we can appreciate the physical even more so.. because we have embraced the heart of the individual.
I speak of sex often.but truly what I see of women, is the heart and the charity.. of their heart.. sometimes I'm frustrated, because expressions given or shared about their phsycial self, and sometimes even about the complimentary things of character.. is so often taken.. to think.. the objective is sexual.. when the objective that is of most importance to me.. is.. the heart and soul of the woman..the guenuines openss to be sharing with what is her life.. I too get frustrated sometimes, when women hide certain parts of their lives for fear of judgment or rejection , because.. to me.. she is whom she is, and at the moment that I meet or share time with her.. it's Her I appreciate.. and that means I have to be of appreciation of all the things that her life has entailed, which makes her the person she is.. that has attracted me..
so many judge so much by the past experiences of other.. that misses sometimes the heart of whom they are speaking with. We must have a Charitable Heart.. that.. is open to know the heart other another and feel the realness of their compassion as well as their passions about so many things of life. If only we move past judgments,, we can so much better.. have Charity within and of the heart..that is accepting of the beauty of another.
wht's stange to me.. is I can see a woman, for my eyes do work..and thus in the ability to see, I can appreciate what's seen..but I look too with my heat, beyond where my eyes can see..
and when I express appreciation of someone and/ or of a beautiful woman.. I am appreciating her far and beyond what my eyes can see..or my groin can want.. It's the woman herself as an individual .. that' is truly the in the vision of what my heart can see and feel.. that present the beauty.. that I compliment..
The charity of the Heart is such a gracious nature, that humbles the nature of mankind.. that if only we embrace it... we can appreciate so much.. all the time.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
4/22/2006 2:56 am

Touch,

You prefer inner beauty or outter? You know, life's not perfect, if you can not have both, which you perfer?

Haha..hard to answer ha


touch213 70M

4/22/2006 6:37 am

It's always about the inner beauty. If you think about it..
not all pretty women are of an attraction.. it's what's inside of the woman that makes the attraction have a drive and appreciation for what's on the outside. It really comes to the time spent, listening to the heart and looking into the eyes.. That makes everyone look so much different.


mika_18
(name )
39F

4/25/2006 4:06 pm

As ive learnt from my path and destiny,,you can have both inner and outer beauty,,,,,its simple as if lady is beautiful inside in all ways,then shes more beautiful on the out side.the heart is most important if this soft and loving and gentle,then all the person is to,as the very heart of that person is that person.


touch213 70M

4/25/2006 4:59 pm

such truth, Mika, such truth..

there is no need for choosing for they can be one in the same.. and usually it is, if one has the heart to soften the fears that surround something so precious..

it's like looking for diamonds..: diamonds, must be carefully relieved of it's rough protective coverings, that protects it's brilliance..it must be acknowledges with the care of the cut's and it then reflects light in trueness... and the more it's polished .. it's beauty continue to become infinite in it's glow and sparkle