touch213 69M
posts
4/28/2006 2:18 pm
We have a criminal within this Site


someone in this site has the ability to go into people's profiles and change things,
deleting and adding people in other people's friends network..

Pls, monitor your network, and keep track of any irregularities, if necessary we can requesst and even demand that AFF, put a stop to this practice by the individual who is doing such things..
there has to be someone with a deepseated degree of madness and inhumanity of high disregard for the indivuals.. and this person is vile and of nature that is of a destructive intensity to people who are on this site with intention of good , to share good and to be of understandding of each other..

I will personally contact AFF, but FEd-X priority mail, and by registered mail and I will also report this to the authorties who administer internet activity and misuse..
I can assure you ... I ma not one to stand Idle and I do utilize the legalities of the system that are of this land to attain my objectives..

I am writing this as a open and unabashed comment to this individual.. and thus to all other to be aware..

I am a paying member, as that was my choice, and thus, I have monetary based legal ground for any actions that I take.

I will not engage in a series of negative back and forth name calling, to anyone's satisfaction... I'm a very principal based individual... and by such principal... I am driven to succeed in my endeavor... of any rights violated that are mine to protect.

may I please Advise such an individual..
I am not the person ... you should choose to play such a game with... I don't mean that as a threat... I state that as a promise.

Qianz
(Qianz )
53M

4/28/2006 5:44 pm

Hi touch213,

I agree, I've been stalked and harassed on here by some individuals. May I add link this blog entry to mine, Blacklisted AFF members as a FYI and warning to others. There are other relevant links there. Thanks.

Be care and stay safe.

-Q


touch213 69M

4/28/2006 8:48 pm

I cannot advocating a finger pointing to any individual in particular.. for I know not who this criminally intent of person is in discovery nor disclosure..

but I have reported to AFF, on three level's of their managment, via phone, and message.. and will employ other means to further report any further engagments to invade my personal presence and participation as a paying memeber who is insured by implied and written statement to protect my membership in this site of any wrong doing or tampering. it is implied, stated, and written, as record of fact, and requested to be noted in my files with the managment of AFF, of my disdain for any interference of or in my participation and activity on this site.


toukki
(Ann )
43F

4/28/2006 9:19 pm

I suggest if Chinese FriendFinder is able to implement password security. Whereby u should type in the characters or number that appears just right after you type your personal password. This is to prevent bots.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
4/28/2006 9:28 pm

Touch,

Dont let them affect your mood and temperature.


konekodanyan 54F

4/29/2006 11:21 am

All sites' management will have ways to access private member's account. It is a matter of choice whether they use that ability or not and under what circumstances do they do that.


mika_18
(name )
39F

4/29/2006 8:40 pm

hello Touch,as you know my account and profile was changed to many things changed like i only had 130 network friends one day then when i looked later i had 220 and i never seen these guys at all before,they was all clased as good friends to,also as you know,you was removed from my network as well, and you know the rest,glad things are being done as this not ok and needs to get sorted,as no one is safe while this person is going to one account to another.


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
4/29/2006 9:59 pm

Touch: you are going about this the right way.
Pup


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
4/30/2006 1:01 am

Take this from a friend - now perhaps you can see why I have been the way I have for the past couple of months but all you said was 'peace' and all I said was 'not at any price' - I have heard from several people that this sort of thing goes on. Don't let it eat at you - you're not that sort of person! But I will say this, who loves to get everyone 'at it' ? who likes to stir things up when they are quiet ? Who turns 'good guy / bad guy' at the drop of a hat and why?
In this world where NO-ONE can be trusted to 'be' who they say they are, I would suggest that no 'private' emails are used on this subject - firstly, because just how 'private' are they? and secondly, given the main 'game' was to use us all in an 'experiment' to gain info for some perverted 'book' or 'paper' and the fact that there are many fakes - and who is to say that other profiles are not now actively being used for the same purposes.
Why have you been picked on? - I would guess because you are the least likely to 'get mad' given your good heart and your consistant kindness. So you may well have just become another unwitting 'player' in this game. The thing that is disliked most, is someone with a good following - someone who is 'popular' like yourself. The 'hosts' of this game number at least three. They form a 'pattern' in there writing 'styles' (except one that is deliberately the complete opposite - almost child-like) - take care Touch.
I will give you one warning about this site - they will NOT get involved and the reason? they are American owned and fear the very laws that are there to 'protect' - the very laws that let people sue for the silliest of reasons. By becomming involved, they open themselves up to fall foul of the very laws they are trying to uphold.
There are far too many 'victims' around in here for my likeing - far too many far-fetched stories from fantasy-land for them all to be true. Maybe there is a 'pattern' there?
Or are we just paranoid?
TG


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
4/30/2006 1:21 am

Also, this 'thought' has been put about by several in the past, but was always going to be difficult to prove. What if a 'game player' WAS a member of staff or even an 'ex' member? Would that not give them the ability to go into others email boxes and access their accounts and profiles? I have a copy of an email (not held in aff) of someone professing to be 'the owner' of the site trying to 'seduce' a member. That profile was deemed to be fake.
NOTHING can be believed here.
As such, this site is only useful for dating - that which it was designed to do? and it is piss-poor at that too.
To all - BEWARE OF GREEKS BEARING GIFTS. (No offense to the greeks, just happened to have watched the movie 'Troy' last night)
TG


mika_18
(name )
39F

4/30/2006 4:30 am

Well today i come here as you know i was silver then time was out and i humble standard member,,,so please can eny one explain why im a silver member now?? this very strange,,,as i cannot be silver but i am now.hehe i should be thankful but if its wrong doing then i not want it.


touch213 69M

4/30/2006 6:25 am

I have read where someone posted, that if you frequently change picture, by some means you become a silver member.. other's may be able to shed more light on this.
I also found that again, you are missing from my network..I shall send another invitation.
At present I cannot locate your profile..

if you can read this ... contact me via the other method


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
4/30/2006 3:03 pm

I'm becomming a little confused - but with me, this normally precedes a revalation. Something is not right here. Let me work on it (if I've got the time) ? But I work alone - not a trusting person - me. But one thing is for sure, another of my friends is now in some sort of trouble. What is the common denominator? (retorical question) - and I'm fully aware that some will play into this game to seem innocent. I do not believe that this one plays alone - there is a 'team' of wondreful fellows. Many pieces - as yet not comming together but the truth is out there. This sort of thing NEVER happened when I first joined - it is quite recent so 'who' has joined around the time the problems started (another retorical question) - perhaps the 'unbelievers' will soon be 'converted' - and NO-ONE wins - be sure of that. The main query is motive.
Mika - 'ladies' get more priveledges than us guys (and rightly so) - this may explain some of your problems.
TG


touch213 69M

4/30/2006 6:45 pm

Thank each of you for the compassion of lunderstanding, and hopefully this situation will find a resolve that will bring to those who create this havoc, will find that they are not above what the laws can do, and consequences can be far greater than the games they play imagine is possilbe to withstand. It is certain in life, that intellect improperly utilized, will always find it's means to bring such persons to face a peril.. of their creation... and help shall stand afar... and be of rejoicing to see justice unfold and yeild it's toll.


touch213 69M

5/1/2006 7:57 pm

was Mika, knocked off the site? of did she just fade away/// ????


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
5/1/2006 11:07 pm

Yes, I have more pics - some have been used before, but in the current 'climate' - my 'pic' is the last thing on my mind. And as I'm not here for dating as such, my pic is of little importance. I had to 'remove' three of my pics cos 'someone' complained but they were probably right in that case as the top I was wearing did have a 'logo' on it that could have been deemed advertising? Ok, as were asking 'personal' questions: as part of my interest in writing 'styles' and patterns within those styles, why is it that you write in good English, then bad - almost as though you are two people? (Could be, like me, I often write late at night after a glass of wine - or three - and my concentration is low) ?
I still believe that words and pics are being stolen and stored away for some use outside of aff. As such, I'm adding nothing to my profile and NO-ONE gets into my friends list without my full trust - and that is a VERY rare thing to get. I know that someone has hacking capabilities - there are too many complaints for that not to be true. I still can't see 'why' in a farty dating site unless it is just a sick mind. I also have a feeling that it may be a 'team' taking on different types of people to gain trust. It could be the very serious sort that is 'phishing' for the personal data and credit card info. The security in Chinese FriendFinder is piss-poor - that would mean spending some money when all they really want to do is take it.
Others in the blog section are now complaining of stalking? I assume that they mean persistant unwanted emails - that sort of thing is easily fixed - the site gives us the 'tools' to stop that. But nothing will stop a persistant person - they just create another profile.
Suggestion for security - get the sign-up software to check the computer's id against a check list and stop multiple accesses. Trouble is, when the member could be a 'payer' money is far more important than security.
Warning to ALL - if there is a hacker loose, then take care not to use a networked PC - stop access during work and stuff.
TG