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did you see someone today.. you could possibly "love" is your heart open, is your living willing to let go of all pains and troubles and challenges and thoughts of differences .. that just for today... you can look about... and see someone you could "love" ? if you find such today... it may well become a habit that everyday... you can look about in life and someone and some reason to "love" and be expressive of it.. 
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5/7/2006 1:59 pm |
in truth... I love the physical beauty of women... but also in truth, we are not always attracted to each woman who is of such stunning appeal.. there is a spirt about a person that convey much, in their eyes, theirmanner of how they handle themselves, maybe in a glance you see them express kindness and be of generosity, you see their laughter, and you can see them in a sullen moment , and feel their compassions pain, the attractions are many.... and so too is the natures of love.. and each love is distinct and of it's own grace and beauty... so we need not confine ourselve just to see someone to love in a romantic sense or as a partner for marriage... but for theheart and the life that the heart express in, thru and about them.... I hope this does not sound vague in any sense... but I seek not to fall in love to marry each woman I see whom I can feel some nature of love for... for there are many many needs of love that we all have ... and somethimes... it finds simple satisfaction in ... just saying hello, or a smile... of acknowledging the care one has take to present themselves of wellness in their grooming... I think if we can love these things... then worry not and see not so much a marriage image.. then we may just find that love reveals ... unto a mate at a time... we may not even be prepared to consider to look for such... I hope I have been kind, in this responsive commentary of thoughts... for today, your sharing of thoughts with me... has given me an opportunity to feel ... of what graces live in your heart of love and about the natures of love..... (laugh) surely you nor I could ever seek to marry each other .. but that does not exclude me from seeing and acknowledging the love that is within and about you.. pls. see the humor in this last phrase.. it's not sarcasm... it for laughter..
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5/7/2006 2:04 pm |
it's not an unfortunate reality... it is the honest of reality.... for the greatest thing is that ... you yourself can see in another something to love.... that is it's own gift ... and requires no return.... that's the shere nature and beauty of love... so...pls... keep it often... as you do... and everyday... you have so much that you can smile about, and your memories will be of such a grace in your moments of relaxation and reflection upon your life. smiling... 98.2% of the time.... even when my teeth are not showing ( laugh) I do hope it reflects in my sleeping also. LOL.
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5/7/2006 5:04 pm |
No I haven't found anyone I have seen I could love YET. I don't base my feelings of love on looks. I engage in meaningful conversation over time with the others to see what they've got between their ears unlike many who gauge how a person is by body parts and by what's between their legs. Deborah it is far grater than any visible body can create in allure or temptations pull and lusting desperation of acts.. it is far and beyond what lies between the legs of men and women, it equates itself not unto size, nor the erotica of viewing...it is far more, and extends beyond what those physical characteristic can ever convey or display.. we cannot and do not deny our erotic nature in living... but we should not let it be the force that drive what we concieve of love to be.. for if we do, and those who do.. find heartaches and pains that become unbearable and jealousies that destroy not one or two but many in the path of it's wrath, vengence and twisting of minds to engage in murder, mayhem and madness...of unimaginable cruelity.. Love in and of itself .... is it's own blessing , it's own glory and, it's own truth, and nothing can remove from what is love, in truth and, the truth in loveing... if it is sought from the heart, thru the heart and by the heart... and given the honor of being alway the essence of what the heart is composed and lives to be of.. we learn so much in life, but there is so little of this teaching of love in the educations of our systems... and thus peoples objective about life find an array of assessing elements that are regulated too often by educations intentions of focus on economic standards and measurments... that often translates into how we as people... look upon other's in our judgments and pursuits of someone to love.. and that is of many root's that grow into the pains and broken hearts that are suffered daily by so many... I must shorten this expression... to simply say.... if only we knew and know how to look that we may see... then we would know that it is, thru our hearts not by our eyes... that we can come to know, seek, share , express and living in a loving manner of being ... true to the nature of life... which is simply... "love"..
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5/7/2006 5:22 pm |
love:the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
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Touch Interesting question that makes thought. You are a rare man dreamer. Your love, as much as them, like a river flow by you, everyone you see today could possibly be your love, if you make further contact. But what makes you to make this further contact or not, you yourself or xxx? danvici What you wrote abt is the Fall in Love at the very First Sight Effect. Interesting to discuss further 
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5/8/2006 7:36 pm |
It's actually true, we never know who's to actually be our love... cause we can set our minds on so called winning someone and miss the one's that come past that may be better suited and evenly in heart what blends... I don't make women targets as in youth, of despaeration to love her... because if she wanted to love me... she would not need me to trip that way.... she'd be tying to love me as much as I'm trying to love her.. I see many women I could love, today, I"m In chicago.. and thru the airport, I saw beauty in many different women, some how they sit and read their book,s some how they handle their business at the counters in the shops, and one very gentle natured lady, whom I talked with while we waited for our Hotel shuttles, each shuttle had their city listed on it, and we actally found that out by going and talking with somone else after wating and waiting....far longer than we should have,.... but it was a delightful conversation... there's more resons to love than there are drops of water in a rain storm... and it's seen in so many women... in so many ways... especially because I love what is woman...  but I would love to further discuss the fall in love at first sight thing... actually, I've always figured, the greatest fear a baby has when learning to walk is of "falling".... so I have always wondered why would people want to "fall" in love... I'd rather "grow to love and find myself being in love"... much more before I'd believe in or be interested in "falling" in love...most people who "fall" want to "get up"... and that's when love is then gone.. """
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5/9/2006 5:18 pm |
Yes you are right,davinci2, i fell and was hurt for many years with broken heart.
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5/9/2006 5:21 pm |
I think everyone is a potential soul mate... the sould is universal... cause when it leaves the body,... we call it death... so it's relative unto it's essence of what is life in the body.. sme people just find things they choose in coom ( to a degree) and calim to be the one and only soul mate... but if they let their soul actually be free of these preferred choices...then why would not all sould's be able to mate... all bodies can mate... it's just a matter of choice if they do, and unto whom it is they do.. but we are such impatient people, it's almost amazing love get's chances to show it's beauty... you ever notice where ever people go, if you talk to them long enough, they have to go... we are always trying to get somewhere ... more than we actually love and enjoy where we are... and that habit translates in the relation of loving... and bring so many to the feeling, "they got to go.." besides.... this... it's just sad, that so much potentials of love being actively shared is witheld by preferences tht maybe next year may not matter... that's what many claim when they say looks don't matter... but they evidentally maater a lot in the choosing, of so many...even in the elderly, they have their choices of appearance they aspire to engage.. but it's like people claiming love but it's really about who's got money... but when the money is gone, love leaves... or shows that it never really was there.. but I bet any millionaire... when they are on their death bed, would give all their money to be truly loved.. for the simplicity of someone tuly showing and giving and sharing feeling...and just being there with that feeling in all they do and share... Look at all the various things in many blogs tha people who claim to just want someone to love... actually have hidden within the words ... of all these particulars that makes almost no one good enough to be of worth for them to share their love... so I wonder do they really know what love is... or is it more a preference of conviences of sorts.. that appease the ego.. Like they say with glowing pride, he's a doctor, he's a lawyer and etc... or she a model, or she's a movie star... no !!!! that's only what they do for their choice of profession or income earing or artistic expression.... do they really know the person and love them as a person... when all titles are stripped away..???
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5/9/2006 5:25 pm |
I don't mean this to make fun of anything.... but we really have to learn not to fall on our hearts.... they are much too fragile.. and it's probably the most vital organ in the body...cause when it stops everything else stops... and it's also that part we feel the fludder of loves surges of emotions make a lightness in our chest.. and put butterfiles in our stomach... something that meaningful... maybe should not be fallen upon.. it's gonna hurt !!!
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5/9/2006 7:31 pm |
Maybe Wan Chi was talking about the love at first sight. Love is sometimes reasonless, you couldn't say why you love her/him exactly, but just your feelings, you have the strong feelings to the one you would love, you couldn't really explain the reason. So that's why the world is full of myth, miracle, otherwise, the would not be as interesting as it is now.
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davinci In Chinese, "fall/sink into loveriver"; in Portuguese, not much difference fm French/Spanish, amar, adorar, another more exact to fall in love: apaixonar-se por alguem
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5/10/2006 6:53 am |
the real love is found in the many many ways that it can be explained...and that becomes the many many expressions they share unto each other of what that love feels like and feel of within them...and they feely express that unto each other, and it become and endless expression of the infinite things that's liked which creates what is loving...and how it feels to be and do so... I don't buy the mystery bit... we have to much ability to thin, reasonand express and commniate for me to accept ... that it's unexplainable, the beauty is in finding way to continue endlessly trying to express and expalin the joy of feeling unto each other.. the words sound beautiful that you say, but .. tht's why so many loves fade away, because they can't find the endlessness of seeking ways to express and expain how beautiful and wonderful the feeing is ... within them and about the other..and even about themselves .. of what it give in how they feel about themelves.... people can use their minds for such trying to explain a big bang theory, but something as knowable as how one feel's they don't put such effor into..
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5/10/2006 6:28 pm |
davinc.Im over that pain now but for me,took lonng time,as i nre him since i little girl and we grew up together.Yes my fault for being in pain many years as i not want to let go or believe he gone.But also it wasnt my fault as he one who broke my heart.But ive learn in time and healed. People have to remember also,each persons heart is different in how to cope with pain and sorry. Snowie is also right in what i tride to say.
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5/10/2006 6:29 pm |
sorry for my spellings,
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5/10/2006 7:43 pm |
Wanchi, in what you say, you grew up to love the one man for life, so your pain is understandable, i've know vry nice women, who have felt very bad, because they gave their virginal self to someone and it turned out bad, and they felt very bad, because they cared very much to only be with one man... and it was a lot of pain in many woman... when they later find they want to give all themselves to someone and feel bad, because they are not of the virginal nature they want to be... but I'm happy you worked thru your pain, as you saved your heart...and it shows in your expressions...and for you, when love comes it will be for your heart.. I am happy that you are not a bitter person and found your love to have great meaning after all the pain.. I like your heart... it's very much of beauty through you.
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