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people can be like "snow flakes" This site is a trip, there are people whom you can change a few mails with and they melt away like a snow flake in the sun.. it's not so hard to choose a mate, but people have no stick to it mentality, they talk until, the next fancy comes along and they are gone.. some get lost in the delusion of popularity, some get lost in the delusion of ego after they get multiple offers, and some ae just flat out non responsive. some ae so vain and egotistical, they can't even like themselves unless someone is patronizing or flattering them. the only one's in this site who probably hae a chnce at finding a mate is the one's who have sticking power to choose and work with the choice.. but they need to find someone who is equally as stable in their mental process.. some are in love with their own face, and some feel their shapely ass, is giveing them a position of world ruler... there is truly some sick shit in this site.. So be careful... of whom you allow yourself to get involved with... if they can't develop a friendship without loosing self motivation..then it's best to let them go.. about their way. |
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Don't let anyone bother you. Do your own thing. Pup
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6/4/2006 11:12 pm |
Young women in their mid 20's are very pretty girls, and some are delightful in their energy and zest for life, but they are in some ways unsable in developing friendships and relations, they chase and fade with the next fancy that comes along. It's so weired as I've known friends who have younger daughter's and in their late teen's they actually do truly love the guys they are with, and it's actually a very honest love, but onece they get hurt in the growing process of life, during their 20's many are testing everything to see what they can catch, hold and control with body manipulation, and a pretty face, and some have a very big ego, to the point they feel they are doing a guy a favor by being with him, and thus their expectations are very irratic.. and the first fancy guy that comes along, either with buldgining muscles, or flashing cash and dressed in some fashion parade, and then you got the others who want only the guy's whom they think a lot of other women want.. as if they are choosing just to create envy in other women.. these are some sad thing that cause so many young women to wast those years when their yourtful beuaty is peaking.. and then they get burned bacause all those games eventually backfire on them.. there are always exceptions to the scope... but there are so many that by the time they get in their 30's they feel they have missed something... and then loose interest in their relationship and start looking for other things.. Women in their 30's upward, have most of them gone thru the bs trips, and spent that time alone and been around the circle, to not be so quick to think they are Gods gift to man, and get past that busshit of thinking they can have any and every man just by flashing ass and opening her leg's..and using phony smiles.. many in their thirties, know they are just a woman, and learns how to thus be a person and be an individual, and don't expect the world to bow down before them just because she is a female.. many have by then learned that the only thing sex catches, hold and controls is themselves, and fools... so some grow beyond that ignornace and they are then ready and capable of actually loving someone... with the good , the bad and the indifferent.. they also know their body is telling them the clock is ticking... they find that all that youthful tight ass and uplifted tit's, have began to take it's natural life form... so they rely on their internal self to define whom they are.. Look at all the pretty face of some of the young one's in the most popular area of this site, they are physically beautiful, but by the time they get some sense, that will have taken a change.. that's the sad reality of life.. they waste those years, trying to be anything and evetrything and manipulating life with sex and the allure of it.. and never know they are themselves being controlled by their own games, and they are the one's shackled by the same games and bullshit they tries to use to shackel and trap, manipulate and play guys for some vain trips they have.. This is life's Irony... and it's very shrewd in the irony that is about life.. Many of the young women, they know so little about a man, and what it takes to please a man, or even thesmselves for that matter... they think getting naked in front of him is all they have to do, and the other's think a buch of dramatics is the trick... they completely by pass the nature of what appreciation is... they are looking to be entertained and treated as if they are at a long term circus.. this is why so many are crying the blues, and many by the time they are 27, they are bitter, and vengful and full of anntagonisms of all sorts..and out to fk the world over... because their bubble got burst and reality starts to set in..and they fight re-learning the reality of life in more stable terms.. sex, is great, but the efforts to utilize it to try and makes fools of other, and even themselves... is what many of them find is their biggest downfall. but ... they will think this is bullshit... and think me to be a fool... but I've seen it too many times.. I've seen women who think they are all of that plus a bag of chips, .. who come to find life whips that butt, and reality kicks that attitude in many ways... and they fall.. I've see the movie beauty pretty ones, who have an ego big as the world, who soon find they are just a human being... but by that time sme of them are even with a burned out look, and a worn out attitude.. and suddenly then they want to be a decent person.. but they ae and have been "bridge burners"... for so long they have nothing to go back to..and they have lost themselves n so many games they an't figure out up from down.. there are some very genuine women who are such thru their lives... and they are just basically good honorable people in the integrity of themselves..and they are very stable and progressive.. and willing to love and be loved.. those are the one's who make good mates. I don't like the one's who are prejudice, who think they are too cute for anyone, and think they are better than others based on some bullshit job, or position... because those things can vanish in a flash.. some are so busy trying to fit some image game of such they can't be open to accept anyoe, they can't accept themselves without a big circle of vainity that encompasses them... and they wonder why they can't find someone... but they also don't know men can see right thru that garbage.. some men ae bewildered by it, and get caught up in it, but he leaves as soon as the viewing is clear, because the women who are honest and true in their ability to be of consideration, if it's genuine, then it does not fade.. but the one's who are only considerate when they get what they want... the man soon feels that , and then he is not comfortable giving or doing anything for her, cause he can feel how he's used and affection is dispensed based on how he meets her whims of the moment.. it's strange, but people will learn that you can't fake life and expect to be happy, nor find a love that last..bullshit always dries up and blows away in the wind, or if it rains, it's dissolves and goes back into the earth... So... my regards to any and all omwen who learn and know what real in life and how to be a honest person... and not one of a prostituting mentality about life and with men..those women... are very worthy of a man's undying love.
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6/5/2006 9:16 am |
That's what keeps me always positive about what is love and what is it's beauty... maybe discussing some of the craziness, some may be able to get an over-view and work themselves out of such things... and grasp their life... rather than toy with it, by toying with others.. Shaira, it's good to see someone who can see the context of some of the things I write... thank you for the comment... I love it when somone takes it makes it progressive... I don't think people have to agree for it to be progressive, but I do like it when it's taken to a progressive summary..by and thru agreement or disagreement... progressive positivity... is the ultimate intent. 
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6/6/2006 7:20 am |
Virgo, your words are very wise.. I don't discount that some young women are with some sense of stability and progress in relation minded individuals. which I have to acknowledge, because age being not always a factor, but the individual and their hearts truth and their exposure unto life and accepting the nature of our immortality, not just in life in the process of living, by such I mean, habits die out that are vain and egocentric.. so the phases move quick, some they linger. The flash pretty, who take the stance that they can manipulate the world with their face and their ass, are a certain destructive force to anything that is stable.. but that is not to discount the fact that faces and butt's are a reality factor in our lives... but it's the one's who actually engage the mind, whom finds the fuller paths in life and, become less likely to be burned out and bitter. there is so much craziness in the life today, when people spend all thier time with one and then in later years, come to say, they have converted in their sexual orentation?.. so those who live flight in such ways, subject other's to live a lie and thus come to see they have not engaged their life in honesty and become disenchanted and think switching tacks will give them something different.. but they don't stop to consider how they groomed themselves in such manners. By that I mean people, who live with hidden thought's desires, and fears that bring them to resent themselves and, then resent their mate and, start looking at different tracks.. there is so much of this that it's insanity.. and the same one's will tell people that the spot between their legs' is not the ruler of them, but the end result is is .. is the choose of their path.. ( some won't like the comment)... but then some may not explore the intergration of pleasure and it's powers of deluding, illusions, consummation, and refuge of many sorts.. so it is a wise thing, to meet people who care and do have the strength of individualism to know themselves... and to accept themselves in their youthful years, that they many develop as a complete individual. There are some who go thru many different trips, to get to a reality of themselves, and some never do.. it's from one game to the next... and in the interm, many lives are damaged, by such I mean, not just the two involved, but the many that make what is an individuals life.. finding honesty is to find life, and finding truth is to fine honesty..and it's a hell of a pursuit. but quite beautiful if and when it's found.
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6/6/2006 7:30 am |
the whiner's... some women as I think, don't need a mr. fixt it... they can fix things themselves... and they don't need a whiner who cries at the slightest requirment of effort and challenges realities.. Women as I think, don't want to be smother they simply want to be loved, hugging and being warm and close is in and of itself an affectionate thing.. but, it does not mean one needs, to treat a woman as an invalid or some fragile piece of ceramic figurine.. that's why some women like the bit of bad boy, in a man, because, he's aware enought to go on about his business, and not lay around whine and play hurt by the directness of reality.. No man nor woman, want's to weigh every word that comes out of their mouth, nor have someone who can't deal with the fact that we as people are moody at times, and we are also impatient at times, and we are blunt, direct and short at times... but.. each one need's not take it as a loss of love, but a depth a understanding that gives love the bettter of potential to remain and grow in loving.. It's fine if today you don't want to be bothered, and tomorrow that you want to be bothered...  but that's where people need to come to understand each other in a broader prespective, rather than some bubble of romantic delusion, but not be so blind they loose the romantic inclusion within their infusion of relationship..yep, it takes a man to be with a woman, and a woman to be with a man.. 
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6/7/2006 10:28 am |
touch their is very good sound advice here from many of your friends,i hope indeed you will always listen to good advice and never stop being you.As your one of the best bloggers here who is real and speaks only of reality not fantasy.
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Touch, What you mentioned is pretty true. On this site some ppl are more absurd than reality bcoz they think virtual world can be easily abused. But trust still many are honest and worth friendship.
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2/5/2007 7:24 am |
Thank you... I appreciate your openess and your complimentary expression.. and wish for you the grace in all things.. smile
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