Fantasyroom 54F
773 posts
4/23/2006 5:45 pm

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Does She Have to Be Blind?

Out of some curiosity, she saw something she never wants to see in his bag, which made her upset. A friend persuaded her to have a talk with him, another friend suggested her to be blind to this. What do you think she should do?

It seems to be a wise choice that you have to be clear in the minds and eyes as well before the establishment of the relationship between men and women, and you have to be blind in the minds and eyes as well once the relationship has been set up in order to keep the steadiness. Many act on this. But what if you were blind when you were in love with the other?

Love is blind? How do you understand this?


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
4/24/2006 3:45 am

It is. In love sensivitity prevails. Ppl willingly choose to be blind even they see something.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

4/24/2006 5:58 am

swallowtsui writes Ppl willingly choose to be blind even they see something.

When we are in love I wonder how willing we really are? For myself, in the past, twice, I have seen and my mind has cautioned me to run, my intuition has counselled me to run but I did not.

Even though many years have passed, and the pain that swept through those relationships has softened with time, I have yet to have seen any other lesson than to really pay attention to my intuition...and run if that is the message.

Well, I quess as I write this, I can also say that I have learned, again, to listen to my intuition when I am guided to take the risk of opening my heart to love.


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
4/24/2006 5:57 pm

Thank you swallow and curious for your thoughts. I would choose to be blind if I were in the case. But I do think the pain broguht by this choice can not be erased with time passing. It will always remain there in the heart. However, we are still willing to take the risk of opening our heart to love.


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
4/24/2006 9:01 pm

Curious & Fantasy,

Love like you've never been hurt.

Shrug off the fears and surrender to love.


curious1948
(Richard )
76M

4/24/2006 9:54 pm

White flag waving vigourously.


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
4/25/2006 4:33 am

Ok, swallow, love will prevail finally!