Fantasyroom 54F
773 posts
5/4/2006 4:08 am

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9/25/2006 8:39 pm

Balance -- the Key to the Dilemma


" To be, or not to be, that is the question", this is the most typical dilemma Hamlet was in that we know from Shakespeare's play.

Yes, there are many moments in our life that we are in dilemma: moments that we're trapped in an environment that we don't want to be involved in; moments that we're sick and tired of our job that we feel like puking every time someone mentions our work; moments that we're depressed to be with people we dislike; moments that we're mad and frustrated over the tinies thing that disturbs our life and emotion; moments that we hate the world for all the misery it has brought upon us that really not...

How do we solve this?

Balance is the key.

Dream and take some positive action to move you toward your goals. Take it one step at a time. But while you're slowly crawling into the long journey to success, be patient and be as enthusiastic as possible. Don't hurry up too much that you totally forget how to enjoy life.

Life is a journey. If you are ready for it, just start it with the courage and desire to improve your life. Survive and go through it with persistence, enthusiasm, and positive thinking. Finish it with a resounding bang of accomplishment and with the desire to help others succeed as well.

Then you will lead a life that you have always dreamed of...

Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
5/4/2006 4:29 am

To be balanced in our thoughts and behavior is not easy sometimes in our daily life. However, we are learning to do it on the journey of life and learn to embrace the unlovable. Life will be different!


Granula_01
(Apache )
47M

5/4/2006 9:16 am

Life...is a big field.
1-One harvest what he seeds;
2- there is no slave;
3- everyone is the master of his own life;
4- evrything is good...joy and distress are equally good for life.
This is, I think...the deep meaning of life.
Once you hunderstand this and practice it...you become FREE...TOTALY FREE


touch213 70M

5/4/2006 10:12 am

is the farthest and greatest journey a any man may travel..
for it is riddled with many things, it is wrought with the tribulations of things undreamed and yet unthought... it is to walk in blindness and know not of what is light..
It is a path that leads down alley ways of darkness and pathways that ae unchartered...
It holds mystreys that are of a bewildernment, that defies logic, and will mock the justments of wisdoms expressions.. it will delude by the temptation and allure of the body, and the consumption of pretnetions of pleasure.. it will evoke lust, and plague one with test of jealousy, and thus bufuddle one in the trials of her search for justments that cannot accept what is truth.. it will onsume one into statement and re-statements of feeling , as if it will trust not what is spoken by you, and bring one to feel he must win daily that which her affction and considerations is... it will test a man thru trial of tasks, that judge not just him, but judges his love... and still she find not trust in you.. bt bring unto you doubt of every sort.

these things.. bring to many pains and task that destroy the eforts of what can be loving... therefore a man must know.. if her desire for him, is born of jealousy that she must prove to other women, or a quest to win what she feel elates her ego in the eyes of other women.. simply to win... wha she feel other want..
then her ove is of her ego .. and not of the man.

and he who find a woman that can love true.. because it is love she values.. he thne has found a treasure that is greatr than the gold of the world and spakle greater than the highly polishee jewel.. and this shall be known by the honor she show unto him, with him... and the bargaining not of her passion, but the giving of her passion in the appreciation that touch, yet too smile from her heart to your.. this you can feel.. and it's feeling is without a doubt.. but of natural.. gracefulness and honor.

it is this woman... you can "SLOWLY", YEILD UNTO WHaT IS YOUR TRUST.. THaT IT A GROWth INTO what is LOVE...
BUT BE WISE MEN.. LET NOT INFACTUATION BLIND YOU FOR DECEPTION SHALL CONSUME YOU AND THE PAIN AND HATRED FOR THE ESSENCE OF WHT IS THaT WOMAN... SHALL NOT BE OVEr-COME BY APOLOGY NOR OF TIMES TEST.. and her deciet.. will forever.. bring to you.... a disdain for what is of woman..and shatter your trust in fragments...of a million pieces..

FOR DOUTBTS SHALL PLAGUE WITH YOU... TO TRUST NOT.. THE GIVING THaT IS NATURAL UNTO YOUR HEART... AND MISERY SHALL BE WHAT REPLACE THE THOUGHTS OF LOVE..and /// to lolve a woman.. shall be a fhallenge greater than any task known to mankind.

SO to each man be of care in that which you fall prey unto in the name of love... and let love come unto you...unless it is true of what is love.. for it's truth, cannot be shadowed in the pretenses , the allures and the temptation nor the treachery .. that work by the installitation of guilts and test... and you shall then come to know a woman... far above those of female nature who pretned to be of a woman..

and you will then have found a woman.. who is capable of loving whom is you, and will honor you as a man..


swallowtsui 51F
1431 posts
5/5/2006 4:09 am

Fantacy,

Life is a journey, this is your famous quote.

You have a positive attitude to life, you are generous as well.

If we take on life positively and beautifully, we may have a nice journey.

But life is also a very fickle journey, so much uncontrollable elements - shall we call it fate if we cant succeed?


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
5/5/2006 9:58 pm

Granula and touch, thank you for your thoughts.


Fantasyroom 54F
842 posts
5/5/2006 10:18 pm

swallow, you are a smart woman.

Yes, life can be a frickle journey and sometimes we have no alternative but to take it. Calling it fate or not depends on the way you look at it and whether you believe in it or not.