Are Asian Women Really Attracted To Black Men
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Posted:Feb 17, 2006 11:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2006 6:27 pm 5743 Views
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A friend of mine asked me what I thought about Asian women liking black men. A little history about myself. I have lived and worked in Asia for 7 years, and of all the women I have loved in my life she was Asian. Now back to the topic.
I think some Asian women are and of course some are not and that is their choice. So what better place to come for information than to an Asian dating site. I have been a member on here for about 7 days now, and have gone through hundread of female ads. I must say that the overall answer would be NO. Then I start to think why is that. There could be many reasons, but I believe it is culture, then I think it is the way black people in general are shown on T.V. mainly the news.
As I sit here and write this, the thought maybe Asian people in general think that people should stay with their own race. Hmmm I wonder. Thinking more about this was the same way white people thought 50 years ago that black people should go back to Africa. Trust me people, it was not our choice to come here from the start. Before anyone starts to think that black people are mean, have you ever thought that we might have a reason. I remember when I was a my grandfather told me a story that when he was living in California, the only time he really felt equal was when the U.S. Government sent many thousands of Asians to the camps.
Anyway, on this site, I have sent a few messages to women and no response. I look at their friends list and see plenty of white men listed there. This may be because their are not many black men here.
In closing, let me tell you a little something about the black race. Not all black men have been in jail, we don't all listen to music, we don't all get government handouts, there are many black executive in major U.S. corporations and if you like peanut butter, you should say thank you to a black chemist.
Overall, black men are very close to their mothers and have better respect for women than most cultures. We believe very much in the family bond and we raise our to have more than we did. We love like other, we cry when we hurt, we have feelings and deserve respect just for the fact that we are humna beings like everyone else.
I read in many women profiles that they are open monded. How can anyone be open minded when you cannot be open to a possible relationship with a man because of the color of his skin. God created us all in his "OWN IMAGE" I am not saying that black men would make a better partner than an Asian or White man.
In closing, this was not meant to offened anyone no matter your race, but it is my way of expressing what I belive is an uneven playing field and as I stated before, every person a right to be attracted to whom they like.
I hope to hear back from many people on this topic, but I ask that if you do respond that you look into your heart and express your true feelings.
Regards,
Ron
Love who you are and not what others want you to be.
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