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Be a fragrant Flower... 3/26/2006
"Man is born alone and he must pass away alone and in
aloneness the whole truth of life hidden alone."
These findings of Lord Buddha hide in it the bitter truth
of the philosophy of life. We are alone at the time of birth
and we have to go alone towards the funeral pyre. Throughout
our journey we have to meet many passengers {friends, relatives
as well as enemies}... No one wait for us. ...
2 Comments, 143 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Stability 3/26/2006
You can remain stable when you learn applying a full stop
to unproductive thoughts... You are braver than you believe,
stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think... fast
thinking with slow actions, fast actions with slow thinking
are idealistic...
The quality of your thinking that guides your intelligence
is far more important than the amount of intelligence you
actually have.... ...
3 Comments, 240 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Is it that bad? or Good? 3/23/2006
Every woman I know, those who are in relationships or are
married. Every of them are naggers with their men. Alot
of time, in front of me, of course, I back off then when it
is done. Usually, women come and pour it out on me as I listens.
Few of their comments were understood and rest of it, doesn't
see the point to do that. When it comes for me, I hardly ever
nags because I know better ...
2 Comments, 274 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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to cherish true love that you own now 3/23/2006
I couldn't sleep last nigt for a touching sorrowful
love story and I learned much from how it conveys deep emotion
with calm.
The story was written originally in chinese and I feel like
to share the real emotion with all sincere people living
on the earth. so i translated it into English and hopefully
it can help lovers to become happy and understanding couple
who cherish fate for each ...
2 Comments, 70 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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12 Ways to Make Peace with Your Body 3/16/2006
12 Ways to Make Peace with Your Body
<br>
1. Quit dissecting your body. Love the whole you.
2. Don't punish your body by playing mind games with
food. Food is not the enemy. Eat healthy but don't obsess.
Allowing yourself to enjoy treats helps prevent bingeing
and keeps you in control.
3. Focus on who you are, not just on what your body looks like.
Acknowledge the whole you, not ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Personal ads 3/13/2006
Most people on the dating sites with the intention to find
the love of their lives. However, some people do it the wrong
way. Understanding we all have a chance to meet several
people from all over the world. When we meet someone, we
don't know where the relationship will lead to whether
just a friendship or a romantic relationship. Whatever
the case maybe, I feel that being upfront and ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS 3/8/2006
It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone
stalks you over the internet.
Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION
Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have
been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal
or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't
get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People
are paying ...
2 Comments, 108 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Changing Your Identity to Avoid Crazy Ex-Spouses! 2/22/2006
4 Different Ways to Change Your Identity
This information is intended to help people with the following
or similar problems and do not encourage people to use this
information to become a professional scam artist, or the
evade personal responsibilities in their lives.
Intended for people with the following problems.
Help individuals escape from vindictive
ex-spouses, ...
2 Comments, 129 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Try not to “Convince” him to like you.... 2/19/2006
What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY
like... but he's just not that interested or isn't
as serious?
Right! They try to "convince" the man to feel
differently. Well, I have news for you...
<br>
YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN "FEELS" WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
<br>
Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a man to feel differently
about you with ...
0 Comments, 63 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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want to find a really awesome woman eventually. 2/19/2006
Do you have any advice for a guy on where to find a really awesome
woman for a long-term relationship?
2 Comments, 99 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Really Need A Gift? 2/19/2006
Amy and James were university classmates.
<br>
James loved Amy while he never told Amy or anybody about
that. He decided that he would told Amy on her next birthday,
and he would buy a perfect birthday gift for her.
<br>
In fact, Amy was attracted by James too. James was smart
and kind to everyone he met. He was handsome too. And Amy
often stared at James on class, ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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This to shall pass! 2/14/2006
If you are struggling with depression or a broken heart,
know that it will eventually pass, even though at the time
it seems like the emotional pain will last forever. It won't,
trust me, I know.
<br>
Life throws us a curve ball every now and then and sometimes
life throws us a cannon ball. As long as you are alive there
is hope. The tricky part is to keep your mind in the present ...
5 Comments, 184 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Cultural Differences 2/13/2006
CULTURAL DIFFERENCES
<br>
So you want to date or marry someone from another culture?
How much have you thought about this decision? Do you really
know what you’re getting yourself into? Because I am serious
about being with someone from another culture, and I’ve
already experienced some of the good and bad parts of this,
I have decided to share some of the things I ...
2 Comments, 464 Views,
31 Votes
,6.31 Score
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Why does it hurt? 2/12/2006
This does not refer to breaking up!!!
It hurts when you are alone,
it hurts when you break up,
it hurts when you can't have someone who is already
in a relationship,
It hurts when you are waiting for the first phone call.
<br>
Why do we do this to ourselves?
1 Comments, 131 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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What would you do for love? 1/19/2006
WHAT WOULD YOU DO FOR YOUR LOVE?
<br>
What would you do for someone you love that is willing to
leave their life, family, country, and culture behind
to come and live with you? The best answer is to try to put
yourself into their shoes and think about what you would
want to help make your new home more like your old home, and
make you less homesick. Here is what I believe to be a ...
2 Comments, 399 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Love Quotes: Long Distance 1/9/2006
"I just want to hug you, but your are 480 some miles
away, what I wouldn't do for a hug."
<br>
"I wish that you were here or that I were there, or that
we were together anywhere!"
<br>
"And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth
until the hour of separation."
<br>
"Before I sleep and after I wake up and all the hours
in between ... you occupy my mind. ...
0 Comments, 148 Views,
8 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Trying to Please Everybody... 1/4/2006
When nothing can go wrong,
It will!
Nothing is ever as easy as it seems
Everything cost more than you have and takes longer
If you try to please everybody...
Somebody won't like it...
It's easier to get into a thing than out of it
Whatever you really want to do,
You'll have to do something else...
FIRST!!!
<br>
<br>
Oh Life!!!
1 Comments, 127 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Chinese women traveling to the US 12/14/2005
Ok, before I get shot down on asking this question I want
to say I have looked for the answer till my eyes got blurry.
I have met several Chinese women who I would like to meet
in person. I am unable to go to China now due to a change in
jobs, no vacation time. I would therefore like for them
to come here. One of them says it it easy to travel and the
others say it is difficult. I ...
1 Comments, 216 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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I need One of those special Radars 12/7/2005
Ever want to experiment with someone of the same sex but
wouldnt ever know where to start, even if you have the internet
so handy and the clubs so assessible (yet lousy crowd especially
in the SF area for women)? <br>
Like HOW DO YOU KNOW if someone Is or Is Not attracted to those
of the same sex. For me, i can only tell with strangers that
i dont know when they pass me by and look ...
0 Comments, 159 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Bringing a New Wife to America 12/4/2005
Hey All,
<br>
If you are serious about bringing a foreign lady to America,
I run across this web site noted below.
<br>
It has a wealth of information in it about what it takes to
make it happen.
<br>
So, if you are looking to make your sweet AFF gal your wife,
this site will help in making the move!
<br>
Peace to All!
<br>
...
1 Comments, 211 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Making her happy. 11/20/2005
Well, after a lot of trial and error I think I finally found
someone who I think I can really be happy with and who I want
to make happy also.
Thing is, while I have a moderate amount of experience with
women, I have absolutely no experience with meeting a woman
from the internet with the intent of starting a family.
I was hoping if anyone here has any experience with this
and perhaps can ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Why are their so many ladies from Cina on AFF? 11/17/2005
I am just curius why there are so many ladies fron CHINA ON
aff? wHY IS IT SO HARD FOR THEM TO GET VISAS?
1 Comments, 209 Views,
22 Votes
,2.89 Score
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Achieving Your Dreams 11/17/2005
Achieving Your Dreams
<br>
While most people spend most of their lives
struggling to earn a living, a much
smaller number seem to have everything going
their way. Instead of just earning
a living, the smaller group is busily working at
building and enjoying a
fortune. Everything just seems to work out for
them. And here sits the much
larger group, wondering how ...
1 Comments, 396 Views,
32 Votes
,7.18 Score
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Comment on "Love of Money" 11/17/2005
Regarding Mystik's article: For...Love of Money.
I agree on many of the points made. However, I feel I should
also write something in defense of the men who put financial
information in their profiles.
<br>
People on this site come from all over the world and have
very different life experiences. A lot of middle aged men
(any race) started from humble beginnings, and worked ...
1 Comments, 325 Views,
34 Votes
,5.76 Score
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do you think ? 11/17/2005
do you think you can love your partner more than you love
yourself? my answer is no..
i always think people should have their own s\pace and time,
i don't really understand why people love to stay together
all the time. maybe i'm not a lovely girl. i don't
know! ...all i know is if someone love you more than you love
that guy.. you are in trouble, coz you will feel hard to breathe
and ...
1 Comments, 231 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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How Do You Treat Those You love? 11/17/2005
I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way saying good-bye.
But at home a difference is told,
how we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My stood beside me very still.
As I ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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8 Ways To Handle An Argument 11/17/2005
Let's face it, no one is perfect. No matter how hard
you try, or how loving and respectful of a couple you are,
you are bound to get into a disagreement once in a while.
With a few tips though, it doesn't have to be something
that can harm your relationship. The next time you feel
an argument starting to form keep in mind these 8 ways to
handle an argument!
<br>
1. Give your ...
2 Comments, 662 Views,
20 Votes
,5.81 Score
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looking for a besfriend to stay through thick and thin forever 11/15/2005
after 2 months of being a member of AFF, still i havn't
find a friend who struggles to communicate with me regularly,
and since i am only a standard member with a very limited
access i really cant do anything but to wait and check on
who are the persons viewing me evryday...huh this is life
so i have to be contented wih this set up...
1 Comments, 183 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Chinese Visa to America 11/11/2005
How difficult is it for a Chinese Lady to get a Visa to visit
a man in America?
I believe that I read that this is tough to obtain and was
wondering if anyone has gone thru this process.
2 Comments, 412 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Trying to Please Everybody... 11/2/2005
When nothing can go wrong,
It will!
Nothing is ever as easy as it seems
Everything cost more than you have and takes longer
If you try to please everybody...
Somebody won't like it...
It's easier to get into a thing than out of it
Whatever you really want to do,
You'll have to do something else...
FIRST!!!
<br>
<br>
Oh Life!!!
1 Comments, 216 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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