kayr23 45 F
29  Articles
缘,只在眼泪中   4/22/2004

佛说:前世五百次的回眸换来今生的擦肩而过 <br> 我喝了酒。 我抱着肩膀说我愿意什么都给你 只要你开口 <br> 因为 那是我欠你的 <br> 阳光温柔得如丝如绸 抚过肌肤 温和,柔情 <br> 我没有醉 两口红酒对我来说不算什么 可我却觉得心口火辣辣疼 <br> ...


0 Comments, 451 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
jinshyodoru 39 F
1  Article
Learning to leave love   4/15/2004

I believed that everyone had pondered about love at least once in their life. Its mere existence complicates everything there is about life. To me, love is beautiful, bitter, sweet and every bit as painful. <br> I met my ex last summer and although initially I was taken by his good looks, I learned to love him as I start to see all sides of him. From the very first day we met, ...


1 Comments, 396 Views, 41 Votes ,5.20 Score
martin153 67 M
4  Articles
"Getting over it" is not the same as "falling out of love".   2/16/2004

I think that when you love someone and they reject you, then you go through stages, like there are stages that a person goes through when they are experiencing a loss through bereavement. First of all you feel that everything is hopeless and you feel “empty inside”, then you might attempt (more than once) reconciliation with them, by calling them or even turning up at their ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 57 Votes ,8.01 Score
LovelyTune2003 57 F
3  Articles
RE: Why we can't stay together   9/15/2003

I do not want to judge others' experience, but to me people often break because their minds are full of dreams and they wish people to fit exactly in them. But it may rise conflits and if people cannot manage well and be less self-focused, break-up might be difficult to avoid. Only a few people understand that being together is doing small COMPROMISES. Compromising doesn't mean being ...


0 Comments, 596 Views, 37 Votes ,7.05 Score
allyshrek 45 M
4  Articles
Pain of heartbreak   9/10/2003

The heartache is painful And tears drop like the rainfall But pass will time And just like this rhyme All will be forgotten And you won't feel so rotten


0 Comments, 2153 Views, 22 Votes ,1.69 Score
197334 50 F
6  Articles
RE: TO move on or to hold on ...   9/7/2003

Its is an artical nice for the words but hypocritical from your heart! You are the one who only loves yourself I think or you will never just want to blame on the other insteady of CHEAK OF YOU BACK OF YOUR NECK! If your lover left you there was must a reason for her leave. If you cant hold you love tightly then it is reasonable be left by your lover as well. Love is a magic thing, ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 21 Votes ,3.62 Score
197334 50 F
6  Articles
Re---------Why things dont last   9/7/2003

If thing like what you said in your artical, then I should say it is your fault!!! It is very clearly that you were not loyal to her and you even cheated the feeling of yourself for being love her, instead of this you degenerated yourself by fooling aroud. Do you think this is the kind of person SHE loved? And I must say, what you should do is asking for her forgive!!! SO, Now you know ...


0 Comments, 1088 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
Rickmac05 67 M
2  Articles
Why we can't stay together   9/7/2003

People break up for several reasons, (1) she doen't love him or he doesn't love her. (2) She never loved him or he never loved her. (3) She doen't know what real love is or he doesn't know what real love is. (4)The two of them just never really connected with each other. (5) It takes time and work, not just time to make a relationship work and if only one part of the two does the work or ...


0 Comments, 422 Views, 18 Votes ,5.44 Score
LovelyTune2003 57 F
3  Articles
RE: TO move on or to hold on ...   9/5/2003

I was negatively impressed by the tone of this breaking-up article, because it is somewhat pretentious and not completely honest. I don't know whether it is easier to leave someone than to be left! But there is a saying in a foreign language that says that when you want to get rid of your dog, you say it had rage. It would be more honest to say, one had to break because one were not ...


1 Comments, 268 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
how-are-ya 49 F
2  Articles
TO move on or to hold on....   8/6/2003

There's always a reason why we have to move on... To say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever, for love has to set its wings free and find the right place where it should be. <br> I cry for the time you were almost mine, I cry for the memories you've left behind, I cry for the times I thought I had you. <br> Never take for granted the person who truly ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 32 Votes ,6.71 Score
knightquixotic 59 M
2  Articles
Leave Them the Good Things to Remember   8/3/2003

You should avoid leading someone into falling in love until you are sure of your feelings for them. Still, if your relationship fails, you should always leave the other person with the best of you have to offer, so their memory of you will endure. You must be honest and let them know that the relationship is finished. Everyone deserves honesty. But honesty is not the same as cruelty. ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 26 Votes ,6.91 Score
how-are-ya 49 F
2  Articles
Love does hurts...   8/2/2003

I first met this guy several months ago ( we met online), and since we both from different cities, we been trying hard to meet at least once/twice a month, about 1000km far. <br> This 3 days Aug.long weekend, we planned a long road trip, and decided to meet in the middle and go from there, but unfortunately because of the forest fire, all the major route was closed and I waited 7 ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 18 Votes ,5.72 Score
goodfriendyo 43 F
1  Article
Ref: How to tell a girl it the time to move on.   7/18/2003

The best way is to give her some hints that you think are appropriate for her, if you not tell her about this, she will continue misunderstanding, I think she will understand this slowly and get chances to find the appropriate one after that!


0 Comments, 92 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
dalatvn 55 F
9  Articles
Re: My breakup story   4/6/2003

No. not all girls are like that. You allowed her to walk all over you. This could happen to anyone. Guys do the same thing if the girl allows him to step on her. It's time to cut the tie and move on. One one should get drag around like a rag doll. You seem like her sounding board. I bet you bought her ton of presents too didn't you?


0 Comments, 132 Views, 20 Votes ,4.40 Score
Starry1976 39 F
1  Article
My break-up story   3/14/2003

<br> Dear friends, <br> i want to write to you all about my break-up story. I am feeling so sad because my man told me that we both need to concentrate on our own staff: me on my school and internship, he on his work and putting his life together. I am very young (26), attractive woman, i am Asian. He is 43, African American. So, he left a meesage for me saying that ...


0 Comments, 219 Views, 51 Votes
Nadine888 57 F
1  Article
Re-"Re-I love him.."   3/6/2003

Thanks for your reply. Yes, that is what I think too. A is a to love, no matter the color of his/her skin. Yet, many men would still get scared to get involved in something they think will put the relationship at risk. If I can remember well, there is a Chinese proverb, saying the Duke of Ye or She liked dragon so much, but when he saw a real dragon one day, he got very scared and ran ...


0 Comments, 201 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
funnyface2 59 F
1  Article
Re: "I love him"   3/1/2003

Regarding the article submitted 2/27, I was very sorry to hear your story. The tragic irony is that the two of you probably didn't have to suffer the abortion at all, if he had had the courage to face his parents. For most Chinese parents, a pregnant foreign -in-law may come as a shock at first, but the joy of having a grandchild more than makes up for it! Many Chinese parents would have ...


0 Comments, 123 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
LovelyTune2003 57 F
3  Articles
I love him, I'm pregnant, but he finds all kind of reasons to abort   2/27/2003

I had a very serious love romance with someone I cherished. We wanted to get married. But many obstacles appeared on our way before we can hope to hear the wedding bells. I was divorcing (I'd never hidden any facts to him), and he seemed reluctant to talk about our relationship to his Chinese family and friends, as he promised them he would not get married with a foreign lady. But we were ...


0 Comments, 241 Views, 45 Votes ,7.83 Score
destinydynasty 40 F
1  Article
Breaking up is for a reason   2/4/2003

Breaking up is sometimes hard to deal with but it's exactly how life is. If you don't break up then how can you find that love of yours today?Breaking is for a good reason. It can be if a person losees chemistry with you and you can help ask what or why is there no chemistry? But a person can't explain it's how they feel and you can't change a person's feelings..If two people dont' have ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 21 Votes ,5.23 Score
angel_girl724 40 F
2  Articles
心碎的冰咖啡   7/27/2002

 他只喝清咖啡 苦苦的  我只喝冰咖啡 即使在最冷的天气里  那时我们常去那间咖啡屋  坐那临窗的位子  ……  我和他都是固执的人  是不是因为这样  才处不下去  才走到要分手  ……  我不知道  ……  很久没见后的某一天  他出现在我的面前 ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 0 Votes
vacuum_moli 48 F
1  Article
爱的破灭----柔肠百转终是伤   7/27/2002

《不如归去》 那天 一晚无眠,清晨早起 上网,见你 沉醉于迷雾森林 邀请你进入我的心灵 伤人的话语,现实的隔距 我的灵魂触摸不到你 八年前的初恋已经远行 <br> 下网 坐在窗台 风来,雨起 心湖泛起阵阵涟漪 过去的回忆,你的眼睛 上次的聊天,温柔的话语 ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
reyui 50 M
1  Article
不知道这个世界是否有真爱   5/14/2002

我和她相识在完年前,我们有过甜蜜,只是现在我们有了一些矛盾。她就离我远去。真的我好想她,为何情到深处。却有如此遗憾。我好感慨,难道世界上真的没有真爱?


0 Comments, 123 Views, 0 Votes
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
try to replenish that 100 memories....   1/31/2002

" while snow flowers flying on the shy, can you hear there is a song in heaven?" I said... " I want to meet you." you said... <br> Drawing us on a beach picture with a red kite on sky... <br> " Are you still there? I can't hear you..." I used to say "yes, I am still there..." you used to say. <br> Try to heal a insect bite on your finger.. <br> Think about ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
I am travelling to meet my friend....   1/30/2002

Friends here, let's share it.... <br> Cheerless is the day, the light under frowning clouds islike a punished with traces of tears on its pale cheeks, and the cry of the wind is like the cry of a wounded world. But I know I am travelling to meet my Friend. <br> Tagore - Stray Bird


0 Comments, 56 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
If you need my tears to pay for yours... you win   1/30/2002

You always say that many people in the world are so cruel. Did you notise that you have become one of them? Hate has blinded your eyes. Can you forgive others as easily as you forgive yourself? You always say life is not simple. Well, why did you see things between us in a simple way? I didn't. I know very well people's feeling are very complicated and confused sometimes. That's one of the ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
When the come to say good bye ... learn from it.   1/29/2002

When the breaking up time come, don't try to blame the other but come to face you own fault. The ending of the story is created by both of you two. Not just one person. Sincerely appologize for the hurt you caused to the other. Forgive the other at the same time. Hate can only eat the hater's own heart. Face your own fault. Learn from it. So no matter how sad the ending is it is worthy ...


0 Comments, 110 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
something about giving chance....   1/29/2002

When your lover asked you give a chance, will you give it to him? It is a war inside ourselves. Will you come back to a person who hurt you badly? Will you come back to a person who ever cheat you? No one can answer these question except you. Most of time, wheather or not we give out a chance is upto ourselves not what the other one did. The reason is quite simple.Well, you can see this ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
CarrieZhang 51 F
8  Articles
you are not my imagnation...   1/29/2002

You are not my imagnation. You are my first love. <br> I know no one can be perfect. I am not. You are not. I nevertry to find my perfect dream from you. Although, we did chat on line many many hours, but, when you came into my real life, you still was a stranger. It's the first time, I feel that you are such real. It is the frist time, you are not just words and voice. I was so ...


0 Comments, 1440 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
kinabaloo 61 M
6  Articles
If you love an imagination ...   1/27/2002

If you love an imagination you will forever argue with your real-life true love - because he is not the person in your mind. You will drive them crazy, and drive them away. Then, when all is lost, accuse 'him' of being in love with an imagination ... !


0 Comments, 192 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
kinabaloo 61 M
6  Articles
What a happy world !   1/25/2002

What a happy world It would be, If each of us Could follow Their own advice !


0 Comments, 1 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score