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Say No 3/17/2008
We say "yes" to others because
we want to please them. But when eventually we can't
continue, we let them down and we feel guilty. Both parties
suffer. Recognize that a desire to please often prevents
us from saying no.
Stick to your plan. If you have a written
set of goals and strategies, this gives you a reason to stick
to your course. ("Thanks, ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
3 Votes
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Horns reach new height of obnoxiousness 3/15/2008
As soon as you veer onto one
of the city’s busier streets, you notice how comfortable
some people are honking their horns.
Even though they must realize
that little can be done, that the people in front of them
cannot move or go faster no matter how tumultuously they
toot, they still honk and honk and ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
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Heartnreak Formula 1/4/2008
It was a cold windy night of December when I saw a figure crying
hard in front of me and was losing his sanity. I approached
him more closely to ask what was wrong with him. He cried
more hysterically and held my hand towards his chest.
“Can you feel anything?” he asked.
At that very moment, I was stoned backright there in shock.
I could not feel his heart beating, ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
5 Votes
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yes breaking up is really painful.. 1/2/2008
its really painful to broke up w/someone.. specially wen your relationship is really serious..then
you already build many ups and down ..and suddenly your
dream to be together to him/her has Gone! ouch....
but, Hey!! its not the end of the world then.. all we have to do is to think positive.. that always put on our mind that his/her is not better for
us..sooner or later someone will ...
2 Comments, 48 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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I had that before I knew you... 12/10/2007
The song "Breaking up is hard to do" doesn't
even scratch the surface. Sure it is a emotional and stressful
time. But it is much easier than divorce. There the woman
has the advantage. You might think half...but it is more
like 80 - 20 in her favor. Forget what you had before you knew
here. Thats hers now. Forget about the car you work so hard
to get. Hers. You can keep your cloths. Unless you ...
2 Comments, 43 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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is it some simple 11/26/2007
as it happened to me
1 Comments, 35 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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sssssssssssssssssssssssssss 11/20/2007
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2 Votes
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westeners 10/24/2007
Westerners are fools, intruders all where is it written that they know best where in the hell did they take that test why did we lose our land to others not here first, when others fled did they get their house back or did they but start again where they landed Westerners are fools, intruders all my religion is fine by me, oh yes they came changed every thing my god of yesteryear was wrong they ...
2 Comments, 46 Views,
12 Votes
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Leave room for both to break with dignity... 10/22/2007
Leave room for both to break with dignity...
The curiosity was there. The emails where honest and open.
Then came the first date. Boy sparks flew! A few more dates
later, and you share a private time. Wow, what an experience.
After a few months, things slowly change. You don't
care for their political fews. They think you have stinky
feet. Their parents are to ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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What to do? 10/16/2007
The History: I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman
from China. We have been together for a while, and we get
along terrific. We do not want to lose each other for we make
each otehr very happy. Now she is in China and I've returned
to the U.S. and we are still going strong, with plans of me
coming back to China for a couple months next year so we can
potentially plan a more strong future ...
2 Comments, 78 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Tombstone 10/14/2007
A husband and his wife had a bitter quarrel on the day of their
wedding anniversary.The husband gave his wife a gift-
a tombstone, with the inscription:"Here lies my
wife-cold as ever.Later the furious wife bought a return
present-also a tombstone-on which the inscription read:"HERE
LIES MY HUSBAND-STIFF AT LAST".
0 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
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Clinging to pain only punishes ourselves 9/10/2007
Painful situations, relationships hurt us, memories
of experiences that pinch our nerve endings, need not imprison
us.
However, we are seldom very quick to let go of the pain. Instead,
we become obsessed with it, the precipitating circumstances,
and the longed for, but often missed outcome.
We often wallow in our pain, rather than learn from it. We
salt our wounds every time we ...
5 Comments, 81 Views,
10 Votes
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love can be at different level 8/13/2007
in this world, everyone is unique. nobody else can substitute
others. the pain and hurt will never be easy. you will never
forget him. but, you will find the peace of heart when the
time goes by and, you will rebuild up yourself at a different
level and open yourself again for the love and the life ahead
of you.
After you walked out from the previous relationship, you
lost your sleep for ...
5 Comments, 148 Views,
16 Votes
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what tell a person 's real personality when it is the time to say good bye 8/12/2007
everybody was ever in the relationship, eveybody is looking
for his or her true love. on the way of finding the destiny,
bump up with wrong person, wrong timing, wron relationship.
have to be mentally strong to stand all these.
but really feel when it is the time to say good bye. how you
say that really make people so different. some people decided
to say that in a very ugly way, ...
3 Comments, 103 Views,
12 Votes
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Signs of Cheating 7/26/2007
Have you ever caught your partner cheating?
If not, then what are the signs that he/she's cheating
on you? 
Are you still willing to give him a second chance to improve
and change?
If there's no hope to give it one more try, what's
your next move?
22 Comments, 230 Views,
12 Votes
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hi 7/21/2007
how are you all ? x
1 Comments, 30 Views,
2 Votes
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Yes most break ups are painful 7/14/2007
This pain can cause anger, emotional or physical sickness,
feelings of lack of worth, deep sadness, betrayal, vulnerability,
lack of feeling physically attractive or emotionally
available (especially if their was infidelity involved)
I have not spoken to my ex-girlfriend for approximately
10 years when she contacted me by e-mail the other day. She
lives in South Korea now and is married. ...
9 Comments, 172 Views,
16 Votes
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my story of friendship, relationship, marriage?? 7/9/2007
Hi there,
Although i had 4 relationships before ( including my marriage)
I think I have to say it's not EASY to build and maintain
a strong relationship. My marriage only last for about
one year, got married in the last day of June, but separation
started next April, got divorced in Aug. I'm quite
happy of being single again. 
Don't know why, maybe i'm just too nice and ...
6 Comments, 94 Views,
12 Votes
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steps to breaking up 7/1/2007
The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking UpWhen you need to do it, do it with
as little pain as possible! by owen
Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled
with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved
agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways,
there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best
way to approach a break up is to ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
7 Votes
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steps to breaking up 7/1/2007
The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking UpWhen you need to do it, do it with
as little pain as possible! by owen
Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled
with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved
agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways,
there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best
way to approach a break up is to ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Love 6/16/2007
When a woman falls in love with a man, it's a tragedy,
and vice versa. When a the two love each other, that's
a blessing. But in this world, there are more tragedy than
blessing.
2 Comments, 97 Views,
15 Votes
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BMW engineer vs God 5/25/2007
An engineer, of the BMW Motorrad Corporation died and went
to heaven.
At the gates St. Peter told him, "Since you've
been such a good man and your motorbikes have changed the world,
your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven".
The Engineer thought about it for a minute and then said,
"I want to hang out with God." St. Peter took
him to the Throne ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
7 Votes
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lessons she learnt 4/27/2007
The stars and trees had reminded her of him. The way they
littered the sky in all their shining glory, took her back
to when they had sat sometimes in silence and often in warm
embrace.
The breeze was different where he was. The trees knew it
all along, but not she. Or perhaps she had never taken the
time to notice it. How the wind had caressed her face and
skin and whispered to her that ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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How we can in love? 4/11/2007
Do you belive in love on distance?
Do you think that can be true. I think yes that's normal. That's nothing special. I think if two people love they can to bear a distance....
4 Comments, 108 Views,
19 Votes
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Question of the day 4/2/2007
How many times will I be able to write random, nonsensicle
articles solely for the purpose of getting the points?
0 Comments, 81 Views,
19 Votes
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UK Marriage Survey 3/9/2007
Here are some interesting marriage
statistics from the UK.
Reasons for marriage breakdowns include:
27% - Adulterous behavior
18% - Family strains
17% - Emotional/physical abuse
13% - Mid-life crisis
6% - Workaholism
6% - Addictions (alcoholism, gambling, etc.)
4% - Business problems
4% - Other (communication problems, ...
11 Comments, 153 Views,
14 Votes
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74 2/23/2007
mama looks gone she is crying gin into the thighs of another decade
and glazed feminist by her side with the parts of chauvinism as my guide
dive into flowers at half century
wondering at your petals and cemetery...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
5 Votes
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54 2/23/2007
7 years I'm blown away
my all dead never had any
the idea never got any ground to takeoff
and the mass of my arse is equal to the farce
Don't age and regret a page at sunset
0 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
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Be considerate 2/17/2007
Treat others as you want to be treated
0 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
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Breaking up and moving on... 2/12/2007
Breaking
up is never fun.
The end of a
relationship means
the beginning of a period of mourning
and healing for both people.
If the break up was mutual both
people will experience a period
of adjustment where they are
getting used to no longer being
together.
If the break up was not mutual
the person who ended things
may be ...
3 Comments, 150 Views,
29 Votes
,5.65 Score
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