ke5541 33 M
10  Articles
The Crazy Ones   2/11/2007

What is your advice for the really crazy ones? I think many of us have met some girls or boys that were really nice at first. Then the relationship got worse and worse and her/his true personality showed. You try becoming a worse g/f b/f to them to make them break up with you. It doesn't work. They threaten you while keep saying how much they love you.
How do people deal with ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
underyoux 57 M
1  Article
test   1/31/2007

this is just a test


3 Comments, 46 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
terryaki 70 M
11  Articles
internet break up   1/22/2007

Most of the time, my internet contacts ends when the woman just stops writing. Is this considered rude? If you don't want to hurt someone, it is better to be honest, or can that be considered rude?


0 Comments, 50 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
mybluebike 38 F
2  Articles
a dear John letter AND a dear Jane letter   1/7/2007

Dear Husband:
I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you for good.
I've been a good woman to you for seven years and I have nothing to show for it. These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell me that you had quit your job today and that was the last straw. Last week, you came home and didn't notice that I had gotten my hair and ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 27 Votes ,4.71 Score
lexxventura 48 M
2  Articles
is it possible to stay friends after the break up?   12/31/2006

I have recently gone through a break up and it was sudjsetes by her to stay friends after. I don't think this is possible to happen because we still have feelings for each other, that will always get in the way of a real friendship, not to mention that eventually we both will find new boy friends, and girlfriends that will not approve of "hanging out with the X" What do other people think ...


6 Comments, 173 Views, 30 Votes ,3.83 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
"Forgiveness: Giving up all hope for a better past."   12/12/2006

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17 Comments, 217 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
Babylonchina 45 F
2  Articles
Both forget and remember when love fail   12/4/2006

Now comes the time, goodbye love one more thing to tell before I leave, I'll both forget and memory save.
I'll forget how you leave me alone, in darkness no one hear me groan; how you walk away and slam the door, smiles on your face I see no more; to my tears you give silence in return, let alone cold words on my heart burn; ...


4 Comments, 247 Views, 34 Votes ,3.42 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
You can't change your intimate partners behavior   11/29/2006

I will tell you a story that will perhaps ring a bell with some people who have experienced this. The story of the FROG & the SCORPION Note: The frog can be either female or male and the scorpion can also be either male or female, for they may represent some of our past or current partners.
The ...


19 Comments, 296 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
CheekeyMonkey 50 M
4  Articles
Just Walk Away forever or be friends?   11/27/2006

In the past, I have always been strong enough to walk away from a relationship when it was over and never look back. This means no contact forever in any shape of form and having the resolve to be consistent to this.
This approach while tough gave me the following benefits:
1) FREEDOM - No baggage for a new relationship. I was able to meet ...


7 Comments, 181 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
MrStan 60 M
74  Articles
People have trouble developing trust if they have:   11/22/2006

Experienced a great deal of emotional and/or physical abuse and/or neglect. Been chronically put down for the way they feel or for what they believe. Been emotionally hurt in the past and are not willing to risk getting hurt in the future. Had problem relationships in the past where they were belittled, misunderstood, or ignored. Experienced the ...


6 Comments, 174 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
DarKnight_84 34 M
1  Article
broken up   11/20/2006

So i have broken up with my girl and i am very depressed by it all. I feel angry, frustrated, sad, depressed and upset all at the same time. The worst part of this is she didnt give me any reason why we broke up. We had good times together and she decides to end it. Well this was all over a month ago and in that time I find out why, she still has feelings for her ex, her ex is in a ...


8 Comments, 136 Views, 22 Votes ,3.01 Score
bliesp47 60 M
53  Articles
womans lib   11/16/2006

I’ve often wondered about woman’s liberation. It presupposes That men are already liberated, Even though we’ve spent history Pursuing the slavery of ridiculous philosophies; Worshipping the virile specter of false Gods And starting revolutions Because we were bored with money.
So if woman truly become liberated, Will we not have so little in common ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
breaking up with myself   11/12/2006

i do not know what i want i only know what i do not want either more i must break up with myself, with my past to born again maybe too late now to be a new man i m gonna try to live with...me


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
LizHo827 45 F
1  Article
Try to be nice.   10/31/2006

Appreciate the love and care. So try to be nice.Don't have to be mean or rude or.... Think about the past. Must be some good time.
But only for people who not really into it. Not for the cheater.


1 Comments, 61 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
esprit44 40 M
3  Articles
People 24/24H on asianfind.com   10/31/2006

Why some members(usually over 40)seem to spend all days long adding/answering articles. Do you have nothing else to do than spending all day on your computer? Don't you have a wife and to take care of? Are you not bored of that routine? Don't you have a job? I think you should have a break and breathe fresh air because when I read some of your articles they are pointless, no interest to ...


5 Comments, 208 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   10/28/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/28/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


2 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/27/2006

i'm here


2 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
babeinpink 51 F
13  Articles
love sickness symptoms   10/21/2006

Emotions can do funny things to a person. Our emotions and mental health are very tightly connected to our physical health. Our minds are very powerful. The mind controls the body, so we are happy when we are in love, and our body is releasing endorphins, which is good for our hearts. How about being in love and not being able to see that person forever, then it can lead to ...


6 Comments, 132 Views, 22 Votes ,3.37 Score
HeartDesire 60 F
2  Articles
Love & Hate   10/20/2006

There is a fine line between love and hate. Let me know what it is, please.


13 Comments, 192 Views, 24 Votes ,3.02 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
All or Part of Me....   10/16/2006

If I hide something from my love... Does my love... Love me or only part of me.. If I hide something from my love... Do I know she truely accepts me.. If I do not ask my loves forgiveness... Do I know my love is forgiving... If I tell my love of my sin... I risk the end of everything... Or the gift of true love... Beginning... ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Heart or Brain.. Happiness or Pain...   10/16/2006

Shall I follow my heart into happy poverty... Or my brain into sadness and riches.. Love feeds me when there is no food... Love holds me when I am sick And have no medicine.. Love cares not if I only have rags to wear... Without love I can be in the deepest poverty... While surrounded by riches... Forgetting your heart... Makes you walk through life... Dead...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Jimmy3434a 50 M
11  Articles
Breaking Up is So Difficult, But Necessary   10/16/2006

I have come to the end of my rope with one lovely young Chinese girl.
I found that, even though we are compatible physically and emotionally, we are not compatible as to the convergence of our lives, in terms of the future.
The paths we both plan do not cross. I have, for three years, diverged from my path to accomodate hers.
She now wants me never to go ...


2 Comments, 109 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
geanie_27 43 F
1  Article
Is it possible to love again after your heart has been broken?   10/16/2006

Is it really possible to really love again? The logical answer is YES..But why don't I feel this way?
I ask this because I went through a tough break up with someone whom I loved dearly about 7 mos ago. I feel like the flame I once had inside my heart is now out. This flame is dead...Nothing, no one, not even myself seems to make me truly happy.
Is this like a phase I'll ...


8 Comments, 358 Views, 29 Votes ,3.34 Score
kim_shen14344 43 F
14  Articles
''SPECIAL''   10/9/2006

"SPECIAL" is a word that is use to descrive something one-of-a kind, like a hug or a sunset or a person who spreads love with a smile or kind gesture.
"SPECIAL"
descrives people who act from the heart and keep ...


4 Comments, 81 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
procida 68 M
25  Articles
with the past   10/7/2006

How many times we need to breaking up with the past some, need no time other they never breaking up with their past after three years i am like a re birth , is seems maybe time is ok for beginning a new life with no ghosts of the past and you


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
springwind00 41 F
3  Articles
Adult breaking up   10/3/2006

It is very normal that couple break up. The problem is how you behave while you break up. Disappear suddenly or honestly telling out what do you feel.


0 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
lorenzo78 42 M
6  Articles
brake it   10/3/2006

u have to brake a relationshipwhen all the real feelings are gone


0 Comments, 74 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
ladyrhyme 35 F
2  Articles
Magical Feeling   10/3/2006

Magical feeling is a Song. I would like to share it to everyone. The song goes like this..
(Im happy that you left me, Im glad that you hurt me, Its a magical feeling, Knowing that you're not meant for me..) It's true right? Although, there are relationships that, they broke up and then back again.. But mostly, relationships ...


3 Comments, 93 Views, 15 Votes ,2.67 Score
lorenzo78 42 M
6  Articles
chinese girl   9/30/2006

never brake up with a chinese girl, i will tell you why in my next article


2 Comments, 139 Views, 14 Votes