procida 68 M
25  Articles
psycho   9/13/2006

I do not know if all women after breaking up got nervous breakdown but i 've seen içn the past most of this comportement maybe men can drink until the night and soon it s an other day maybe women are more anxious with break up and need a behavior schyzophrenic to forget past SINCE THEY ARE THE WOMEN WHO MOBILIZE MORE THE PSYCHIATRISTS this not a massive attack agains women, but every ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
Happy story with sad ending.   9/2/2006

We are one happy couple love & cherish each other till the end of time. humm well wish all the story was like that but that is fairy tale people. I notice one thing about woman once love is gone it is gone which means goodbye don't have the feeling for you anymore when that happens it is good to say nice knowing you hope you will have better life and happiness. Warning don't go after her ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
What makes tick tock   9/2/2006

Relatioship such easy to say but harsh to hear. All you guys though well having women in life should be easy do your daily work, love your wife or girlfriend make sure to have food and roof on top, well that don't work a dime... no one can expect forever relationship their is time when one another would get tire of each other only thing that keeps them togather is family not because they ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
shekinah888 56 F
5  Articles
life is beautiful...pains and all...   9/1/2006

well, what makes us who we are now is the life we've lived through - good or bad. personally, if i have to live my life over, i don't mind goin through the same pains. after all, i am who i am now because of them. word of advise: zero in on your expectations and you'll wake up to a brighter day and find the world a better place to live in...
cheers!


2 Comments, 97 Views, 19 Votes ,2.46 Score
NiceGuy196145 107 M
4  Articles
Shouldn't I have known?   8/30/2006

Hi everybody,
SHOULDN'T I HAVE KNOWN?
Isn't this the question everybody is asking himself when a relationship breaks up?
The answer is easy.
Yes, of course you should have known. There are always more than enough signs you should have seen. In fact, you already knew what would happen. You just simply did not want to realize what is happening.
...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
vinuccileo 52 M
5  Articles
Intense   8/29/2006

Breaking up can sometimes be the best thing that happens in a relationship.... I broke up with my girlfriend. Both of us were feeling the loss and deep sadness so decided to meet for a kind of goodbye drink. There was no longer the attachment to who was right, wrong or an agenda. We were just the best of ourselves. We went back to our old flat that was being sold. The world seemed ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
chris525 45 M
2  Articles
TRUE: LOVE NEVER FAILS:   8/23/2006

KEY TO LOVE: IS TO LOVE YOURSELF...WE R ALWAYS LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE RONG PLACES, BEFORE WE FIRST COME TO KNOW WHO WE R . WE MUST FIRST LEARN TO LIKE AN LOVE OURSELF....ITS ONLY THEN CAN YOU GIVE 100% LOVE....LET EACH ONE OF US TAKE THE TIME TO BE THANKFULL FOR THE THINNGS WE HAVE...THAIR ARE MANY WHO HAVE MUCH LESS....I FINE JOY IN HELPING OTHERS....SO TO ALL MY FRIENDS...., ...


2 Comments, 126 Views, 14 Votes ,1.86 Score
stevv06 53 M
2  Articles
R u mine ... friend   8/21/2006

The only way I expect in women is be my pal that is and will allway be cuz it will not hurt as much as "L". Only time will only tell...but when it does you will get all my "L" baby.
Hope to get more opinion on this.
Thx


0 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
YourDemigod 30 M
14  Articles
Top Ten Ways Not To Break Up With Someone   8/9/2006

10. After sex 9. Through a breif letter 8. After the words "I love you" 7. On the phone 6. Over an instant messaging sevice 5. Through a friend 4. Txt message 3. Through an E-mail 2. On the phone on an answering machine 1. Just stop comunicating with the person


0 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Teddybaier 54 M
2  Articles
why all the mind Games   8/4/2006

Why is it, that most women have different meanings to things they say to us males? I find it very difficult to relate, I have never been good at reading the signs or signals that you women put out. I would like to know are there out there any other guys that are haveing the same problem? And if so, how do you deal with the mixed reactions your date gives you near the end of the date, ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
sweetieguard0 59 F
11  Articles
We Are Blessed   7/28/2006

*If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive the week.
* If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture or the pangs of starvation, you are ahead of 500 million people around the world.
*If you attend a church ...



11 Comments, 468 Views, 21 Votes ,6.10 Score
azn2005 51 F
2  Articles
How to loss a guy/gal in 10 days?   7/25/2006

Watch that movie? It's just a movie and drama. What about real world. What ARE the mistakes we must NOT do to be able to make relationship last. Guys and Gals - would like to share different perspectives?


2 Comments, 138 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
orconquest 37 M
1  Article
Liberal   7/21/2006

Are all asian families conservative? Any liberals out there?


0 Comments, 44 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
marcot1997 49 M
8  Articles
The "Good" Breakup   7/20/2006

So your (my) relationship has ended. The majority of relationships do! Can we all try to have a good break up by being thankful for what we have learned and how we have grown by being with our former partners. An ended relatioship can still be regarded as a great realtionship that only lasted temporarily.
At the very least can we part ways without making blows to the other or ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Avoiding the Dreaded Rebound Relationship?   7/19/2006

When people are healing from loss, they are usually very fragile. Their judgment is often faulty due to stress. Thus it is not the best time to get quickly and intensely involved with another person. If u do, u may be on the rebound- that is u are choosing that partner impulsively and reactively to fill your emotional gap/void, not because the person is compatible with u in the long-term. ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
10 Ways to Rekindle your FLAME   7/18/2006

What do u do if u hav neglected your relationship? How do u jumpstart a relationship that has gone from exciting to ho-hum, boring?
Here I suggest 10 ways to rekindle your flame:
1. Find your smile 2. Talk about positive thoughts and feelings 3. put fun and play back in your relationship 4. make new love traditions 5. recreate the early days - what has worked before ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Living through it and Recovering   7/18/2006

If your partner has broken up with u and u are not happy about it, there are better and worse ways to get through it. Here are some suggested better ways: 1) see a psychologist to vent 2) try to get a closure 3) be kind to yourself physically and psychologically 4) take it a day at a time 5) use thought-stopping method 6) expect yourself to have fluctuating emotions 7) reward ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
Breaking Up with Less Pain   7/18/2006

Breaking up is never fun. It's usually quite painful, depending on how much you cared about your partner, how long you have been together, how long you expected to remain together, and whether you wanted the relationship to end. But even though emotional pain is usually involved, you can suffer less if you know how to break up with class, how to grieve more effectively, and how to recover ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
Make it simple   7/18/2006

Breaking up should be done w/ class. But must be complete. If someone likes you and you dont make it clear they will follow you like a lost puppy. Dont be mean but be very clear. Unless you want them back a later time in case you are horny and no one else is around. lol.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
DimitriW 37 M
5  Articles
How to Impress a Woman/Man   7/15/2006

HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN... compliment her, cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine & dine her, buy things for her, listen to her, care for her, stand by her, support her, go to the ends of the earth for her....
HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN... show up naked, ...


2 Comments, 108 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
soulsearch888de 37 M
11  Articles
Love or habbit?   7/14/2006

I hear lots of people talking about love and true love. . but i wonder, often we find that people are in a relationship because its what they are used to, and are afraid or simply dont want change. this, in turn, makes breaking up very hard to do. i've noticed lots of people spend 1/2 their life in a relationship they are unhappy with simply because they dont really want to break up with a ...


4 Comments, 58 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
jaemin37 44 M
4  Articles
it is sad thing   7/11/2006

Hello, breaking up it is very hard thing to do. And a sad thing! How do you that? tell me!


2 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
guanxiaorui2 62 M
1  Article
to marry a foreign   7/8/2006

What does a chinese girl think about of marry a foreign?


6 Comments, 275 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
ktownteacher 58 M
1  Article
Single Occupancy   7/7/2006

So here I sit in my new single apartment, the polished hardwood floors reflecting the sparse furniture I chose with great care, alone, at Ikea, surrounded by couples.
I sometimes catch myself about to turn to my ex- and make a joke, share a quip, ask her how her day was. Then I remember...
9 years and two countries is a lot to go through together. And it brings a lot of ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
7571363 39 F
2  Articles
give up / give up not ?   6/27/2006

I have been trying harder than ever, the relationship is just like the very beginning though : only lust, no communicating, no sharing, no understanding, no sympathysing. Just wanna give up not to make things even worse.. Honestly, I really dont wanna lose him. But I can nevr lose sth that I've never had, rite ? Im hopeless Wishing some way out of this dark tunnel. Any one ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 16 Votes ,3.27 Score
Sunflower569 54 F
1  Article
When Our Desire Unfulfilled   6/24/2006

Sometimes we will experience the feelings that our desire left there unfulfilled. If the case stands there, what kind of attitudes should we develop?
Learn to calm down first and do some meditation.
If there is trouble in calming down, go doing some sports or find your intimate friends to talk.
Don't develop negative attitudes towards anything or anybody, for it is ...


2 Comments, 137 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
purticutegirl 44 F
2  Articles
What to do?   6/18/2006

What do you do in the situation where you have emailed and talked to someone that you think you may potentailly hit it off. Although you haven't physically met, you feel you have chemistry and a connection. For the past 2 1/2 week I have corresponded with a nice guy. Every moning and every night I would get emails from this person. We made arrangements to meet last week, however ...


8 Comments, 160 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
cbsweety 37 M
1  Article
date   6/18/2006

I think the reason why sites like this exist is that all people search for love and peace. They are doing mistakes thats right but this mistakes shows us we are all human and nobody is perfect. No one likes to get hurt. Thats why falling in love is so difficult.


1 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Sex Before Marriage Can Break a Relationship (Open for Comments)   6/16/2006

I am convinced that every person should have the opportunity to enjoy this kind of love (passionate love) at some time. There is no substitute for the deep down love that two people have for one another. However, passionate love has a way of shorting out the brain and squashing rational thought. Be reminded that i am deeply convinced that any two people who choose to marry need to ...


3 Comments, 171 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Love Is A Decision   6/16/2006

I personaly believe that love is a decision. I admit that it is tough to have to exert willpower and determination to love someone. It is so much easier when love flows naturally.
However, I learned a long time ago that most people, including me, go through times when we are not very lovable. We get beaten up by stress, discouraged by our lack of success, overburdened by work, ...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score