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Wanted to stay friends but had to cut it. 8/5/2005
He was suddenly with someone else! I cried buckets and it
hurt for over 9 months. But he is that kind of guy. Stay for
awhile, very nice, very sensual, then he start to flirt
and sexually touch other women in front of me. Then gone.
Ok, I was stupid. He called me after he was gone wanting to
talk but hurt me more after he talk about his latest girl.
So I cut it off. So that I could ...
1 Comments, 579 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Is It Time For A Relationship Break? 8/5/2005
Here are some of the most common:
Things are moving too fast (or too slow)
She may be pressuring you to commit way too soon. Conversely,
you may be waiting for her to show signs that she's as
into you as you are her. Either way, your speeds are mismatched
and the longer you wait, the more apparent it becomes.
Things are getting stale
The same old routine ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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After the breakup... surviving loss. 7/26/2005
No doubt if you have had a recent breakup you are beginning
to experience some of the "Oh wow what now?"
that attends a relationships end. It's never really
the end of the relationship that causes these feelings
you understand, but it's the surfacing of all the emotions,
expressed and those unexpressed that were not fullfilled
during the relationship, perhaps during the first couple
of ...
2 Comments, 435 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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Life Lesson 7/22/2005
Breaking up with him was among the hardest things I have
ever done. For days afterwards I fell into tears, crying
for hours. I knew that we were not right for eachother, that
we would not grow as people as long as we where together,
but it hurt so bad. Everytime I closed my eyes I could see
his beautiful brown eyes. Eyes filled with pain..with
tears. I hurt him as much as me when I left.
...
0 Comments, 177 Views,
8 Votes
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here 7/18/2005
Breaking up is best done quickly. There is no reason to drag
it out and make it longer than it has to be. Life is too short
to waste time with someone you don't want to be with.
On the other hand even if I was in that situation I would want
the girl I liked to break up with me quickly.
1 Comments, 230 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Be a little bit philosophical 7/2/2005
I realise most people who come in here have some personal
issues to deal with. But if you try to be a bit philosophical
about the relationships you will be a much happier person.
Sometimes there are just no "whys" in life,
just "is". Trying to rationalise the emotional
issues simply makes you more depressed. So, just accept
the outcome and move on, take the "whatever will be
will be" ...
1 Comments, 314 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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sauna belt 6/29/2005
hello how are u
im happy whyd this site tghanx for have site like this
0 Comments, 138 Views,
4 Votes
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breaking up is hard to do 6/24/2005
its like the song says it is very hard but it is sometimes
best for both people involved
0 Comments, 193 Views,
5 Votes
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Hang Tough Jilted lovers 6/6/2005
Cry, whine, call them, stalk them, threaten to kill yourself
or better still do it that'll show 'em.
Don't let go, live in the past, stay in denial, Don't
ever leave'm,
Don't make a decision. worry constantly what to do.
ask/listen to everyone but do nothing. Be afraid very afraid
to be alone. Remember there will NEVER be another person.
Turn to booze/drugs or better still religion the ...
0 Comments, 1427 Views,
15 Votes
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breaking up is hard to do 5/22/2005
yea, breaking up is hard to do. but, its better sometimes
for both people involved. dust ur self off and move on. sometimes
the grass is greener, just right over the hill. whatever
u do have fun. and dont worry about tomorrow. tomorrow will
take care of its self.
0 Comments, 210 Views,
10 Votes
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relationships 5/20/2005
breaking up is hard to do. but sometimes both of u need to
move on. i have found is better not to look back. but gleam
the good out of ur last relationship to use in the next and
try to get it right this time. but then again what do i know.
everyone has to live their life for their selves. and their
are a lot of stubborn people out their. c ya, rocky.
0 Comments, 232 Views,
2 Votes
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The Deepest Heart 5/20/2005
I will let go, all the things I wanted
I will not do them anymore
Forgive me, for loving you
Forgive me, for I waiting for you
Have u ever tried to understand?
And see me here
Is it possible for I dream?
Is it wrong for I wait?
Exhausted I won’t, waiting for you
Dissappear it won’t, my love for you
Until the time, you ever come back
I will ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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To the ONE Who broke my Heart... 5/14/2005
Please don't think I'm immature if I can't
work on being friends with you anymore, although I know
it was I who wanted to nurture the friendship in the first
place. I have decided that I don't want to have any kind
of connection with you. Let me make it clear that I'm
not angry with you because you left me.
<br>
<br>
Why should I force myself on someone who doesn't ...
2 Comments, 430 Views,
33 Votes
,6.08 Score
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about age 5/11/2005
I don't know why some older men who prefer to covering
their real age, some gap covered is almost ten years. Most
of people don't have a photo posted. For those people,
should we be aware of their intention?
3 Comments, 997 Views,
18 Votes
,1.35 Score
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My Girlfriend cheated on me 4/28/2005
I gave her everything - car, condo, school and for a while
she said she love me. However, slowly I notice - she was spending
more and more time on phone and do suspecious things like
- going for sliming session at 10 pm at night.
<br>
I found out - and told her I know... actually found out she
was planning to go to China to work and earn money...
<br>
I asked her to ...
11 Comments, 1305 Views,
49 Votes
,2.82 Score
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The Root of My Ambition 4/27/2005
Onward and upward was the coursemy set .Small progress
was no excuse for feeling satisfied with yourself .
People who stopped to pat themselves on the back didn't
last long .Even if you got to the top , you'd better
not take it easy ."the bigger the come , the
harder they fall "was one of me favorite maxims .
0 Comments, 408 Views,
4 Votes
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I don't like breaking ups 4/22/2005
I believe Breaking up is really hard to do. Well for some
people it isn't, but for me it is.
When I love a girl, I also make a commitment to her and I hate
it when that fails. You build something carefully up and
hope it will last forever. Ofcourse not everyone stays
in a relationship. It is already a miracle that two people,
who never met before, fall in love with eachother and then ...
0 Comments, 791 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score
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What we learn 4/19/2005
You've got to be taught to be afraid
Of people whose eyes are oddly made,
And people whose skin is a different shade,
You've got to be carefully taught.
You've got to be taught before it's too late,
Before you are six or seven or eight,
To hate all the people your relatives hate,
You've got to be carefully taught!
The above lines are from a famous song and they ...
1 Comments, 174 Views,
8 Votes
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Bad Pictures 4/18/2005
I am just writing to vent.... I WISH this site would review
pics more closely and inform the contributor that they
ought to submit a better pic. I am SOOO tired of pics that
are like Travel scenes; a whole landscape scene and there
in the middle, is a little iddy-biddy person that you can't
even tell if they are male of female. The pic was taken when
they are 50 feet from the camera. ...
0 Comments, 387 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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breaking up 4/5/2005
Every one has experienced breaking up,
but sharing with a person you trust that wont take advantage
of you is really hard to find. Lady friends can help as common
struggle especially ladies that have sucess in their marriage
or relationships there are ways to handle your emotions.
I remember that there was an oppoutunity
given at the girls wedding, she told me right here and now
that if ...
0 Comments, 439 Views,
7 Votes
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Our human spirit 4/5/2005
A short article by Sssarah caught my attention and when
she wrote - The days we stayed together are unforgettable;
and the days we are apart are much more ... - it made me think!
What she wrote is true. We tend to remember the sadness rather
than the joy, the bad times rather than the good, the tears
rather than the laughter.
Is there something in our human spirit that dictates we ...
1 Comments, 336 Views,
12 Votes
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After An Affair Steps to take so you can find each other again... 4/2/2005
Can the heart ever trust again after it has been crushed?
Can a couple look at this time as a way of becoming even closer
than they had ever been? Can there be romance after an affair?
If both parties concerned are willing to work it out, the
answers to these questions are, "Yes!" In an
age where the chances of getting a divorce are higher than
staying together, the likelihood of infidelity ...
1 Comments, 247 Views,
36 Votes
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Ways To Feel Young Again 4/1/2005
Spend the day at an amusement park.
Go to an arcade together.
Play your favorite board games.
Go to the beach and actually go IN the water.
Spend the day at the mall.
Go to your local movie theater and see how many movies you
can watch in a day.
Go to your favorite fast food place and order 's
meals.
Watch a Disney ...
0 Comments, 328 Views,
18 Votes
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Happiness 3/20/2005
I know that this sounds a bit RUDE -- because we are human;
and we interact with other humans -- find pleasure in them
AND pain; and many, many other things. Yet, when we, as humans
TRULY REALIZE that WE ARE THE MASTERS OF OURSELVES, THAT
WE ARE THE CAUSE OF *EVERYTHING* THAT HAPPENS TO US, *THAT
WE CREATE OURSELVES AND HOW WE FEEL*; AND WHEN *WE CHOOSE*
(*note: the KEY word here is ...
2 Comments, 440 Views,
21 Votes
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I will go! 3/18/2005
In spring days with rain
I come to you with enthusiastically
The day and the night, I unbosomed myself to you.
Dear friend, do you know
It's just my happiness time
<br>
Now, I will go with your blessing
No matter how much reain or shine in the road
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You have been so warm as sunshine
Walked into my dreams everynight
So pure as streams
Flowed into my heart ...
0 Comments, 679 Views,
16 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Why is it difficult to break-up? 3/16/2005
I have experienced many relationships, however, breaking
up was so difficult. I've been insulted, stalked,
and shamed. For example, I discovered that my last x-girlfriend
was a bad person, dancing, love affairs...etc. She had
so many affairs with friends and neighbors it was an insulting
and disrespectful relationship. I tried to break-up respectfully,
but she spit in my face, and kicked me ...
0 Comments, 283 Views,
11 Votes
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six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship 3/16/2005
1. We don't ask enough questions.
2. We ignore warning signs of potential
problems.
3. We make premature compromises.
4. We give in to Lust Blindness.
5. We give in to material seduction.
6. We put Commitment Before
Compatibility.
3 Comments, 471 Views,
31 Votes
,5.54 Score
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Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship 3/16/2005
1. Pressure (age, family, friends, etc.)
2. Loneliness and desperation
3. Sexual hunger
4. Distraction from your own life
5. To avoid growing up
6. Guilt
7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.
3 Comments, 446 Views,
22 Votes
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internet love 3/13/2005
This site and the internet are a fantastic service and tool
to meet people and to start friendships. People should
never have to feel bored or alone anymore. A world of men
and women are a few clicks, a monitor and a keyboard away.
It can be a good start to build a friendship. But what about
love?...and internet love? In my opinion, the risk and
disappointment for those seeking to find ...
0 Comments, 289 Views,
5 Votes
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Search for Soulmate 3/8/2005
I'm one who believes that we spend too much time looking
for a "soulmate" when just some real good friend
will do. We love for different reasons in our lifetime.
We see and feel love in different ways, depending on where
we are from. Compatibility, lust passion, income, common
interest, physical attraction, personal health, goals
all change with time. Wants and needs change with time.
...
0 Comments, 1566 Views,
5 Votes
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