FAITHFULL1162 55 M
5  Articles
A story to remember   5/21/2007

A man met his old friend one day, after many years. He asked him where he had been all this time. The friend answered : "I went to look for the perfect woman." The man asked : "So, did you find her?" His friend said : "Yes" Then, the man asked :"Well, where is she?" His friend answered : "She was looking for the perfect man..."


2 Comments, 109 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
PeterInSurrey 76 M
1  Article
He who dares - wins   5/9/2007

For years I was nervous, and procrastinated about contacting a lady who 'took my fancy'. That was STUPID. "We pass this way but once" is now my own attitude, and since I adopted this approach, I have had the great pleasure of meeting and dating some lovely ladies (including my late Wife).
Be honest, be kind, and be thoughtful. That is what a lady wants to see most in a ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
whitedragon1964 53 M
11  Articles
You only get one chance   3/31/2007

First dates are like first impressions, you only get one chance.


1 Comments, 72 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
be careful   2/27/2007

i was contacted by this tidy chinese girl .petite and really nice. we had dinner then actually slept together on the first date which i have never done before, the next day came her cv and two weeks after she was playing another guy and said if i get some software, a trip to new zealand etc she would marry me and bear . all in four weeks. where do some people get off!!!!


6 Comments, 507 Views, 28 Votes ,3.45 Score
Texas76 41 M
1  Article
Keep it simple   2/11/2007

For a first date do something that is free or does not cost a lot of money. Taking a girl to dinner has been done 1, 000 times. If you don't like each other then you are stuck for 45 minutes with each other.
Guys don't buy expensive things for girls. It makes it look like you are trying to buy her approval. She will either think you are pathetic and leave, or stay around ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
djbear7272 43 M
2  Articles
first time in person   2/11/2007

have you ever chatted for awhile with someone online and really started to like that person. then once you meet in person the attraction is not there anymore or the person seems different somehow.


1 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
xXinfernoXx 40 F
1  Article
Getting a second date...   1/8/2007

First date for me is a HUGE impression. If i dont have fun the first time....im likely to not have fun the second time. <br> I'd like to see a guy who doesnt show up in sweats and dirty tshirt. Opening doors and such are bonus points. haha. <br> i HAVE to laugh. if i dont bust out laughing at least once...thats a bad sign. laughing is a sign of enjoyment <br> ...


4 Comments, 482 Views, 38 Votes ,2.82 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Marketing 101   12/8/2006

You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say, "I'm fantastic in bed." That's Direct Marketing. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her, and pointing at you says, "He's fantastic in bed." That's Advertising. <br> You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The ...


2 Comments, 494 Views, 50 Votes ,7.11 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
First date jitters   12/8/2006

I have always had a question: What do men REALLY think on a first date? Does he look at details like the woman subtly requiring him to open the door as a good sign? or a bad one? Is asking more than a nice dinner too much to handle so fast? Would it be bad to go to drink coffee at a nice cafe afterwards? I know that many first dates are a direct result of the personality of the men and ...


2 Comments, 322 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   11/7/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/29/2006

i'm here


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/28/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
TechMan_1000 61 M
17  Articles
Morning Noise- Thinking of a First Date ;)   10/19/2006

Morning Noise
Waking in the morning, I hear a distant train. Washing, Thinking, Dressing. The sounds of water running. The sounds of coffee brewing. I put my shoes on. They make a tapping noise on the shinny wood floors. As the tie touchs the shirt it makes a wisking.. sound... I tie it the same way. I have for years. The sound of a female voice from the other ...


2 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
chris525 45 M
2  Articles
ASIAN WOMAN WITH BLACK MAN...I WAS HER FIRST   10/18/2006

THE SAYING IS WHEN YOU GO BLACK YOU DONT TURN BACK..SHE CALLED ME , SAID SHE LIKE MY PROFILE & WOULD LIKE TO SEE ME...BUT FROM THE TIME I WALK INTO THE DOOR IT WAS MY BODY SHE WANTED....I WAS SINGLE AN GAVE HER ALL OF ME , AN MORE....SHE SAID SHE HAD NEVER BEEN WITH A MAN WHO WAS AS BIG AS ME IN HER LIFE...HER DREAMS CAME TRUE..., AN WE ARE STILL SINGLE, AN DATING....THAR IS NO RULES TO ...


2 Comments, 318 Views, 23 Votes ,0.21 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Dating Nerves..   10/9/2006

When I went out with this really good looking girl.. We went out to eat at this Korean restaurant. She looked great and we had a great time together. She was really nervous though with me.. How she coped with it (I found out from her..) was that she ate and ate and ate to relax her on the date. <br> I'm wondering.. have you ever had the jitters of being soo nervous on the date that ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
10 Tips to successfully pace a new relationship   9/21/2006

Here are 10 tips to successfully pace a new relationship:
1. Don't jump into bed on the first date, 2) Don't spend the entire weekend together, 3) Don't say "I love you" too soon, 4) Do keep your sense of self, 5) Do keep your own life, 6) Do keep dating other people casually, 7) Do keep your thoughts, feelings, and behaviour in sync with reality, Be careful when you are ...


3 Comments, 172 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
drmyler 62 M
2  Articles
Those Photographs?   9/16/2006

I like AFF because the majority of females who are advertising themselves are honest nice people. However there are some who set out to mislead the potential suiter through a bit of false advertising mainly through their photographs. We know that in China it is a popular past-time to have professional photographs taken in a studio, with the right light and decent clothes to highlight the ...


4 Comments, 411 Views, 29 Votes ,3.94 Score
JIMMYJIM33 45 M
2  Articles
SEX ON THE FIRST DATE   9/12/2006

DO ONE NIGHT STANDS EVER BECOME MORE THAN THAT. IF I HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE WILL WE HAVE ANYTHING MORE?


4 Comments, 364 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
iqofone 42 M
3  Articles
Is playing the game a necessary part of dating?   9/1/2006

What do I mean by playing games? I mean playing with their minds, ignoring them for about the first half of the night, and full attention the rest. Calling 3 days later. Using the word love alot, but never saying it to them. Ending and leaving first after conversation a conversation finishes. <br> All of these are ment to make her think about you subconsiously. I know that this ...


4 Comments, 192 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
TheRookie1985 33 M
2  Articles
Special Moments   7/16/2006

This is more of an forum starter than an article, I'd like to know from both men and women: what was the best thing about your favorite first date experience. To be a little clearer, what about the date made that encounter more enjoyable than other, past first dates you had been on?


0 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
jaemin37 44 M
4  Articles
hello   7/12/2006

What should i write about that, because nobody write me a mail


1 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes
snowonroof2006 76 M
2  Articles
Sex early in a relatioonship   7/8/2006

Sex on the first date? <br> If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking for a meaningful relationship; you're just looking for a "Quickie". Go down to the corner and pick up your local street slut, she'll get you off with no strings attached (usually after you pay her). Realize a "Quickie" with a is probably going to be cheaper and definitely faster than taking a ...


1 Comments, 296 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Before you meet comeone on a first date   6/25/2006

Have them fax you a copy of their State ID or their Drivers License & you can do the same, to insure that you are actually meeting the right person on the first date.
It may seem cautious, but it is better to be cautious then sorry.
Also meet in a public place on your first date.
-Wiseman...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Research Test: How hot should I dress on the first date!!!!   6/25/2006

I love to dress really hot!!!! Shorts only like the stud college boys uniform and hot boxers that can be somewhat revealing, with no top on in cold weather. My question is how should I dress for that important first date. I really want chicks to be attracted to me if I like them but don't want it to seem that we are going to tumble into the bed the first night.
Even though I am ...


5 Comments, 176 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
The Group Approach..   6/25/2006

Finding ways to approach a single girl or guy on her/his own without a bunch of girl/guy friends hanging around them is probably the most sought after moment that we all look forward to.. But there are times when the guy or girl we are interested in doesn't hang around by themselves that much or at least the times that we see them they are always with the same group of friends. <br> ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
izabela81 36 F
1  Article
where we have to go for a first date???   6/25/2006

Restaurant, cinema, disco, theater, bed-hehe or maby sauna-hehe. If we go to the restaurant-who's gonna pay?i dont have idee wich place is the best for the first date, who's gonna pay for it and if I don't like that person schoud i run-how! HELP


4 Comments, 101 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
hisa_rai_ai_17 31 F
1  Article
never been on a date/lookin for love in all the wrong places   6/14/2006

yes i have never been on a date ever. i have only had 1 boyfriend and i'm a virgin. so it is very hard for me to start looking for someone around my age 18 or 19 to date. most guys only want sex and i'm not ready for that. i'm so shy so it is very hard for me to tell someone that i like them or am interested in them.. i don't really want to just be satisfied with someone who asks for sex ...


2 Comments, 472 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Who should make the first move, the lady or the man?   5/29/2006

Should the lady make the first move or the man? What would the ladies prefer? Sexually that is..


1 Comments, 221 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Bad Blind Dates..   5/17/2006

I've been on a few blind dates. One in particular was kinda scary since my friend met some girl on an internet personals site without seeing her picture and she was bringing her friend along for moral support -so my buddy enlisted me to keep her friend entertained. Little did I know though, I would later become that girl-friends' "fresh meat, " at least that is what I felt like the whole ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
How can you tell if bf or gf?   4/29/2006

For those of us who have close friends of the opposite sex.. What is your view on how to tell if the guy and girl are just friends or if they are going together as more than just friends? <br> The determination is for the person on the outside of the group-of-two people, so that one can figure out whether or not to approach the person s/he is attracted to.. because sometimes the guy ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score