WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Before you meet someone on a first date   9/29/2006

Have them fax you a copy of their State ID or their Drivers License & you can do the same, to insure that you are actually meeting the right person on the first date.
It may seem cautious, but it is better to be cautious then sorry.
Also meet in a public place on your first date.
-Wiseman...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
ABI513 69 M
5  Articles
Internet Dating Scams   9/15/2006

I continue to be amazed at the number of people, especially men, who seem to have a difficult time understanding Internet Marriage Scams. I could understand this at the advent of Internet dating years ago, but not now with the wealth of information available about scams and scammers on the Internet, TV, magazines, books, etc. Even the U.S. Embassy in Russia devotes a Q&A on the ...


2 Comments, 154 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
mishy5 38 F
17  Articles
Tips for getting Ready for the Big Date   9/15/2006

A Delicate Balance Tips for getting Ready for the Big Date

It’s Friday night. You’ve got a date worth getting excited about – and worth setting aside some preparation time. So why spend twenty minutes gazing listlessly into your closet? There’s no shortage of options: wow him with an eye-catching halter, or maybe shoot for demurely ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
36ford 75 M
3  Articles
Married women?   9/9/2006

I was at a dance place the other night which I go to often with some friends. There is this Philappino gal there who ask me to dance every so often. She is very attractive. A fellow I know came up to me and said, Do you know she is married. I said no, She isn't wearing no ring. He said I took her out a while back and when I went to drop her off back home she said no don't go to my ...


4 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
tony7491044 64 M
4  Articles
Can I trust a woman, who is seeking marriage   8/25/2006

I have been in contact with two russian woman that appear to be sincere. However, I am old enough to be their father. One of them, suggested on a three year marriage contract. During which time, she would service my personal sexual needs every night, for three years. Is this Heaven, or just "Drano" for my plumbling? Here is a young sexy woman, attractive and willing to do me a ...


6 Comments, 282 Views, 17 Votes ,1.29 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   6/26/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The Benefits of Having AFF Confirmed ID Tag   6/19/2006

I Just Received My AFF Confirmed ID Tag If you want to build a real relationship on the AFF website, you may have fallen in love with a fake photograph, along with a fake name, along with a fake country or city.
After all, you just have to give any credit card and a e-mail address to AFF, then you are a member! That's if you are a paying member.
...


5 Comments, 129 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
CYL_Jocelyn 50 F
6  Articles
Follow your real feelings to find true love...   5/20/2006

One day, my friend asked me to translate an e-mail on AFF from an Italian guy, as she doesn't know English. I found that the guy was asking for help from her - helping him to find a girl in Chongqing who doesn't have a computer and whose e-mail address is not valid and whose mobile phone is difficult to get to; asking her for her address so that he can write to her. <br> I am ...


2 Comments, 362 Views, 25 Votes ,6.23 Score
areyouserious 62 M
2  Articles
I think I just met a job digger   5/8/2006

Well, after several months of AFF, I think I just met someone that is using AFF for reasons other than a relationship. After instant messaging for 3 days with linghe 1000 it came down to her wanting me to employ her so that she could get a work visa and " find the right man", here in the U.S. I guess this is quite reasonable BUT to post your profile stating you are looking for marraige, ...


7 Comments, 590 Views, 25 Votes ,4.46 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Emotional Safety! Share, Check, Share Method   3/8/2006

Share a litte about yourself and check for the following from your date to see if it is emotionally safe for you to continue to open up your feelings to this person. <br> 1) Share a little bit about yourself and see if they are JUDGEMENTAL? If they are, then stop sharing about yourself because it is not safe and you will get your feelings hurt by their own perceived harsh opinion ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Beware of Drugs?   3/8/2006

These are drugs that are sometimes used to assist a sexual assault. Sexual assault is any type of sexual activity that a person does not agree to. It can include inappropriate touching, vaginal penetration, sexual intercourse, , and attempted . Because of the effects of these drugs, victims may be physically helpless, unable to refuse sex, and can't remember what happened. The drugs often ...


5 Comments, 97 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
Hey be careful   2/18/2006

Great advise yes? Don't you feel like a fool for wasting the second or two it took to read this. <br> Just another chance to get points to contact someone. And I'm sick of seeing that honey chics pic and want mine on top.


1 Comments, 407 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
snowonroof2006 76 M
2  Articles
Dating/general safety   2/15/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating safety rules: <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time. Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people) public place. <br> Get a picture ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
use ur   2/7/2006

i have yet to meet anyone from the internet world in person. <br> when u meet someone from online one has to be cautious. no matter how goodlooking or beautiful the person appears in your eyes. most importantly NEVER EVER go to anyone's house or apartment after talking with them online. that is a definte NO NO... and let someone know who your are meeting, where you are ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
It Is Easy To Get Involved In Online Dating Relationships   11/24/2005

It is easy to get involved in online dating relationships; for some it can lead to an addiction. <br> Some find themselves enjoying the flirtatious advances of the opposite sex, both in chat rooms and with on-line dating services. <br> People get sucked into on-line relationships and become addicted to the world of on-line dating and chat rooms. <br> For ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Q&A: Avoid Looking Desperate   8/21/2005

The idea of being "congruent" when you communicate simply means to have all levels of your communication "in alignment" with each other and "saying the same thing." If you're asking a woman for her number, but you're looking around nervously and hesitating, it's not "congruent." On the other hand, if you're saying "Write down your e-mail and number for me" while taking ...


3 Comments, 576 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
Jerry369258147 44 M
3  Articles
does this modus operandi sound familiar to anyone?   8/2/2005

does this modus operandi sound familiar to anyone? have any of you been similarly contacted by these girls? any information that you are able to provide will be appreciated. with your assistance, i wish to steer clear of suspect characters. <br> read: a certain "ghee" got wind of the fact that i am going to be traveling to the philippines. i was right away invited to meet her ...


2 Comments, 366 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
sgtextreme 48 M
5  Articles
Can you find Love on the internet?   7/2/2005

It seems after reading many of the comments and messages from people that love on the internet is not possible. While I am new at the AFF and I know that things take time, I wonder if I am doing this for nothing. It seems that people have lots of bad stories about finding people online, then it also makes me wonder, if it is so bad then why are these people still looking online? ...


1 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
nalucy 45 F
1  Article
song of love   6/22/2005

just like a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys, My beloved is to me a bag of myrrh that lies between my breasts. My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms in the vineyards of En-gedi Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! for your love is better than wine, Ah, you are beautiful , my belove, truly lovely....... I am my beloved's , and his ...


1 Comments, 506 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
eclipse2004 66 M
1  Article
Your potential mate: learn their true intentions first!   6/3/2005

This article is intended to give you, the reader, advice to use caution in your relationships. <br> I met my ex-wife in the Philippines and we married after only one meeting. After I brought her and her here and upon receiving her "green card" she soon began staying out late. I found that she was spending her time out with her ex-fiancé, who I did not know lived in this city. ...


1 Comments, 356 Views, 81 Votes ,7.27 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
Are latin girls as beautiful as they seen on TV..?   3/11/2005

Hola everybody, <br> I live in china, shangay.As you know shangay isn't a Mediterrain country like Spain and Italy.So we have many same things like weather and foods (I like olive I want to ask a sincere question..When I watch some Spanish on Italian TV channels I always see many beautiful women and girls.I know chinese girls are cool too but they are a little bit different ...


1 Comments, 344 Views, 26 Votes ,0.55 Score
jasmine-xw 55 F
2  Articles
Yes ,love was beutifulbut also was painful   12/19/2004

Everry time , when you fell in love , you were so happy, you thought you were most happiness woman in the world, and your lover was so handsome in your eyes, you want to do anything that he wanted you to do, even be died for him.but suddenly you lost him , you would never know what was he think, you confused, and don't know what had happened to you even you don't know why that he will not ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score