dalatvn 55 F
9  Articles
Profile   10/25/2006

I get turned off by someone who listed their wealth on their profile. For instance, the man says he owns a 4 bedroom, 3 TVs, nice car, and a job with over $100, 000 salary, should I be impressed?. NOT. I prefer someone who tell me more about him self whether his a decent human being or not. His wealth doesn't say anything about him but it sounds more than a bait to get people's attention. ...


7 Comments, 3309 Views, 124 Votes ,7.63 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
I want to thank you   10/18/2006

I want to thank you for adding me to your hotlist. I am honored by your attention. I would like to offer you my friendship and find out how your doing. In our search for love we can not forget to find friends. And after all that is the the beginning foundation of any lasting love.
Thank you again for your attentions. I am truly honored......


0 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
terryaki 70 M
11  Articles
regarding asking for the first date...   10/10/2006

People need to be more careful in the work place today. If someone asked you out, on a first day, you may want to give this careful consideration before saying "no thanks". This is because you co-worker many be worried that he/she may get into trouble if, after you turn them down one time, they ask you again. So... do not play hard to get, just make an honest decision one way ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
Why would people single out a member and dis him???   10/2/2006

Why would members single out Wiseman phd for instance and dis him????...


3 Comments, 125 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
bill_8843 57 M
3  Articles
curious about reasons for marriage   8/25/2006

Hi everyone. I am writing this in response to a email reply that I just recieved. While thankful to even receive the reply it made me very curious as to the motives of some of the members. In the reply it was stated that the lady was only interested in western men living in western countries. As I am a westerner who is currently living in Korea (temporarily) I was in a way shocked. If the ...


0 Comments, 1097 Views, 80 Votes ,7.28 Score
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
Don't hate me for saying what I feel..   8/25/2006

Don't hate me for saying this but come on why do Chinese girls always say they like the older men! this in 2005 and woman don't have to respect a man just because he's old, that's sick, the emperors are gone and now woman are as great as any men in China, they should all show the men they can't be bought by money and power only with through love, and don't believe every thing your told in ...


2 Comments, 139 Views, 8 Votes
zorgnot2 112 M
1  Article
Is any reply too much to ask?   8/8/2006

This may have been brought up before- I can't imagine that it hasn't- but what about a polite..."No, thank you". We're all here because we want to meet people. Maybe not in person for a variety of reasons but we all want some kind of contact with another human being.Is it too much to think that we deserve a decent reply to a decent inquiry or attempt at contact? What I mean is: if I try ...


3 Comments, 258 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
***Ladies*** .... men can share opinions.   6/24/2006

*Sigh* This guy who lives in another state, I have chat with him online for over 5 yrs now and never have met in person. We became close friends when both of our relationships with other were going down the hill. There were no secret between us on about being together until after my break up and his dirvoce, he just, out of blue, asked me to move in. I was really shocked and confused. My ...


2 Comments, 204 Views, 20 Votes ,3.38 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   6/7/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
Squirrel_c 42 F
1  Article
©Úµ´Sexal Abuse !   5/16/2006

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0 Comments, 380 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
What don't you understand?   3/9/2006

ABOUT THE WORD NOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooo!


8 Comments, 196 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
dltctncm 72 M
7  Articles
Do Chinese women prefer no reply to a negative reply?   2/7/2006

Perhaps this should be a question for the advise section. Technicalities. <br> At AsianFriendFinder I receive one or more unsolicited emails from Chinese women. <br> That is expected here. <br> For one reason or another, most of these emails do not spark my interest in the writer. Perhaps the reasons I am not interested is material. I think not. <br> Do ...


2 Comments, 193 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
ValentinaM55 36 F
1  Article
Hehe   1/4/2006

At first date meaning part is the fealling inside of u. U should be shure that this man is for u. If u dont feal this way ...so u wouldnt meet with him any more in future. But some ladyes wanna meet with a man that have one time sex and the quit it. So sad for that...


1 Comments, 200 Views, 15 Votes ,1.45 Score
AngelChiou 37 F
4  Articles
Thank you dear   9/11/2005

Thanks for giving me heartbreak Thanks for letting me feel so bad Thanks for rejecting me Thanks for ignoring my tears Thanks for making me strong Thanks for putting me in the rain Thanks for telling me how stupid I am A lot of thanks... I'm strong enough to face everything you did for me I don't feel bad I don't be sad I don't cry Because I already get over you My ...


3 Comments, 565 Views, 30 Votes ,4.02 Score
ZippityDay 72 M
1  Article
Not my type   8/24/2005

I met a woman in a nice little bar for our first meeting. She seemed nice over emails. She was waiting for me at the hostess stand, when she saw me, she squeeled loudly. I was embarassed. I was wearing clean blue jeans and a nice shirt. She was wearing blue jeans and an old sweatshirt. Her front teeth stuck almost straight out of her mouth when she opened it. It was gross. I ...


1 Comments, 342 Views, 34 Votes ,3.69 Score
mitch9922 55 M
13  Articles
Never be what you cannot deliver   8/10/2005

Well, I used to be one of those prissy-type girls. You know, the ones that wear nail polish, wear really cute little clothes and fling my "oh so silky" hair about. I attracted those kind of people who were just as twisted in their thinking as I was. I say, unless you are willing to deliver attention and sincere respect to all those you are demanding it from, than all you are doing is ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
guitarman1964 60 M
8  Articles
politeness   8/10/2005

when saying no thanks or im not interested you should be as polite as possible as others have feelings to and and its not nice to uneccisarily hurt anothers feelings after all you wouldnt want your feelings hurt either now would you


1 Comments, 235 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
credibility 67 M
1  Article
is common courtesy and being polite a problem with female members   8/10/2005

it seems as though that most female members selected as matches to male members don, t seem to understand or realise that both parties receive the cupid mail ...therefore if you receive mail from a member and you are NOT INTERESTED kindly have the god sense to let them know , rather than ignoring them ....remember the profile with all the fantastic things you say about yourself goes down ...


1 Comments, 345 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
he01234 60 M
25  Articles
Tell the truth.   8/8/2005

Telling the truth and being honest is always appreciated and you won't feel bad either. Playing games is the worst thing you can do to the person facing you and to yourself. Honesty is the best policy. Palying with the emotions of a person is immoral and unacceptable.


0 Comments, 122 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
moontears22 63 M
4  Articles
replies   3/24/2005

should one always reply, even if not interested...or by not replying does that send a message? I always try to reply at least once if someone messages me.


1 Comments, 294 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
Quick3033 49 M
1  Article
No thanks   3/3/2005

No Thank is what has been said, peace , love and craziness.


1 Comments, 500 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
Enrik23 38 M
13  Articles
I NEED YOUR HELP!!!! PLEASE   2/7/2005

I have aa close friend to me, but lately I have been very concerned about her. He hangs out with people who smoke(smoke other things along with that)and make stupid idiodic choices in their pathetic lives. The more she hangs out with them the more off track she seems to get from having a good life. I don't know what to do, because after a while I'm afraid that she'll want me to too. I don't ...


1 Comments, 979 Views, 31 Votes ,1.32 Score