sgtextreme 48 M 1  question	Does dating have to be so hard? - 3/23/2005 After being in a long term relationship I have found that dating is harder then I remember. Maybe it is just me, but I feel people are too sensative today. <br> Who is to know what works? <br> <br> Have been back in the dating world for 1 year, I have been on 54 first dates, is it just me or do people not like to go that far these days? 7 response(s), 11 votes
meriyaa 40 F 15  questions	Divoice............. - 3/19/2005 American are heard to be rather independent, Covering college tuition on a loan with their parents. <br> Is that related to less consideration of their when American couple goes to divoice? <br> Like age or salary, is divoice also a toboo in US that discourage a curious person? <br> Could you explain to me Your Opinion of a Divoice? 2 response(s), 5 votes
888slinky 44 M 2  questions	Kissing and hugging as a greeting ... - 3/16/2005 I'm a British born Chinese and am used to kissing female friends and also women I don't know but I am introduced to on the cheek when saying hello. Close male friends we often extend a hug as a welcome. <br> I'm wary that I'm much less physical when greeting Chinese friends and people. <br> Why is that? What do you think? I feel that Chinese people are less ... 7 response(s), 17 votes
Jiethomas007 49 M 1  question	THE FIVE EXCUSES OF THE CHINESE - 3/15/2005 The other day, I was over at a local Chinese-run stationery and book store. While I was there, I was browsing through the stacks of cards looking for a Chinese thank-you note to give to the family of one my Taiwanese private students. I called the shop-owner (an old friend of mine who emigrated from Shanghai to Taiwan in 1949 and then who came over to the US twenty years ago) to give me ... 3 response(s), 8 votes
faithreflection 61 F 1  question	The game of Multiple Dating - 3/14/2005 I've got hurt from a relationship with a man who has, I believe, dated with multiple women. I don't know how he has kept the intimate relationship with them, or just has wrote to them by e-mail or chat via instant messenger. What am I supposed to do with this kind of situation. Heart-broken!!!!! Please help!!!! 6 response(s), 9 votes
muffles 48 M 6  questions	R U happy ? - 3/14/2005 So are you happy in life ? In a general way I mean. Like what you've accomplished so far and what you do when work is over. 1 response(s), 3 votes
sweetbabygrl_799 44 F 6  questions	Do you believe in reincarnation? - 3/14/2005 Hmm, even though I came up with this question, I'm skeptical and uncertain on whether or not I should believe in it. It's something for me to ponder on! What are your answers? 2 response(s), 8 votes
sweetbabygrl_799 44 F 6  questions	What are your thoughts on same-sex couples? - 3/13/2005 Like my opinion on interracial relationship also applies to this topic as well. It's freedom and demacracy for every individuals to choose the type of relationship they want to be in. Although I personally don't support it nor am I against it, I just believe that everyone is entitled to have the given rights regardless of what the subject may be. To concluded my final thoughts, no ... 8 response(s), 18 votes
pisceanvictory 64 F 13  questions	On May-December affairs, what is more likely to succeed-- older Men w/ younger Women or vice-versa? - 3/12/2005 Or course it also depends on the how much love is being felt towards each other, but generally speaking, which one is more likely to succeed... and why? I can give my own point of view after hearing yours. 4 response(s), 5 votes
pisceanvictory 64 F 13  questions	Do you believe in Astrological Compatibility? - 3/12/2005 Whenever you come across someone here who catches your interest, do you go direct to his/her profile or click first your astrological compatibility. Are you convinced that there is a correlation between the positioning of the celestial bodies/zodiac signs and the earthly human tendencies. For me, I think it has a considerable influence. What about you? 6 response(s), 8 votes
sweetbabygrl_799 44 F 6  questions	Do you believe in love at first sight? - 3/11/2005 I personally don't believe in it but there's potiential and I'll believe in it when it happens to me. 11 response(s), 13 votes
bigheart2009 51 M 9  questions	FOR WOMEN - 3/10/2005 Everybody can say the best thing, then act opposite. <br> Do not judge a man on the first meet. <br> Do not give a chance nor think a soft talkactive man is the best on the first meet. <br> Do not quit a quiet shy man after the first meet. Some people has mysterious power more than you think. <br> Do not let him kiss you on the first meet, you ... 6 response(s), 17 votes
travelinghotty 39 M 2  questions	what do you think about interracail sex? - 3/9/2005 I love it , I belive its the best thing 5 response(s), 11 votes
travelinghotty 39 M 2  questions	looking for strong family values in a woman ? - 3/9/2005 If your that type of person.I would like to get to know you. 2 response(s), 5 votes
djvcwg602004 63 M 2  questions	How do you feel about race. - 3/7/2005 I myself would hope that racism is on its way out . I have been asked before what my family would think if they knew I was dating / interested in a Chinese woman.. My response is always "THEY WOULD GIVE THIER BLESSINGS" and wish me luck in finding what would make me happy. <br> I have not seen much in the real world where I live . But it is run to death in the media. I myself ... 5 response(s), 14 votes
meriyaa 40 F 15  questions	How 's Chinese people's life in your country? - 3/7/2005 I have seen some Movies recently, there is a little related with Asian people in Western country, though we can know some informations about them from Magazine, Newspaper, Tv......but i really want to know "What do you think of Chinese people(Wholive and work in Western country)'s life and What are the problems do they usually have? Thank you!! 8 response(s), 12 votes
blessing96 55 F 2  questions	Should she stay or leave? - 3/6/2005 I have two good friends who are couple, without , living three hours apart. The husband has been determined to go back to China whatsoever, while the wife wishes to stay in US. They have been discussing, arguing, even talking about getting divorced once. Should she compromise her career to go back with him in order to keep their marriage together, or choose to give up now before she might ... 1 response(s), 4 votes
bigheart2009 51 M 9  questions	Women & Money Theory - 3/6/2005 Men love women, women love the money, <br> This is the reason why men who have much money can have many women easily, because women love the money, <br> Please do not blame if men who has much money having many women, instead blame the money or women. 3 response(s), 16 votes
kikaida42 63 M 2  questions	What is Love? - 3/6/2005 How can you explain love and a life partner? Would you be loyal, respectful, and true? I would like to meet someone with true qualities in life. Where do people meet honest and loyal friends? 1 response(s), 7 votes
kikaida42 63 M 2  questions	My Truthful Concerns - 3/6/2005 Have you encountered true love? What is true love, and respect? I will respect your respond and reasoning. 2 response(s), 4 votes
elf86 52 M 2  questions	Giving up the love scene or not - 3/2/2005 There are times in my life that I just feel that I am destined to be alone, lonely and miserable for the rest of my life. No matter what personal changes, dating tips, efforts and approaches I do, nobody wants me. I feel like a walking disease while women are practically beating each other for the "other guy". As I get older, my frustrations get worse and my morale falters even lower. ... 3 response(s), 7 votes
DRosa50250 59 M 1  question	WILL THERE BE A TIME WHEN ALL COUNTRIES WILL HAVE THE FREDOM TO TRAVEL? - 3/1/2005 Since I started to chat and make friends from around the world online, many of them can't pack their bags and just travel to the US. Some a simple passport is only needed. Others INS permission, waiting list, as well as approval from their own country. Will there be a day for all countries around the world to travel at free will? 2 response(s), 3 votes
djvcwg602004 63 M 2  questions	Question about marriage issues.. - 2/25/2005 First time posting a question for some advice, A little confused on the marriage issues . I've come acrossed many chinese woman in the past who seem to want a commitment very soon with out spending time to build a relationship . No other red flags seem to show through communication other than this one. I recieved several e-mails with the words for example; ( contact me if you are ... 9 response(s), 11 votes
Celestial42 59 M 30  questions	Pre nup's - 2/24/2005 Whats you opinion on prenuptual agreement if the dating (courting) period is short. Should an older person like me protect myself from possible disaster? Maybe even put a time limit on it? say..... 3 to 5 years or so before it expires. <br> Not that I would even consider it at this time, I just want some opinions. Maybe even the older ladies need them in certain situations? ... 1 response(s), 8 votes
Celestial42 59 M 30  questions	What keeps the interest? - 2/24/2005 I know what it takes to keep my interest going. What floats your boat? 1 response(s), 7 votes
looking2knowU 54 M 2  questions	What happened? - 2/24/2005 I had been emailing and instant messaging a nice Chinese girl for about a month. Once we even talked to each other using the voice-chat on our messenger service. It seems that she was happy instant messaging me until after we used the voice-chat. Things seemed to go down hill from there. I would send her a message but she would not answer. I kept trying and she finally messengered me back ... 5 response(s), 7 votes
muffles 48 M 6  questions	winks and messages - 2/21/2005 I am part of this community for a month a two i think and I did receive some winks and some messages, but all from russian and african women. This site is called AsiaFriendFinder, so i was wondering why i get russian women ? What are your experiences ? 8 response(s), 7 votes
bigheart2009 51 M 9  questions	Love, Money, Marriage - 2/18/2005 Love Money Marriage <br> Hello gals, whihone will you choose if you have to pick only ONE from above? 14 response(s), 6 votes
e2bob 57 M 2  questions	Marry for Green Card ??? - 2/17/2005 Let's open up a discussion about Chinese girls who marry for a green card, marry for love or some other reason. Here's a good green card story. An American friend brought over a Chinese girl. Age difference was about 10 years. The had a baby and everything was going great. After 2 years, she had her green card in her hand and they went out to celebrate with a nice dinner, a couple drinks, ... 12 response(s), 19 votes
civiclifer 45 M 3  questions	how do women know they dont like you? - 2/16/2005 i hate when women dislike you even before you do or say anything how do women know they dont like you? if they dont know who you really are ? 6 response(s), 8 votes