jeffery_au 37 M 4  questions	Difference between asking an asian or western out on a date. - 1/26/2005 Alright, before everyone starts flooding this thread, I just wanted to state that this is very cute but simple question and was just kinda curious to ask. <br> So what are the major differences between dating or even asking an asian girl and an western girl out on a date? I know it depends obviously on the girl's personality....but in general there's got to be some different ... 9 response(s), 15 votes
ludezhang 50 F 2  questions	Why is he so strange? - 1/25/2005 I contact with an American guy here for two months. We use ICQ to chat or exchange message. At the beginning, he was very positive, even waiting for me to chat at the very early morning. But he changes a lot after I agreed to take risk with him. He disappears from time to time. Every time when I want to say good-bye to him, he comes out. I asked him why he disappears. He told me that he is ... 12 response(s), 16 votes
CYL_Jocelyn 50 F 2  questions	Why can human be so cruel sometimes? - 1/23/2005 I have been told that human being are the cruellest animimals in the world. Is it true? While we were appealing for salvaging the lives suffered from the tsunami, I saw a life gone ---- I am learning driving with another two students. One is driving and the teacher is sitting next to him. Another student and I are sitting at the back seats. Suddenly I cry as I see a ... 7 response(s), 11 votes
jeffery_au 37 M 4  questions	Is anyone taking this seriously? - 1/21/2005 Hi everyone! It has recently became apparent to me that most of the people on this site are all players. I know that the objectif of this site is to simply meet new people and maybe stike up an conversation but it doesn't seem like anyone is taking anything seriously ranging from friendship to relationship. What's up with that? 11 response(s), 16 votes
soaring1974 44 F 1  question	Why a lot men's put "Prefer not to say" on Martial Status in their profiles? - 1/20/2005 I need some help to understand why a lot men put "Prefer not to say" in their Martial status in their profiles. Is there some kind of secret code to this? Appreicate if you can help me to understand this. Thanks! 9 response(s), 8 votes
okashiigaijin 78 M 16  questions	she changed - 1/19/2005 i was visiting a lady friend in an asian country. we had a great time in the city going out for dinners, movies, looking around for a house to live and just doing what we felt like doing from day to day. one day she said she was kind of homesick and wanted to go back to her home town. it was 16hrs. away by bus. i said i would like to go and see where she came from. she said it was ... 8 response(s), 10 votes
Jf_24 43 M 1  question	possible to start over - 1/18/2005 hi everyone, i was talking about this with a friend and we couldnt totally agree do you think its good to go back with an ex gf or bf? express yourself heheheh 6 response(s), 10 votes
bigheart2009 51 M 9  questions	Just about gals - 1/17/2005 How do girls show signals to a man they are interested? 12 response(s), 4 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	WHEN A WOMAN LIKES YOU HER PUPILS WILL DILATE WHEN SHE LOOKS AT YOU . . . - 1/16/2005 The problem is that it's close to impossible for me to sense whether a girl likes me Asking to an expert, he say that if a woman likes me her pupils will dilate when she looks at me. He also suggest that she will twirl her hair and bite her lip… or she might playfully remove her shoes. Oh, and if she's REALLY interested she will blush and her heart ... 6 response(s), 8 votes
Bagu00 60 M 2  questions	93 years old? - 1/15/2005 Ok I'll bite.... why are women posting their ages as 93 years old when they're clearly 60 years younger...at least. 7 response(s), 8 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	Sara honey, have you been sleeping with Raul? - 1/11/2005 How to tell if she's lying to me and what to do about it ? I knew my old girlfriend, Sara, was lying to me: Me: "Sara honey, have you been sleeping with Raul?" Sara: "No, I have not." Me: "Are you sure? Because this zebra print bikini style brief isn't mine." Sara: "Oh well, I'm doing my Menger brothers laundry, don't be silly." Me: "Are you sure?" Sara:"Yes, I'M SURE, ... 5 response(s), 7 votes
odice 34 F 4  questions	when do you say it's better to keep your mouth shut? - 1/8/2005 i have this very best friend. we've been best buds for years and we have been through everything imaginable.. she has a boyfriend(which she met through me). this guy is from the navy(no offense meant, and i dont want to generalize but navy people are known to have chics everywhere). that guy and his friends are in our circle of friends. and one time the gang had a party which my ... 8 response(s), 15 votes
babydolltukta 54 F 1  question	How could I believe him? - 1/8/2005 I have found a man on the net, he asked me married with him and tried to say love me and miss me everyday. We talked through emails, chat, ecards many times a day. But now he doesn't and it seem like that disappear and he will send me sms if he wants to chat. I am not sure about him. How could I believe him??? 13 response(s), 13 votes
Bagu00 60 M 2  questions	Do those on your network correspond with you? - 1/8/2005 I have about 5 people on my network, and I send them messages every now and then, asking how they are or how's life treating them, but I never receive any replies back. So it makes me wonder...why do they have me on their networks anyway? Is there some sort of competition between the girls here that "whoever has the biggest network wins?" 8 response(s), 11 votes
odice 34 F 4  questions	should i feel bad? - 1/7/2005 i know this sounds kinda girlish but this is really what bothers me.. i met this guy at work(just doing his part-time) who's just here to visit his mom. our eyes met and then pooof! you know that feeling.. first attraction. eventually, in a span of 1week, we grew close. he'd walk me home after work, we had lunch together, we spent hours talking. from the start, i knew he had a ... 8 response(s), 11 votes
Look4UNow 58 M 1  question	Should I stay or should I go?? - 1/6/2005 I am contemplating moving to China and becoming an English teacher. Now at first glance, many of you will think "What is this man doing??" But the simple fact is that on leaving university, I applied to take up a course in teacher training, only to eventually turn down the offer I receved as I was given a good job in a firm making aircraft on the IT side of things. I also ... 7 response(s), 12 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	Women want the same things that Men want ???? - 1/6/2005 Assume that all people want to be happy and have fun. Unfortunately, the things that will entertain a man and make a man happy will not necessarily make a woman happy, and the things that may entertain a woman probably won't thrill a man Men are simple and like ice-cold beer in frosty mugs and good football while women prefer gossip and small useless things that ... 10 response(s), 18 votes
hotcrazytony69 57 M 1  question	who is viewing us? .......... not me!!!!???????? - 1/5/2005 dear sir., i wonder when i log in to see who is viewing me i see it..who is viewing us why us? tha is since dec 2nd 2004..plz tell me the reason i can see no one member been viewd me...wassup dear friends thx tony 5 response(s), 7 votes
trustworthyrose 45 F 1  question	Is it appropriate to accept a gift from someone just met? - 1/4/2005 I have met someone in public resource centre. After a while, we email back and forth few times. We talked over the phone a couple of times. We agree to meet each other and having dinner. I consider him as a friend, ordinary friend. I have told that to him. We had a dinner and he gave me a Christmas gift. I did not feel comfortable to receive gifts. Especially if it is from someone ... 10 response(s), 13 votes
moonburnt 41 M 1  question	Adopted - 1/3/2005 There are many stereotypes placed on different people on different situations. What I want to know is: "How do Asians view adopted ." It seems here in the States a common stereotype links with a troubled past of sorts. <br> <br> <br> "It would be foolish to know everything." <br> AsiaFriendfinder 2 response(s), 8 votes
wkg55 44 M 3  questions	Loved and lost - 1/2/2005 There's an old saying: It's better to have loved and lost then not loved at all. Most people may agree when it's lower risk, such as loving someone only a few miles away. But how about when it's someone thousands of miles away and you have altered you life, maybe made that huge move, and things didn't work out. In this case is it better to have loved and lost then not loved at all? What do ... 9 response(s), 11 votes
wkg55 44 M 3  questions	Moving out and away - 1/1/2005 People are meeting on here all the time from other countries, other cultures, many times thousands of miles apart. Now, in some those cases, the couple may actually develop something that leads to mariage, which means someone has to move. My question is to both men and women. How do you feel about moving, your thoughts about moving to another culture? Although another culture could mean ... 5 response(s), 12 votes
bigheart2009 51 M 9  questions	Why No Asian guys? - 12/31/2004 I have seen in some dating sites, there are many asian girls(almost all of them) looking for Caucasian guys. Very few interesting to meet with asian guys some sharply writen "NO asian" in their profile. I just want to know WHY? Could you please answer me ladies? 19 response(s), 24 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	DATING SUCKS ? - 12/28/2004 YOU HAVE TO BE A ROCK STAR, MILLIONAIRE, OR ATHLETE TO GET HOT DATES ? 9 response(s), 22 votes
Sweetlove2300 43 F 1  question	who loves bahmamas - 12/28/2004 its pretty isnt it. ... 4 response(s), 10 votes
wkg55 44 M 3  questions	The First Attraction - 12/28/2004 I would like to throw out a question to the women, or at least the ones who are really looking for something long term. I am curious, as are most men on here, about what attracts you to someone's profile. I know a picture can get your attention, but I'm talking about beyond that. What attributes catch your attention before anything else? I mentioned women who are looking for a long term ... 9 response(s), 20 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	how it can be possible... - 12/27/2004 how it can be possible... I'm a black male living in Italy and working around IT. I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't any knowledge in asian languages. How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous, and responsible guy]. ... 1 response(s), 8 votes
OnNewPlanet 54 M 9  questions	how it can be possible... - 12/26/2004 I'm a black male living in Italy and working around IT. <br> I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't any knowledge in asian languages. <br> How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous, and responsible guy]. ... 3 response(s), 5 votes
No1PopTop 68 M 2  questions	Winks and Hotlist - 12/26/2004 I am very curious <br> I have had dozens of beautiful women ad me to their hotlist and winked at me but not many of them have sent me an e-mail, What gives with this? Im here looking for a nice asian lady to marry. I have a friend who found Love on AFF and sugested I might also so here I am, Did i miss something in the rules? <br> <br> <br> ... 4 response(s), 6 votes
No1PopTop 68 M 2  questions	Winks and Hotlist - 12/26/2004 I am very curious I have had dozens of beautiful women ad me to their hotlist and winked at me but not many of them have sent me an e-mail, What gives with this? Im here looking for a nice asian lady to marry. I have a friend who found Love on AFF and sugested I might also so here I am, Did i miss something in the rules? <br> <br> No1PopTop 6 response(s), 15 votes