intensebreeze 46 M 6  questions	what is required for marrige from american man to asian? - 3/2/2004 I am not intrested in moving back to USA, i'd like to find a asian woman(most likely chinese), to marry and then stay in china. I'm looking for work first before moving, but i do want to get married, i guess i just need to know that this is practical and possible, and then what is required. <br> thanks <br> <br> b 2 response(s), 0 votes
intensebreeze 46 M 6  questions	how so many asian girls have a low opnion of themselfs? - 3/2/2004 is this from parents being disappointed with not having a male? <br> i see so many profiles that say things negative about themselfs, when they seem so lovely otherwise... 4 response(s), 0 votes
intensebreeze 46 M 6  questions	Travel rules on going to china? - 3/2/2004 I'm an american living in europe, wanting to go to asia. If i get a ticket to asia and go for like 3 months to see about finding job/wife etc, do i need a return ticket back to america or is europe ok? that seems to be the biggest thing when going to another country, a return ticket home. If i have to leave and re enter the country to get a job, i'd rather come back to europe and not have ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
intensebreeze 46 M 6  questions	what do parents think of asians with Whites? - 3/2/2004 I'm sure it's diffrent person to person (like everything). But do they like or dislike their daughters/sons looking for love with westerners? 6 response(s), 0 votes
intensebreeze 46 M 6  questions	what do asian men think of asian women dating westerners? - 3/2/2004 Do they care? are they threatened? is negative treatment given to men that date their "asian sisters"? 7 response(s), 0 votes
intensebreeze 46 M 6  questions	height problems? not posting info for fear of being too short? - 3/2/2004 why is it that some asian girls that are short don't post their height? <br> I like shorter women, but i've noticed that many don't post height at all. <br> Any insight into this? <br> <br> b 3 response(s), 0 votes
jasminemo 41 F 1  question	How can I meet a western guy? - 2/29/2004 I have been on this line for one year, and I did get many messages from many western guys.and some of them even gave me calls.My freinds tell me that most of them are very dangerous, they will take you to their places at the first time you meet.I think maybe it's very normal for western people, but for most of Chinese they can't accept that.so sometimes, when a guy calls me out, I am afraid ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
AsiaDon2000 91 M 1  question	How can one translate the Chinese language? - 2/28/2004 I've recieved several responses to my add from Chinese ladies living over in China, but some of them are only in the Chinese language. How can one translate these letters or notes? One beautiful lady has sent me several notes, but I always send back to her in English, always telling her how beautiful she is, but does she know what I'm saying? I canot understand a word of her response. ... 5 response(s), 2 votes
mevacor 49 M 2  questions	How possible is it for a Chinese girl to get to the U.S.? - 2/27/2004 I have been a member of this site for a short time. I have met a very possible friend/lover. She has told me it is very easy to get to the U.S. I want to believe what is said, on the other hand when I am the one going to finace her to get here. I am suspicious of just how to go about this. For her to come to the U.S would just be a meet and greet deal, to see if we really like each other. I ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
northernrabbit 61 M 1  question	A bit Curious - 2/24/2004 I have replied to several ladies and things seem to be going well, asking and answering a lot of questions, but then no replies from them, what's going on? 0 response(s), 0 votes
smart-may 54 F 2  questions	What I supposed to do? - 2/15/2004 Hi Friends, I get along with a guy 4 years already. In the very beginning I knew him, he said he is S'porean, he speaks English all the times, He admitted that he understand the local language as well but not much. Seems he looks smart & we connected very well in any kind of conversation. The more I spend time with him, my gut feelings tell me that he is too misterious. He introduced his ... 2 response(s), 1 vote
NVMtBkr2003 52 M 1  question	What age difference is acceptable? - 1/9/2004 OK, I am a 32 year old successful American man. Never married. No . For numerous reasons I have decided to use this website and am in communication with a few nice women. I have dated women as young as 23 while I was 31 in the U.S. and am curious to know about the best way to gauge the maximum age difference I should find acceptable among Chinese women. Now, I know that all women will ... 6 response(s), 5 votes
lnue99 54 F 1  question	Does he feel any quitly to do such things...? - 1/2/2004 I have dated a canada guy who has said he love me very much.He even asked me to marry him and date to meet each other.First I couldnot believe it , for we didnot know each other more , and had no real life base, I asked him seriously whether he was playing games.He said no, he was serious, he love me very much!and with 4!!!! to impress it , he told me that I had his heart and took it ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
NewChinaHand 59 M 1  question	Where is good place to meet new friends in Chinese cities? - 12/31/2003 I spend about 60% of my time in the USA, 40% in China. Most of my contacts in China are business associates, and it is lonely for me not to have friends. I frequently visit the same cities (Fujian: Fuzhou and Quanzhou, Guangdong: Guangzhou and Dongguan) and I would like to meet local people to get to know over time. My mandarin is spotty, but improving; it would be easiest to communicate ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
zhyh82002 63 F 1  question	How to get a permission to live in the Netherlands? - 12/15/2003 First I would like to thank the Asianfriendfinder team for them freely offering a so great platform for the persons who are willing to meet people from all around world. <br> Last year I met a gentleman from the Netherlands and, after one year’s communication we started to consider living together. However, as he works for the government, it will be difficult for him ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
colorprintz 88 M 1  question	Mandarin Speaking Groups and Churches in Northern California? - 12/1/2003 I'm Looking For Mandarin Cultural Groups in Northern California. <br> My fiancee will be coming to join me here in the United States. We will live in Northern California, within driving distance of the Bay Area. <br> She is a native Mandarin speaker, who speaks some English. I speak Mandarin acceptably. She will be immediately accepted into my family -- no problem ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
RomanticMonkey 62 M 1  question	How can I get Chinese translation? - 11/11/2003 Hello. I am a member of AFF. I have one Chinese lady I am very attracted to and we are "winking" at eachother like crazy and attempting to email eachother, but the problem is I don't know Chinese and she doesn't know English. Her messages come to me in that garbled bunch of symbols that do not look anything like Chinese characters. You know what I mean? If only I could at least get Chinese ... 5 response(s), 3 votes
Sweetseptember 57 F 2  questions	Why Western Guys are attracted to Asian Girls - 11/11/2003 Pardon me but I have one rather blunt question to ask you ppl on this AFF. I know all of us here are either asian or interest in getting to know ones. I've join this site and met many Western guys write to me telling me they're fond of me...even when they don't know me yet...simply because I'm an Asian!!!! Mind if I'm wrong here but to my experiences living on both sides of the ... 9 response(s), 1 vote
smart-may 54 F 2  questions	How do I maintain close relationship with potential partner when we are in half globe - 11/9/2003 I found someone through AFF three months ago, we are in good connection so far, he lives in America and I m in Asia. I usually get an email everyday from him, and I do the same thing. There is no single day without him in my head, even though we never have a chance to meet up. 2 weeks ago, I asked about our relationship whether I can recognize him as my boyfriend, a bit strange for this ... 6 response(s), 0 votes
wonderfulgirl26 46 F 1  question	why most of european man are not married mind - 10/29/2003 i am a traditonal chinese girl. i was involved with an european man, i love him very much, but we broken a few days ago, because he don't want to marry. i don;t knwo why? since we love each other, we should live for ever. who can tell me what is the thought of european man? why they are afraid of marriage so much? 6 response(s), 0 votes
Lord_Elric 48 M 1  question	How do I get my Chinese girl into the UK - 10/25/2003 Can somebody give me advice on how I bring my Chinese girl back to the UK? <br> When I finally meet my girl I want her (if she is willing) to come and live with me in the UK but I do not know how, should I marry her in China or in the UK 2 response(s), 0 votes
Lovingyou20033 46 F 1  question	will you forgive someone who is you loved after she made mistake? - 10/13/2003 When I met him I know he is the one , when I saw him the first sights I feel I knew him like 1000 years. We were falling love totally. He said I am his dream girl . and I know he is my dream too. Everybody have a dream and hoping come true some day. I thought my dream will come true. I am looking forward see him in person. But there was something happen. My ex-bf came my town . I went to ... 6 response(s), 0 votes
unmo 42 F 1  question	Divorced man, Worth it for a try?? - 9/23/2003 Not until the third date, I started have feelings for this man because of his personality. We have so much in common. And just I thought I was in La La land, I found out that he has been separated with his wife for couple of months now. The question is I don't know if he is ready for a relationship, or he just wants a woman for short term..or would he like to be married again?? Moreover, he ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
gyrohook 57 M 1  question	How to marry a thai girl and bring to usa - 9/8/2003 How hard is it to marry a thai girl and bring back to usa? I have heard of a dowry to pay to their family. Has anyone married thai girl and brought back to the usa? I would like to know everything that is involved before i make my decision to marry. 6 response(s), 0 votes
lonesome2455 73 M 1  question	am i making the right choices? - 8/13/2003 I met a thai gal from the chat room two years ago.we met everyday in the chatroom and things became more as we began this inquiry of the likes and dislikes of things in life.We began a series of daily emails to each other and eventually to exchange of and also to writing each other from thai to my home and vice versa.Into the year she finally invited to to visit thailand and in ... 9 response(s), 0 votes
dovecai 42 F 1  question	i love a missionary - 8/9/2003 i fall in love with a mormon missionary, but he is not allow to touch woman in 2 years and he cannot contact with me during this period. morever, his partener thought i try to attempt him, so he cannot go to my house to teach me anymore.i really don't want him to get into trouble, and i really love him, so what i gonna do. 2 response(s), 0 votes
orientalgirl9 52 F 1  question	Is faithfulness still important nowadays? - 8/2/2003 My boyfriend lives in USA, I'm in Asia. He said that since we are too far from each other, so he can't promise to be faithful to me. So I have to understand that I'm not his only love. But he still insists that he loves me..I'm a traditional woman, so I don't understand western life style...Am I not realistic? <br> Thanks for your responds. 5 response(s), 2 votes
Rayyan1000 52 M 1  question	Middle Eastern want to involve with Asian JP, CH, Ect.. - 7/18/2003 What's the possibility to get marry from Japanese or Chinese? Does the JP OR Ch get long with Middle Eastern Man Especially Arabic man, Muslim religion, Very conservative and morally inherited? 3 response(s), 0 votes
SomebodySpecial 44 M 1  question	You see someone in the list you like, what do you say? - 7/11/2003 When you have been browsing and have found someone you want to contact, is there anything better than just saying "I saw your pic and read your profile and now I would like to contact you?" It sounds a bit official, doesn't it? What's a good opening liner without being too formal and wihout being too forward? 5 response(s), 0 votes
SoftWind 66 M 1  question	How to marry a Chinese Citizen? - 7/5/2003 I have chatted with many great ladies on this site. Looking ahead, before things go too far, how does an American citizen marry a Chinese citizen? What are the potential difficulties involved? Visas? Immigration? ? etc? Any insight from somebody who has already done this is welcome. Any immigration lawyers out there? Thanks 5 response(s), 1 vote