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Self evaluative list of questions Word of advise: Be honest with yourself, and expect to change your answers from time to time. 1. what are my 5 priorities in life? Why? 2. Have I done what is most important to me? If not, why not? 3. Do I enjoy life? What do I love about it, and what do I dislike about it? 4. Do I enjoy my sex life? If yes, in what way? Of no, how and why not? Do I want to change it? 5. What do I really feel about my relationship with my husband or lover? How important is it to me? What do I like and what I don't like about it? 6. In what ways does my behavior with my husband or lover resemble my mother's or my father? What parts of my behavior do I like, and what parts do I dislike? How would I want to change it? Can I expect cooperation? 7. Who is my best friend? What do I see in this person? What do I give and what do I get? Am I satisfied with this friendship? If not, what is missing? 8. How often do I relax? Is it often enough? Do I need to change my lifestyle? How? These are the questions that I have been asking myself when I was away. Honestly, I can't still yet find the answers. Maybe all of you can share yours and help me. I want to validate the right from wrong, the moral and the immoral. Simply J |
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1. Five priorities? my ane, the fairly SLD, my baka sister, ... uhmm  I've got just three...  2. I found my lost ane... that's the most important thing of all...  3. I enjoy life because I have a crazy ane...  4. No comment 5. Who cares about lover... as long as I have my ane... 6. NA 7. Ane 8. I think you need to relax more, and think less as Oasis says...  just think enough! the flying squirrel strikes back     
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10/3/2007 11:26 pm |
Am just gald your back! Jalo just relax more and wait to receive good cheers!!! Why Yes Never Cry Smile All The Time!!!! Yep'''.... 
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10/4/2007 7:16 pm |
Great to have you here and thanks for waiting. I always have this ups and downs in my emotion. Specially when there is unexpected happening that needs a lot of decision. When I was single, I never thought of these things. All I know is that everything will be alright. But it so happen that it's not going right and it keeps on repeating. Then, I thought that I need a good assesment or validation to find out what I need and don't need. We have to throw away unnecesarry baggages to move on. And the past should be a part of your life as the positive link for the positive future. I really need to relax and think more and find out.  Thanks for your warm advise.  Simply J
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10/4/2007 7:23 pm |
1. Five priorities? my ane, the fairly SLD, my baka sister, ... uhmm I've got just three... 2. I found my lost ane... that's the most important thing of all... 3. I enjoy life because I have a crazy ane... 4. No comment 5. Who cares about lover... as long as I have my ane... 6. NA 7. Ane 8. I think you need to relax more, and think less as Oasis says... just think enough! I know you missed me soooooo much. There is nobody to calm you down when there is something bothering you. I've read all of your new blogs and if maybe I was available, maybe I knew the whole story. I like your sense of humor and your way of analysing situations and people.....but not all women are like that. I am the only one who always say that you are cute, handsome, intelligent, a forehead airport, a childlike ready smile, a curious eye movement and sometime a dramatic young brother who always wanted to reminisce the past specially about your ex. Additional.....and also my MY PICTURE in my pc are loaded of your Princess LYG's pix.  I can answer for your #4...... That you're right part of your body is more developed than your left part.  BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ Simply J
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10/4/2007 7:24 pm |
Am just gald your back! Jalo just relax more and wait to receive good cheers!!! You always cheer me up and have a ready advise and warm words to maek me smile. You brighten my day again Joe Simply J
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10/4/2007 7:29 pm |
Is this a part of getting more matured or just my fears of the future? I read a lot of blogs, sad, happy, learning, hate and lots lots more. I sometimes don't know what to wwrite. I sometimes don't know where should I start thinking. Until now, I still can't find the answer but already had identified the likes and dislikes. But I leearned a lot. I should be more careful next time ifever a new one comes along. Simply J
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10/4/2007 7:33 pm |
Why think depressed? I take all of them positively and wanted to make it more positive and healthy. maybe, I always want to set my course going to my goal. But we know that it's impossible, when we know that there arre lots of obstacles and hindrances. That is what I wanted to ready myself about. Sis, sometimes we have to think about these. Or maybe I am just thinking too much.  Maybe sis, you are just tired of work and have no time to ponder over these simple questions. But when you have time..........share it to me.Simply J
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Wow a lot of questions huh! 1. Top 5 priorities in life. 1.My Mothers health bec. Honestly I can live without anyone but can’t imagine myself without my Mom 2.My own health because I need to take care of my mom and family 3.Work because we need to live 4.Studies, knowledge is the only thing that I can have for a lifetime, no one can take away all the knowledge that I have learn from school and experiences. 5.can’t think of any 2.I can say YES 3.DEFINITELY who will not going to enjoy the ups and downs of these journey, what I enjoyed most? Everything though sometimes painful but still we all grown and learn from mistakes and experiences that we had…dislike I hate it when I am losing(die) my loved one forever4.Next questions please, I can talk about it out of fun but you know I am not comfortable talking about this stuff and in fact I don’t have that kind of life 5.I don’t have romantic relationship now, but before I am in the dating scene with friends but no romantic attachments/connection, just platonically hanging out in the restaurant, malls, bookstore and McDonalds ha ha ha oh I forgot also in Jollibee 6.Behavior? I am the strict type of person, it resembles both my mom and father attitude. Nothing I accepted everything what I had, I already seen my pluses and minuses…oh I forgot, I am not insensitive now, this is what I managed to change 7.I had a lot of friends, thee are some that we both knew each other since ages as what they always say…so far I am enjoying all the friendship. 8.Relax, I am relax when I am asleep, I am happy with my lifestyles now and not necessary change it, just wanted to runaway once in while in a secluded place away from the noise of the city. Maybe, I will answer all of these questions again after a month or so You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same
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10/5/2007 10:29 pm |
Wow a lot of questions huh! 1. Top 5 priorities in life. 1.My Mothers health bec. Honestly I can live without anyone but can’t imagine myself without my Mom 2.My own health because I need to take care of my mom and family 3.Work because we need to live 4.Studies, knowledge is the only thing that I can have for a lifetime, no one can take away all the knowledge that I have learn from school and experiences. 5.can’t think of any 2.I can say YES 3.DEFINITELY who will not going to enjoy the ups and downs of these journey, what I enjoyed most? Everything though sometimes painful but still we all grown and learn from mistakes and experiences that we had…dislike I hate it when I am losing(die) my loved one forever4.Next questions please, I can talk about it out of fun but you know I am not comfortable talking about this stuff and in fact I don’t have that kind of life 5.I don’t have romantic relationship now, but before I am in the dating scene with friends but no romantic attachments/connection, just platonically hanging out in the restaurant, malls, bookstore and McDonalds ha ha ha oh I forgot also in Jollibee 6.Behavior? I am the strict type of person, it resembles both my mom and father attitude. Nothing I accepted everything what I had, I already seen my pluses and minuses…oh I forgot, I am not insensitive now, this is what I managed to change 7.I had a lot of friends, thee are some that we both knew each other since ages as what they always say…so far I am enjoying all the friendship. 8.Relax, I am relax when I am asleep, I am happy with my lifestyles now and not necessary change it, just wanted to runaway once in while in a secluded place away from the noise of the city. Maybe, I will answer all of these questions again after a month or so The more you think of it the morre you can see the bright result of what you really want to be and what your goal is. Arya pa!  Simply J
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10/5/2007 10:36 pm |
Thanks for your comment Dav! I tried writing all of my answers and give myself a little restrictions to make my priorities to five only. In that way, I can tell my main, sub and the least priorities in life. I want to identify where I went wrong, what I want to improve and what is good and bad. I always have this kind of attitude even when arranging bottles and glasses. I make sure that the heavier was placed under and the lighter on top. I arrange them according to colors, sizes and shapes and usage. I am not trying to be perfect but wanted to get something out of what had happened in my past that will be useful for the future. Simply J
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10/8/2007 7:08 pm |
I was in the right timing in my life to identify it. If I am in a relationship....it will be very hard to think, if you know that the other is not willing to do the same for both of you. I was a little confused and feeling slow everyday and my head never stops thinking about these that I hadn't thought before when I was young. It's great that I came to this phase to see what I need to see and plan for the future. am I on the right track of mind or just paranoia? Simply J
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10/8/2007 7:10 pm |
Sis, you may not think today but I know that you are a deep-thinker person and you always come out with a great ideas and results. you may rest now but I also know that your head never stops thinking for the present situation and no time to think for what I have been going on in my life right now. You need rest and always stay healthy and happy! Simply J
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I think it's great your going through this phase, Jay......I had to do the same and I haven't regretted a minute of the time. Here's just three, in order of discovery, which I've found to be most profound: 1. KNOW YOURSELF - both your good points and bad. Once you can admit your bad points, believe me, it will open up a whole new world and solve so many problems. In fact I would go as far to say that, without knowing this, life isn't worth living. 2. ENJOY the PRESENT - nearly all of us waste or whole lives looking into the future and thinking, when: I'm married, I can buy a house, I buy a new car, I'm on holiday or it's the weekend I will be happy. But the fact of the matter is, by thinking this way we will NEVER be happy. So whatever you are doing, it might be work that you dislike but you've got to ENJOY and make the most of it.....every minute that ticks by is a minute of YOUR life. 3. TRY YOUR HARDEST to GET as CLOSE to LOVE as POSSIBLE - in the purest sense of the word. Hope this helps, Sister Fukumi!    minnie
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10/10/2007 6:36 pm |
hey, you're awakening me!!!! Thanks for the support of what I am going through right now. Simply J
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10/10/2007 6:38 pm |
I think it's great your going through this phase, Jay......I had to do the same and I haven't regretted a minute of the time. Here's just three, in order of discovery, which I've found to be most profound: 1. KNOW YOURSELF - both your good points and bad. Once you can admit your bad points, believe me, it will open up a whole new world and solve so many problems. In fact I would go as far to say that, without knowing this, life isn't worth living. 2. ENJOY the PRESENT - nearly all of us waste or whole lives looking into the future and thinking, when: I'm married, I can buy a house, I buy a new car, I'm on holiday or it's the weekend I will be happy. But the fact of the matter is, by thinking this way we will NEVER be happy. So whatever you are doing, it might be work that you dislike but you've got to ENJOY and make the most of it.....every minute that ticks by is a minute of YOUR life. 3. TRY YOUR HARDEST to GET as CLOSE to LOVE as POSSIBLE - in the purest sense of the word. Hope this helps, Sister Fukumi! Simply J
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11/4/2007 4:33 pm |
Well Lass, I have said it before and I will say it again. Over-examination of what should come naturally, if it does not then it is not natural behaviour. Here on the blogs I some times feel as if I am in some empirical scientific laboratory. White coated women and men dissecting frogs so assiduously that nothing remains when they are done. Then they all look around in surprise. Where did the frog go? Where did he go? Where did she go? What were we looking for in the first place??? That leaves the left hemisphere of the brain to fall in love with the right hemisphere with non-existent tools.
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11/5/2007 5:09 pm |
Well Lass, I have said it before and I will say it again. Over-examination of what should come naturally, if it does not then it is not natural behaviour. Here on the blogs I some times feel as if I am in some empirical scientific laboratory. White coated women and men dissecting frogs so assiduously that nothing remains when they are done. Then they all look around in surprise. Where did the frog go? Where did he go? Where did she go? What were we looking for in the first place??? That leaves the left hemisphere of the brain to fall in love with the right hemisphere with non-existent tools. Does that take a lot of time to think and all of a sudden when you've returned to your senses they are all gone. I didn't know how to sift a flour before and now I learned that they must be done first to make a good and delicious cakes. Simply J
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