vivababe1
(andrea )
53F
444 posts
10/2/2007 9:30 pm
My dad is gone forever!!!


On 26th Spetember 2007...my dad passed away....none of us was at his side as he was living on his own and he was found in the bathroom.....state coroner said cause of death is hypertensive heart disease

He was buried on Monday 1st October 2007....My heart is full of regrets and pain right now....i still couldnt accept his death...it came too sudden and im still in shock and to make things worse was the fact he left without any last word

On my end....i wish i could do better and still many things that i could have done but whats the point of saying it now....hes gone......gone forever.....i may not get along well with my dad but hes still my dad and i miss him im as stubborn as my dad....now i wish i did told him that i love him...i shall carry this regret for the rest of my life....to my dad i wanna say "Papa...im sorry i wasnt a filial ....Papa I Love U....pls forgive me"

p/s: To all that ur parents still around.....say u care and love them when they are still alive....dont be like me stubborn headed and live with regret...i wont be chatting for a while....i need to find peace within myself for i cant forgive myself now....tc all

Viva La Vida

pinky43 63F
1532 posts
10/3/2007 12:48 am

Viva dear,

My deepest condolences. My mother passed away recently and i was not at her side too. Be strong and take care.


katherine0430 54F
7 posts
10/4/2007 9:05 am

VIVA...

In ways big and small, your father's life changed your world and left it a better place, and touched too many hearts to ever be forgotten...

May the wonderful memories of your father’s love forever in your heart and comfort you at this time...

Please know, you have my sincere condolences at this time of bereavement...

Take care

Katherine


javaddict 59M

10/5/2007 11:56 pm

Viva si fu.....I'm so sorry to hear this ....yes..life is short and we'll never know when our last day can be....and yes we do need to let the ones we love that we love them cause we'll never know what tomorrow holds. Wish there is something any of us can do to help you thru this time...but I know only time will easy part of the pain. Lossing a loved one is so hard!!...so difficult to accept and get used to.....you will be in my prayers!!...Take care...and I'm always here if you want to chat .....


cyber545
(Mike )
56M
3 posts
10/8/2007 3:32 pm

I am sorry to hear about your loss! my condolences in the loss of your father!


belle902
(belle Q)
38F

10/12/2007 10:10 am

ah yi ,my condolences and take it easy... i hope u well, coz i really missed you...


javaddict 59M

10/18/2007 2:45 pm

On Behave of my Si fu Viva....I'm here to thank everyone who expressed their condolences......she expressed her appreciation to your care and concerns but she is not ready to come out and face the world just yet. She's still recovering and will return once she's ready. Once again, I want to thank you all on behave of Viva!!!!


yung200000 41F
31 posts
11/25/2007 3:47 pm

Dear Viva,

No wonder we haven't seen you in the room for the past month. Hope you're doing much better now although we still had some kinds of black spots on our bad memories. I do still bless you all the best and time will heal your sorrow. Also, your dad will be peace in the heaven.

Take care,
Yung


Casablanca1942 72M
244 posts
5/15/2013 12:10 am

if you ever want to chat or swap stories drop by fb zhi chiang. dvc and isabella have joined me.

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