touch213 69M
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6/19/2006 5:27 pm
finding someone..


it may be a good motivation for some, and it may not be even a motivation for others..

living like a hunter .. for what is everywhere and everpresent .. is not my desires motivation.. For in the eyes of a hunter, the pursued, always looks more appealing than it may actually be.. but, nothing caught by a hunter nor, a fishermans can be eaten with out being prepared.. as we are civilized beings, we prepare that which we have sought in hunting.... only animals eat their catch without preperations..

In a forest such as life.. and, with the dimensions of character as diverese as there is people.. attire'd in many costumes of deception.. hunting my not be such a delight of a sport as it could appear to some.. and to other's it's the only sport.

It may well be better, at least for me.. to just not hunt but, walk and enjoy the delights of the forest of life, for there's always berries and, much of things about nature that are available to sustain the self... and in such wandering.. thru life.. another wanderer may just come into the space your travel.. thus.. share the journey... and neither.. feels a need to hunt.. but, find themselves enjoying.. their walk in the wilderness of life. at moments simply recogonizing and appreciating, they are of company and companion unto and, with the other..

to them, there is nothing about finding someone.. that becomes of importance..

it's just appreciated... the act and the fact, of being with someone which really becomes the enjoyment..

and no thoughts ... of finding anyone..

touch213 69M

6/19/2006 8:05 pm

I find it somewhat amazing how some in this site, takes a flirty compliments to mean more than it does.. I'm one who is down right. point blank. in what I have to say .. to any and to all...and compliments are of many forms, but If I truly want someone.. all one needs do is read my blog "Asking", to know how I would approach them, andything other is just friendly banter.. complimentary delight, maybe at a comment or, even maybe at a summary of expression..
Some I've encountered on this site, have in many ways, denoted, that their blogs, is for select individuals, and some imply it in ways to say their references are for Asian only and other things of such sorts.. which all is cool.. that's the nature of the diversity of many variations of choice and focus on connectivity.. it's one thing for certain, If there be any woman on here that I desire on a close personaly note.. you will know that without a doubt, cause I'll contact you and say so..
I enjoy some friendly chatter, some light humor and down to the grit life exchanges.. but of the factor of love... that's a thing of a different and exclusively personal category.. as in life we comprimise on many things, but we rarely comprimise on the nature, quality and integrity of what we want of love.. and I for one, will accept nothing less thatn what is real for and to me.. in that regards.. so I'd say to any.. my compliments where ever they come and how ever they come are socially appreciation's.. "expressed".. if it's love as a mate I choose.. I will tell you .. in no uncertain terms that I would like to make a relations with you.. so short of that, it's friends, and good friends and speacial friends.. that I basically engage this site.. and that allots me room to generally appreciate and compliment many.. and any who has the regard to accept a compliment, those who can't or don't.. no problem...

so .. make no wrong assumptions nor, self patronizing illusions, and surely no egotist of self flattery within yourself.. and, we can all be much of friends.. and, to and of whom.. if I encounter one whom I care and choose to love... that shall be of the beauty and privacy of our sharing.. beyond that... let's have some fun... and, talk about life.. and, suff and, things.. and delight in this marvelous communicating tool, we engage... and be rejoiceful that such a tech wonder is ours to utilize.. and in the process.. we all may grow in many ways.. as individuals.


fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
6/19/2006 9:30 pm

The first hunt will be the one you can trust and rely on...finding someone who will understand is much better...

Good luck , Bro!


aura_2000 50F
84 posts
6/19/2006 9:45 pm

yeah, that's very true... that's what i felt too... yes, love is a different thing...it just doesn't come easily... but if it happens in the process, well that's very good...

i appreciate that you are very clear with what you want...


appreciateoo 68F
25 posts
6/20/2006 8:13 am

Learning to enjoy a coming together of friendship or journey without hidden agendas....of 'hunting'
I like your thinking...God bless