(Fred )
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2/25/2016 8:28 pm
Not Sure How To Respond To This...

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beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
2/26/2016 4:07 pm

today, men are not as "desperate as they use to be". Men today, have found means to be 'self appreciating", without having to be validated by a woman. Therefore, TODAY, men are more stable and able to make choices rather than being simply chosen as a pathway to some end.

No romp in the bed is going to be a world wind turn around and blow the mind situations; therefore, man or woman, should not rely on "sex" to be a catch all, direct all type of thing.

I would not care if she had "24 kt gold hairs surrounding it', The Matter of Relations and Relationship still becomes about the Person. !!!!! as an Individual, who must be a sincere and matured individual who has the capability and ability to build a mutual contributory and sharing relationship, through honesty of person, motive and intentions.

I would not travel 8000 miles without having means to house and feed myself,(Hotel and Money) within my plan, before I hinge it on living with someone else. If I can do that, then if someone makes such an offer of temporary 'vacation" staying, that might be something to be considered, depending on the understanding.

However you respond, be honest and take your time preparing your response.