Daveman_2 51M
45 posts
8/20/2010 4:19 am
Dating.....it doesnt work for me


My stomach is going up side down as a result im on the toilet every 5 minutes. I cant concentrate.......why? I have a blind date tonight.
Lets face it, what is fun about dating? The thrill of having "scored"?.
After a deep self analysis i found out, i am lazy (when not working), selfish and (help me) my goal after the date is "at my home in bed" with her.
Im not romantic, when going out i wanna get drunk as quick as possible. I never become rude nor will i start a fight or scene i just order beer after beer or my friends order beer after beer. Having over 50 dates the balance is zero (not the financial balance though that is in minus) marriage candidates.

I have set my mind that i will always be a happy single.

Daveman_2 51M
341 posts
8/20/2010 12:47 pm

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Your right, i was approached and approached women at locations and times when i expected it at least.


Daveman_2 51M
341 posts
8/20/2010 12:50 pm

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Thanks for the advice but English/ Irish women have my preference. Not to forget French women. My character is to miserable to expect the kindness of bringing me home and breakfast.


Daveman_2 51M
341 posts
8/20/2010 12:52 pm

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Thanks but you really would hate my character.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
8/20/2010 5:32 pm

just go have fun, don't feel like you have to go and be measured and weighed and assessed like a store product.. As long as you know you are as important of an individual in being self, then you won't put her so high up, that you become submissive to her being the controller of the 'shared experience"..

just as she has a right not to like the outing, you equally so have that right. and both of you equally so have the right, to like and enjoy it...

On the bedroom things.. If you don't get any, it only means, she did not get any either.. and if you do get some, that only means, that she got some too.


Daveman_2 51M
341 posts
8/21/2010 11:26 am

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Thanks i will KQRBP