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My story with Alma Alma (fictitious name) is a lady of Spanish origin living in London until Tuesday. We met Alma through a network of travellers where one can host travellers with no economic interest, just for the pleasure of helping other travellers. In this case the need was coincidental: I had planned for a weekend in London and didn't have where to stay, and she had planned 6 days in Amsterdam and had the same problem. In this travellers' network intimacy is out of question. Alma arrived on a Thursday and we picked her up at the train station. She was tired of 6 months in London where she had worked hard but disappointingly, as the job that she had to accept was not related to the sector she wanted to work on and get experience, art. London was, for Alma, a hard city were people are stressed and forget that the most important aspect of life is being happy. Alma things that "intimacy" with care, loving "intimacy", is not in the agenda of the Londoners, whose life is too much on survival and making money and too little on reaching happiness. Alma had decided to quit London and this trip was the only holidays in this period. That Thursday my partner Jane (fictitious name) prepared dinner and then I took Alma to Café Alto for a live jazz session, while Jane stayed in charge of the babies. On the way there I introduced Alma to the Bulldog coffee shop (and if you don't know what's special about Dutch "coffee shop" you absolutely have to goggle to learn it). There Alma -an occasional hash smoker- was astonished at the fact that selling hash is legal, that it is sold in a "menu" of 25+ choices, at the atmosphere... she intermediately felt relaxed, she started to love Amsterdam. Café Alto was great as usual. It took a few minutes for the jazz band to warm up and then we all started to feel that our feet were moving by themselves. Alma and me talked and established a communication -helped by our common mother language- that went beyond words: yes, the chemistry was there, I could make Alma to feel safe and at home, and she relaxed even further. Back at home Jane was already sleeping, and I left Alma in the sofa-bed with a sweet kiss. The next day I went to London. Back from London on Sunday evening the communication and the chemistry with Alma was still there. Alma had walked the city, fell in love with Amsterdam even more. That evening we talked about "intimacy" and about our respective "intimacy" expectations, our desires and our dreams. Alma had the curiosity to visit a swingers club and I wanted too, but Jane is, two months after delivery of our baby, still not ready - thus Jane welcomed Alma and me to go together. Monday evening Alma and me visited the only -to my knowledge- swingers club open during the week (Candy Club), in what was Alma's first ever visit -and only my third one- to a swingers club. The venue is nice, although I expected it bigger after my previous experience in Brussels. There were several women alone, young and in light clothing, what I suppose were for-payment, also two or three other couples. Alma and me had a couple of drinks and then took a corner, a little bit hidden, for me to give her a tantra massage. One couple was looking at our massage and I could feel that they were curious, but we were not there for an exchange that night. Then Alma interrupted the massage and started playing "intimacy" with me, oral first. It was a delicious experience indeed, having her sucking me and my enjoying taking her to an orgasm. We left shortly after. On arrival home Jane was still awake and I told her about the venue and the evening. Her eyes were bright, I could feel that she was enjoying with my experience, and we had hugs and a bit of "intimacy"  On Tuesday I was delighted with Jane's response to the events. Jane already encouraged me to have "intimacy" with girlfriends during the last part of the pregnancy and after delivery - she didn't feel comfortable having "intimacy" in her situation. But now we are trying to get back to "intimacy" normality - we are not yet there-, and Jane's reaction to my enjoying with Alma was a delicious present for me. Jane is not yet ready to try "intimacy" with another woman although she is curious about it, thus she would not try with Alma. The best of the adventure are two things: the kind of relationship created with Alma, and the response of Jane. Alma felt that she had been received open-arms by me, by us, and that she had in Amsterdam a family, a complete family. I was really moved by this feeling, I also felt very close to Alma. I realise that one key aspect is that I (we, but mostly me with the help of the Spanish language) have supported Alma in a moment when she needed to safely try other things. The other delicious outcome is the verification that Jane feels good about this relationship, and wants to try swingers clubs and open relationships. In fact, on Tuesday evening Jane sent me to sleep with Alma in the sofa-bed 
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