chatillion 71M
2286 posts
10/28/2012 8:07 am
Nudity, profanity and promoting your business...


A few weeks ago, I tried to have a photo approved. It was me and my 18 month old granddaughter. The photo was rejected... twice because it didn't comply with the rules. I was allowed to post it on a 2nd album, but not the primary album. Why so strict was my thought.

For more than two months someone blogging their 'manly skills' had a blog with profanity, nude photos of himself and solicited their service (including sexual pleasures) despite some complaints from the others who blog here. How strange... why was this offensive blog here for so long?

I scanned the 'terms of use' and believe this persons blog was clearly in violation.. Again, why did it remain online for such a long time?

I'm listed on a few dating sites and they each have their own rules. Maybe, it's something I missed.

chatillion 71M
1569 posts
10/28/2012 5:48 pm

Richard, that photo is allowed on 2 other dating sites. It brings lots of friendly comments from the ladies. I take it as a 'good thing' because many women 'connect' with a guy who likes kids.

Photos I frown on are ones with 'their ex' in the photo, husbands or (hasbeens) previous boyfriends. I believe that sends out the wrong message. Everyone has a phone with a camera so there is no excuse not to be able to take a shot of yourself.

I don't divulge enough personal information for tracking my extended family... at least I think I don't


Thanks for the comment... much appreciated !!


MrHeart40 66M

10/28/2012 9:49 pm

Why was my photo(s) denied?
We apologize for the inconvenience. Your photo may have been denied for one of the following reasons:

• Inappropriate imagery
• Included children in the photo
• Included animals in the photo
• Photo had more than one person in the photo (for non-couple or non-group accounts only)
• Photoshopped or doctored photos
• Included cartoons or anime
• Copyrighted photo/image


~ I am glad I only paid for 3 months! ~


MrHeart40 66M

10/28/2012 10:05 pm

Those rules I posted were from the help area, and I noticed they do not mention nudity.

They also say:

For further reasons why your photo may have been denied please see our Photo Criteria page.

By the way, the blog with the nude pictures still have not been removed.

~ I am glad I only paid for 3 months! ~


chatillion 71M
1569 posts
10/29/2012 3:49 am

Yes, I saw the offending blog yesterday.
That would mean no one complained... wouldn't it?
Nude photos, profanity, sexual invitations, business solicitation. But the photo of my and my daughter's kid isn't allowed as a main photo.


chatillion 71M
1569 posts
10/29/2012 5:37 am

The account of a person using photos taken from the website of an African actress is still online. I reported it 3 times now.

Hopefully the guys who are contacted by her (assuming it's a woman) realize it's a scam.

Too many bad people on dating sites preying for the unsuspecting members.


chatillion 71M
1569 posts
10/29/2012 3:50 pm

OK, let's be flexible with this...
Looking at it from a different perspective:

Nudity and profanity are allowed.
He's running a business with free advertisement...
complements of AFF.


chatillion 71M
1569 posts
10/31/2012 4:30 pm

SF, the one using photos of a Ghana actress was a gold member. I was unable to get her deleted... but I was successful with a gold member using photos clipped from a porn site.
With the help of Google photo search, finding fake photos got a lot easier!

Thanks for the comments...


tung4ufun 60M

11/25/2012 5:31 am

Oh shit! I was going crazy trying to upload a very cuddly picture of me with my puppy (and a horse in background), and didn't understand why it kept getting rejected. Do they think I'm into beastiality???