chatillion 71M
2286 posts
4/29/2014 9:26 pm
Too Much Information...


I was approached by a woman who liked my profile and wanted to see my photos. I complied and sent her to a link to a page where I have photos and some personal information.
On her next round of questions, she asked about my career and to my surprise wanted to see photos of my house and know my street address so she could see it on Google Maps.
Also, she was kind enough to ask what kind of woman I'm looking for.

The way I see it, her style of interrogation became annoying and (at this point) I had no desire to know anything about her.

A similar situation happened to me on one other occasion. I was invited to I/M with a Chinese woman who had professional photo studio photos on her profile. Her use of English on her introduction was perfectly written.
Our chat only lasted a few minutes and I could see where the conversation was going. Right after the 'hello' she started asking about my education, career, pension, home and financial assets... when she got to monthly salary, I intentionally told her about 25% of what I actually made. The response was 'I couldn't afford her in the lifestyle she desired' and she logged off I/M.

There was no question in my mind I wasn't talking to the actual woman on the profile, but that I was talking to her professional matchmaker. It's all business to them.

Thanks for reading my blog.

chatillion 71M
1569 posts
5/2/2014 10:41 am

Chinese women are more concerned with security than love.
Agree??