chatillion 71M
2286 posts
5/16/2014 5:22 pm
My (young) Admirers...


The youngest woman who 'hotlisted' me is 28 years old, followed by one who is 29 and several who are 30 to 35. The next group are from 45 to the oldest being 54 years old.
If you scan my profile (and any standard member can do this) you will see the 2nd sentence reads: If you don't have a photo or are younger than 43... don't bother...

That was pretty clear... wasn't it?

I'm wondering 'what were they were thinking' when they clicked to add me to their hotlist.

We don't chat. We don't pass emails. I don't look at their profiles and... they don't look at mine. But... I'm on their hotlist.

I will admit, there is one 39 year old woman living in the US who is a gold member that I find strikingly beautiful. She has looked at my profile several times and I have scanned her profile a few times too. Obviously she reads (and understands) English as she hasn't made any contact with me, nor has she added me to her hotlist.

Smart girl!

I'm not a blabbermouth so I won't tell you about the 41 year old...



Have a GREAT weekend and thanks for reading my blog!

chatillion 71M
1569 posts
5/16/2014 8:46 pm

Kayra, agreed... I have a few young friends I met from another website.
One came to America (from China) this year to audition at 3 colleges hoping to get a full music scholarship. She calls me Uncle !!



Others ask typical questions about America and the cultural differences, especially when they cannot understand American slang. I enjoy helping them.

I'm friendly and reply to nearly every message... it's the under 30 crowd who are infatuated on the first e-mail and provide their private e-mail that I'm trying to avoid.