chatillion 70
3157 posts
6/19/2014 4:28 pm
The perfect age difference for a man and his wife...


For Americans in my parents age group it was 3 to 5 years difference for a man and his younger wife. In some Asian cultures, the age difference is often larger as much as 10 to 15 years. In my generation, American men who are married to American women, the man is typically 5 to 7 years older. But I've seen many successful American men marrying Asian women who are 15 to 20 years younger.
Here's the extreme difference in Successful Asian women in America... it's just the opposite where the Asian woman is looking to marry a man 15 to 25 years younger. Here is 'the catch' as it's what they are looking for and many have been looking for 5 to 10 years. I know this because I see some of the same faces (and old photos) I did when I first joined Asia FriendFinder, left for a few years and recently returned.
Are older Asian women really marrying younger Caucasian men or is it just wishful thinking on their part?

beyondfantasy3 111
4737 posts
6/19/2014 5:20 pm

older women and young men may last for a while, but look at Demi Moore, she was very pretty and glowing when she was young, but as she aged and tried to stay slim, she began to look stressed and challenged, in some of the shots she seemed under great pressure, knowing the young fresh faced girls was there with a offer to the man she was with. Finally he took up some of those offers.

Life is what it is, it is not the same for an older woman as it is for an older man, even the media shows the fixed model of the younger woman and the older man. it's been that way for centuries. Read some of the old customs of Old Time China, the young women were and still are thought to give the old man new energy and based on the many things that Chinese men do for virility, it is for sure they are going to look at younger women.
many of the women, will say right away, they have a challenge when they get a certain age, because the Chinese men are looking for the younger women under 40.
It's the same thing in the job market, most of these men in companies are going to hire the young pretty fresh faced girl before they hire the experienced maybe even quality worker in an older woman.

Nothing in our media even deals with people as they age, they use 14-17 yr olds for fashion magazine and dress them up and push it off as if they are 25-27, they show the under-developed bodies of the 14-17 yrs old, and they look for those with bodies that look like it could be a 12 yr old. and they promote it.
It has women going crazy trying to look like these kids, and the kids can't wait to get older, then when they get near 30, they want to be the 14-17 yr old look again.

That's the power of the media in the lives of people.


chatillion 70
1537 posts
6/19/2014 8:17 pm

"How many Chinese women have you seen with younger white men?"

Depends... if they are really successful, gym rats or had children at a young age they often have a following of younger boyfriends. Without going into details two I have dated continued dating the same age group despite their age increasing. Both had successful professional careers and found more time and money for luxuries.

"How many white guys on Asia Friendfinder have actually met a Chinese woman, let alone an older Chinese woman, let alone been naked with one?"

Let's see if your question draws responses.


woaini1947 59
3973 posts
6/21/2014 11:44 am

    Quoting warmfamily:
    How many Chinese women have you seen with younger white men?

    How many white guys on Chinese FriendFinder have actually met a Chinese woman, let alone an older Chinese woman, let alone been naked with one?

    Unfortunately for them probably not many because then they might discover that many Chinese women in their 40s, 50s and even 60s have great bodies.

    So I don't think it is wishful thinking on the women's part but maybe they need to do some more marketing. hahaha
Since I am 67, I don't want any woman older than me. I have dated several Chinese women between the ages of 40 and 48 and the majority of women of any non-Asian race in that age group cannot compete with them. Bodies are trim and athletic, skin is lovely, and all of them enjoy cooking for their man. I haven't encountered any of them who use something akin to the "I have a headache" excuse...