chatillion 71M
2293 posts
9/29/2014 5:58 am
Will you miss me when I'm gone?


We have a few married members who share time with us in the chat room. I enjoy that as one of our chatters is a Chinese woman, married to a Caucasian man. It's a big risk to move to another country in the quest for love, it appears she is happy with her decision.

That said... I'm not sure I'll have time to blog and chat here after my fiance arrives. For the most part, I came here for dating in the beginning (many years ago) and left for other dating sites. I didn't cancel my membership. On my return, I was here mostly for friendship. Dating and seeking a mate was not important. I was already working on a long-distance relationship at the time. My fiance and I had a few setbacks and I thought the relationship would end, but we both remained committed to making things work and overcame our obstacles.

If you know me, you know I haven't flirted in the chat room. My intentions are honorable. Whenever I receive a legitimate message, I clarify, I'm only here for friendship. My introduction (in English and Chinese) clearly says that.

Part of the reason for my presence here is to report fraudulent profiles. Last week, a new member winked at me. I researched her photo and found it listed on a website where some unsuspecting guy sent her $4,000. Yeah... people do that. Scammers are in business to make money and romance scam is a big business. This makes my blood boil.

Time permitting, I'll continue to visit, but there may be a day when I fade out completely. Not today and not tomorrow...

lxqizi 78F
1668 posts
9/29/2014 7:28 am

Of course
I will miss you
I almost cried! !
You can not so quickly abandon you. .
So many good friends
Will miss you! ! ! ! !
Forever and always! !


lxqizi 78F
1668 posts
9/29/2014 7:31 am

Go to a place we can call
I will wait for you
I want you to tell me what happened?
I would be very worried!
But I will help you be sure


chatillion 71M
1569 posts
9/29/2014 5:34 pm

I'm not certain what my fiance will say about my online life. She knows my hobby is reporting fraudulent profiles. We both laugh about that. She also knows I use blogging as a means of expression. So let's see what happens and if time permits. Right now, I have many projects planned to prepare my house for her arrival. After she arrives, I'm sure I'll want to spend every minute with her... or at least until she grows tired of me!


We're down to 3 weeks...


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
9/29/2014 6:19 pm

you make for an expansive conversationalist.