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I'm sending her back to China... Dear immigration office, I want to send my fiance back to China for the following reason: Chinese toilets are unlike Western toilets. You see... we sit on a seat to do our business and they squat on a hole in the floor. Since I don't have a hole on the floor, she's been squatting on the toilet seat. How do I know this? I can see the marks from her shower sandals, forcing me to scrub the seat clean every time I use it. It's been 3 weeks now and I'm getting tired of it. When can you arrange to come by and pick her up?? NOTE... this blog is humor and not intended to offend any race, culture, religion, age, ethnic or economic group. Thank you ! |
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only 3 weeks... ?????
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" But of course I am sure you are just sharing a joke with us!" Correct. 
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I went to China in May 2008 (3 months before Olympics) for 6 nights/8 days. I stayed in six different hotels in China and all the hotel toilets are just like our toilet in USA. However, their restaurants and all shopping mall toilets are squatting style. I almost couldn't stand-up after used those toilets. They think squatting toilet is cleaner. Incidentally, besides of toilet, I would like to say the restaurant save "napkin" very much. They provided only a very thin and small napkin (save trees?) for customers, but generous for food. BTW, they have "laundry machines" but no dryer. They hang underwear outside of their houses under the sun. They said the Sun can save energy and sterilize clothes. I want to let you know in advance, if you live with your fiance. Either you compromise, or she has to change. Honesty is the best policy.
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The first week she was here she started hanging wet clothes on hangers in the bathroom and soon realized they dried better in the electric dryer.
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Sounds like you really send her back to China. (refer to she was here - past tense). I wonder what city she lives in China. She should know the modem toilet is sitting NOT squatting. Did you know her from AFF? Did you pay airfare for her to come to USA? I am NOT a member here, so I can't read anyone profile, but I can glance profiles. I saw you can write Chinese. Where did you learn Chinese? You said she was your fiance. Did you give her a engage ring and ask that back when you two split? Did you apply "Green Card" for her? I gave my ex-husband "Green Card" and "U.S. citizenship" and cars, money, ...... etc. Be careful for foreigners who just came to USA. They need time to adapt to this country language, tax, .... many things to learn. I have been in USA for 34 & 1/2 years. I know the difficulties for the new comers to fit in. My house has rented to some Chinese after my mom passed away in Sept 2013. In 2013, I rented to Mainland Chinese. They stole my many stuffs in the house, destroy my kitchen appliances and garage door. They didn't know the garage door is electrical, they use hands to open the garage door and refuse to pay for the damages. They hang clothes outside. Since 2014, I rented to Taiwanese, they know much more about modem kitchen appliance, including dishwasher, dryer, oven,...... However, Chinese cook "herbal food" that smell. My house has central Air-conditioner and central vacuum system & bathtub jacuzzi that amazed them. I am just curious. Honesty is the best policy.
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chatillion: Did you know this girl from AFF? Can she read those blogs we are talking now? Did you two fight when split? Did she cry? She will feel very lonely because all her friends are in China. Some people can settle down, some can't. I was Taiwan licensed pharmacist with good paying job. However, USA doesn't recognize my pharmacist license, so I attended to USC (Univ. of Southern Calif.) and then passed the CA license exam. With CA pharmacist license, I could find jobs and survived with fair income. It will be more difficult, if you don't have certain skill. I remember when I was in 2nd going 3rd grade summer, my parents bought a new house with the modem toilet (same as in USA) and phone, I was about 8 y/o. When I was 5th grade, Taiwan had color TV program, most movies were from USA with English dialogs. My mom used to take me to see English movies since I was 5 y/o. We are NOT communists in Taiwan, we didn't have "Cultural Revolution". Taiwan has separated from China since 1949, it is like "Divorced" 65 years. Taiwanese are easier to be Americanized than Chinese in China. Taiwanese government has never prohibited us to watch English movies or travel to other countries. Honesty is the best policy.
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I'm JOKING... seriously, I LOVE this woman. It's ONLY A JOKE. Pharmacist, I'll answer your questions tomorrow. Too many things to finish tonight. 
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In detail, I met a younger woman at that site who was nice but not what I was looking for. She suggested I chat with her friend and had her friend send an introduction email to me. I was impressed right from the beginning as she and I shared many wants in a relationship. Pharmacist, she knows I come here to blog and report scammers. I showed her a few photos I posted, but she doesn't have an account here and not interested in becoming a member.
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I am NOT a member here either. I mainly use the blogs to express my opinions. That's all. Most of my blogs I have already spoke with my 3 male Caucasians before I put on blogs. I am very lucky to have these 3 friends who I can trust and they are very intelligent that I am looking for. Especially my banker friend who has very good knowledge of real estate and stock investments and lives only 18 miles away and 7 years older than me. I have met a retired orthodontist from AFF, but he is too old (13 yrs older) and lives too far in Oxnard (90 miles), so after few meets, we only email each other. Another one is a PhD (retired) physicist who is knowledgeable on astronomy and classical music. However he is too old (16 & 2/3 yrs older) for me. Besides, he lives in Maui, Hawaii now even he has many properties in Venice Beach, CA. I have NEVER met him, pure "pen-pal". chatillion: Are you gonna marry your fiance? Is she in USA or China now? Honesty is the best policy.
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Pharmacist, you seem to be missing some things here. How can you blog and make comments on AsiaFriendFinder if you are NOT a member? At some point you would have been required to register in order to login. I'm required to use the member login page every time I come here. A few exceptions is when I forget to log out from a cellphone, but I'm pretty good about closing each session when on a desktop computer. Am I missing some alternate way to come online? If you read my previous blogs, I mentioned her arrival in the United States with a K-1 visa last month and that we plan to marry here, hopefully this month or early December. If we don't marry, her visa will expire and she will be subject to deportation. Getting her back would result in paying thousands of dollars and a few years of our lives. That's not a good option.
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laogui: Actually, I know Japanese had occupied Taiwan. My parents were born in 1920+ and they had educated by Japanese teachers and speak Japanese fluently. I can speak Taiwanese dialect because we were in Taiwan for many generations, long before 1949 (I was born later). chatillion: I was member in August 2004 (more than 10 yrs ago) for only 3 months and stopped Chinese FriendFinder subscription. I went on different online dating sites. I came back to subscribe Chinese FriendFinder for 6 months when I was dating an orthodontist in 2007. Then I stopped again, re-subscribed for a year in 2008 after returned from China trip. I stopped again upon 1 year subscription. Do you know "Why?" Because at that time (2008 to Feb 2014) I could read, write email, receive email, flirt, ..... do everything without subscription, why should I pay to be a member? I was very popular in 2005 to 2007, I had dates almost every other weekend. My pharmacist job was stable and always weekend off. I have dated many from various sites: 6 MD, 7 PhD, 4 CEO, 5 JD (attorneys), 1 DDS (orthodontist), and many MBA, engineers (different filed), ..... However, from 2008, my dating slow down (I went to travel), 2009 stayed with a CEO (yacht/boat dealer) for about 10 months, unfortunate the financial crisis at that time forced him to close his boat business and he asked me money to save his house and boat business. I told him that his house and boat business didn't have my name on the paper, why should I pay for those debts he owed to bank? I know the economy was very bad in 2009 for auto and boat especially. I have sympathy for him, but I told him, don't mess relationship with his business. He knew I had stable income, he asked me to pay $7,000 every month to save his house & boat business. I refused. From 2010 on I only dated my banker CEO/President/Chairman who I have known since June 2006. He is the best and ideal man for me for over 8+ years. He is very busy, but still I have had more than 7,000 emails with him, lunch many times (he likes Diem Sum -he can use chopsticks perfectly). He only wants "Friendship" NOT marriage. I like him more than he likes me. He cares about me, teach me the "timing and location" of real estate. He is my 貴人. My first blog was on June 10, 2010. From Feb 01, 2014, I found out Chinese FriendFinder won't allow non-subscriber to read profile, or initiate an email, .... I am NOT interested in anyone anyway, so I only go on blogs. I can't read any profiles since 2/1/2014. It is Okay. Too many scammers since 2008. I got at least 200+ emails in 2014 but 99.99% of emails are scammers. I am very disappointed. They wrote poor English, grammar mistake emails, or "if you don't mind" emails to me. I am sick of them. My best dating time is over. I only have 3 friends left, but only seeing the banker now. He lives only 18 miles from me. I only know his office but NEVER know where his house is because he uses his LLC name to buy houses, not his personal name. I can't Google his properties by his name and I don't know his LLC name. But I know he is very rich. From past 8 years emails, he told me a lot of his personal life. He has NEVER "bad-mouth" about his ex-wife, but said she has "depression". That's all. I admire his entrepreneurial charisma and vision. I am luck to meet such a man I adore. Honesty is the best policy.
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Pharmacist... TMI (Too Much Information) regarding your personal situation that is not relevant to this blog. I will allow your comments to remain but ask in the future you keep things in the same general topic. Thanks! To clarify my previous comment... You must be a member and log in to post blogs. This has nothing to do with paid membership. Standard members are allowed to read, post and comments to blogs. There are some limitations to the above if the person posting a blog wants to limit who can read or comment, but normally, they blogs are open to all members.
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Congratulations, chatillion. Wish you the best of luck for your upcoming marriage. I hope your wife will be happy in USA. She needs time to adjust this new environment. To me, I don't want anyone to use me for "Green card" or U.S. citizenship. I don't want anyone depend on me. I can't read anyone profile since Feb 2014. I am NOT interested in anyone here. I am on Chinese FriendFinder for blogs only. Honesty is the best policy.
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chatillion: Please delete my blog the last in page 1. I admit I said too much, too detail about my date history. Thank you. Honesty is the best policy.
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pinkcrystal, you are correct in that fiancé refers to the man and fiancée refers to the woman. BOTH words are wrong according to my spell check and fiance is the accepted substitute as many devices only use a standard keyboard and the é is hard to find.
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enares, sorry if you didn't take it as friendly fun blog.
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pinkcrystal, I would like to add that some clients of mine who have a Chinese based business (and often travel to China) warned me about airplane toilet seat squatters as some have fallen off the seat during turbulence. Yes, it does happen.
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