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Setting your sights too high ladies? You may NEVER find Mr. Right... I scan lots of profiles (especially on other dating sites) and notice there are many women who are so specific listing the qualifications in the man they seek that they have a really small percentage available... on this planet! These women cannot or will not accept anything less than their 'perfect standards' in the men they date. Year after year I see the same women who have built walls around themselves waiting for Mr. Dreamdate to arrive on his White Stallion. I know one woman who has been online (at the same dating site) seeking men 25 years younger than she is. Personally, I believe "It ain't gonna happen !!" (Yes, I know that's grammatically incorrect) Seriously, it's reality check time. 
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I don't really concern myself with any of the criteria talking about 'well to do", what degree someone has, or any of such stuff. It's simply Men and Women, you either want to relate or you don't. but this "Buy me" via this method or these things, is not something I'm interested in. Too many women over-rate themselves, either because of looks, the shape of their body, and some get lost in the delusion of thinking their sex organ is so above a man, until they barter it under many guises. All that stuff sums up to very little in the big picture. because if people can't and don't communicate as genuine people, without the barter game dominating things, they are going to screw up a relationship or it will crash and burn or become antagonistic, because its built on stuff that changes drastically, such as looks, money comes and goes, and sex is a situational thing, that is never any better than one invest their honest and unencumbered mindsets to engage. Men too, he can push material things and his access to money if that is what he wants to do, and he will attract via that means what he will come to resent over a span of time, in some cases it won't take a long time for that to happen. There is so many pretty to look at women in the world, its almost infinite, and there is more to come as long as people exist, they can be found in any ethnicity and any culture in the numbers of thousands and millions. Its just the fact of nature of the human being, the same goes for body shapes, they can be found to look any ways anyone wants to see, and it is too a fact, that age will make changes over the course of their lives. with any people, sex will develop its changes in how desire flows, some days desire is high, some days its not, but the only thing that can and will make it functionally satisfactory to any couple is the basic nature of how they appreciate each other as individuals, and to actually like each other as persons. Before people build their relationship dominantly on their claim of sexual prowess, they may need to learn what are the age related challenges that come with sexual function. Maybe look at why there are so many drugs sold to aid sexual function. It's because life is so that there are things which can, does and will change your sexual capabilities. that one aspect of things, but then there is the massive list of STD's some of which can result to take your life. money, well there are some with vast volumes of it, some have it on paper and some have it in liquidity means, it comes and goes and who is to know what can and what does encumber it, or what might. We see many people now trying to unload these mega mansions, especially among entertainer or former top executives, because they no long rake in the mega buck, and the millions it takes in tax and maintenance upkeep changes their financial outlook and means., Billionaires get broken relationships just like the people who work from month to month pay days. If shopping is the only things that makes one feel valuable, then they are already bankrupt in the ways that matter within We've seen, we see and continue to see many who seeking the limelight of being out an about as their value point, they 'burn out" everyday, and as some of these people age, they go into panic mode of many sorts doing things trying to recapture a youth that has had its various age spans. Every Love is Unique What really matter within your Heart
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Yes, I agree. This happens on both sides. Unless you are a movie star or exceptionally wealthy, the chances of finding a relationship with someone half your age is very slim. Example would be 66 year old musical artist Billy Joel and 34 year old Alexis Roderick. It's his 4th marriage and while I wish him luck, I believe it will be short lived.
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