chatillion 71M
2281 posts
12/24/2016 3:11 am
Ghosting...


There are several definitions to the word ghosting but a recent one involves the disappearance of a casual date where you sever all forms of communication with them... or if you've been ghosted, they sever all forms of communication with you. Texts go unanswered, calls ignored, they disappear like a ghost.

Usually with no warning, suddenly all contact with a person ends without explanation.

For example, meeting someone at Starbucks, striking up a conversation that leads to an exchange of . You go out a few times and one day there is no response to your text messages.

Poof... You have become the victim of a ghosting!
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chatillion 71M
1569 posts
12/24/2016 3:12 am

I recall going on a date where the woman wanted to meet me at my office just to see if I was who I said I was. We went to diner and things were working pretty good. On the 2nd date we casually, walked on the beach. I do remember her saying we should be friends and keep things platonic.

That was not why I was dating and made it the last communication with her.

Years later she saw me on a dating site and sent a message to contact her, but I didn't.