1ClassyLady 68F
3114 posts
7/14/2014 12:22 pm
Cardiologist_doc and mrklly are


Cardiologist_doc contacted me on July 10, 2014 at 8 a.m. from Alexandria, Ohio state (age 62 widowed, with a 17 y/o ). Chinese FriendFinder won't allow me to show his Skype ID and Yahoo email address.

Cardiologist_doc
Hello my dear, I am very glad seeing your message as well. I am here to meet good and honest lady to spend the rest of my life with. I am a single father with a who is only 17 years of age. I am a cardiologist doctor. I lost my wife 10 years ago since then I have devoted all my time working and saving life. But now I want to retire from my work in two(2) months time, I am just here on this site to find a good Asian lady to spend the rest of my life with. COULD SHE BE YOU?
As you earlier said "We can start from "Pen-pal" to communicate to see what we have in common. We don't know what future will hold for us, but to gain a friend is better than none" I love that. We truly can start by being friends and exchanging emails as well....who knows what the future holds. But I am willing to relocate if only I could find that special lady that is worth it.
I don't often come online here, maybe we should chat on Yahoo or Skype.

Here's my Skype;
My Yahoo;

I will be more than happy if you add me. You look very pretty and decent in your photo, I love that.

Dr Matt

I replied his email as follows

Dear Dr. Obi:

Thanks for reply.

I have couple questions need to ask you. If you are a cardiologist, it will be very easy for you to answer. If you have a patient who is taking Calcium Carbonate for her osteoporosis. Her B.P. is 195/130. What two drugs will you prescribe for her? Why? Will you give her Norvasc or Diovan? What dosage? Do you like Beta Blockers? Which one? Do you like Angiotensin Receptor Blockers? How do you read EKG? What will you prescribe for Ventricular arrhythmia?

If you can answer all those easy questions, you will receive my email to your personal email address. Thank you for your understanding.

He didn't reply ever since my email.

I asked him about a "case study". If you have a patient who is taking Calcium Carbonate for her osteoporosis. Her B.P. is 195/130. What two drugs will you prescribe for her? Why? Will you give her Norvasc or Diovan?

A cardiologist will be easily answer my question. The drug for this woman should be Diovan NOT Norvasc. Why? Because Norvasc is a "Calcium Channel Blocker anti-hypertensive drug" which will be reversed by Calcium supplements that woman is taking CaCO3 to prevent her osteoporosis. My mom had severe osteoporosis taking CaCO3 and I always remind her MD "Do NOT prescribe any Calcium Channel Blocker anti-hypertensive drug but Diovan is in "Angiotensin Receptor Blockers" anti-hypertensive drug group, so it is Okay for patients on CaCO3. Any real Cardiologist MD will know what I am talking about. Norvasc is contraindication to Calcium supplements.

This fake MD didn't reply me. He got scared??? or he is NOT real MD. He probably use copy and paste someone's photo and pretend he is a cardiologist. He provided his Skype ID and personal email address to chat outside. I just want to make sure he is a real MD. How can a cardiologist have 20 hr a day on dating site? I wonder that too. Of course, he lives in Ohio state which is too far away. Why did he contact me from Ohio? and he said he will retire in 2 months and willing to relocate. Why? Cardiologist is rich, they won't relocate for any woman, right? He said he is NOT often come online, but I saw him online 20 hrs a day at least.

Today this "Cardiologist_doc" has been deactivated. I am a real CA pharmacist, he can't fool me.

mrklly contacted me on July 11, 2014 who lives in Corpus Christi, Texas (age 67) and this morning his profile has been deactivated.

mrklly
Thank for you nice note , i wish i have more time

left on here cos I have called for cancellation of

my profile as I have been overwhelmed by emails by

young ladies which seems potentially not

appropriate as far as what I'm looking for is

concerned... To extent I began to feel maybe this

whole online thing aint for me. However, your

profile stikes me in a different way and I am

providing me email address just in case you're

interested in taking this further

(his email can't show) , I wish you could read my

message on time before my profile is brought down as

requested..Thank you for your understanding..

Kelly


I replied his email as follows:

Hi Kelly:

Until I can trust you, I won't write to your personal email outside. I still suspect you because
1. I provided my first name in my profile, twice in my two previous emails, but you ignored to address me by my first name. 2. You didn't say how to solve "distance" too far problem. 3. You didn't say what field of business you are in. 4. You provided your email address too soon. 5. Why do you subscribe only 2 - 3 days and cancel? What's wrong with you? I wonder you are real. You probably copy and paste someone's photos and asked someone to write profile for you. If Kelly is your real name, why did you spell wrong as klly? Nobody will misspell his own name.

Until I can trust you, I won't write to your email address outside.

Ladies, if you received these two guys' emails, please ignore them, they are scammers.

I have received many emails lately from Malaysia, Florida, Minnesota, .... but they are easy to catch that they are scammers. I feel the scammers are improving now, please be very careful. Don't fall into a trick because he said he is a cardiologist doctor. Don't write to them outside until you trust them. Use your intelligence to identify those scammers. When it sounds too good to be true, it probably NOT TRUE. Some people have no integrity or dignity.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3276 posts
7/16/2014 11:05 am

In my many years pharmacist training, I am very cautious. When I received a fraudulent prescription (even it is obvious), I don't immediately assume that is a fake prescription until I confirm with the MD. I usually walked to my fax machine to make a call to that MD on the prescription. I asked the MD if he wrote that prescription to that patient. If it was a fraudulent, we don't give back that prescription (evidence). If the MD told me to call police to arrest the patient, I did as MD said. Yes, I caught many fraudulent prescriptions. However, I have NEVER "jumped into conclusion" without verification. I could get sued, if I didn't call the prescriber MD.

That's why I asked a few questions to test that so called "Cardiologist_doc".



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3276 posts
7/15/2014 7:53 am

Thanks for all of your comments.

In USA, the law says "Innocent until proven guilty". These two fake guys live far away from me and I had doubts about them, so I gave them chances to explain what they said they are. A small test can verify who is real, who is fake.

Some people laughed me (in my blog) that I have been on Chinese FriendFinder for almost 10 years but haven't found who I look for. If I am a fake person, Chinese FriendFinder won't allow me stay here for this long time. I am an honest person and ask for the same. All the guys I met before have been verified, tested and within the age and distance that I prefer. However, due to many different obstacles and some unknown reasons, I only had few times to meet them. I am glad I still have had three very good friends who understand me for years. These 3 friends of mine look for women for more than 15 years, but still stay single. We have high standards and set the bar high. We are just friends. Friendship can last long time.

It is difficult to find that person who is tailored for you.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3276 posts
7/14/2014 11:34 pm

I am NOT a member here, so I only can read very limited profile when I put my computer mouse over photo. The first few words, sentences for any member's profile. So, I won't like wrongly accused someone. I was politely asked him questions, but I already suspected both guys live so far away and never appeared on Chinese FriendFinder and all the sudden. They contacted me almost the same time. I felt weird, strange. Maybe they are a group of guys in a coffee shop with many computers and a teacher told them what to write emails, profiles,....

From 7/10/14 to today, they disappeared today, been deactivated. Both of them provided email addresses in 2nd email.

Nowadays, those perpetrators pretend they are 4 star general, or cardiologist doctor. I caught them red-handed.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3276 posts
7/14/2014 8:52 pm

You can say that again. I am a very experienced pharmacist.

Actually that "case study" is my mom. She was on Calcium for osteoporosis and had high blood pressure. Her MD prescribed Norvasc, I reminded MD that my mom was taking Ca++, and suggested MD changed to Diovan or Cozaar which won't interfere with Ca++ intake.

A little test can know who is real who is fake.

Thank you for your compliment. I am a real and honest person on this face of the planet.



Honesty is the best policy.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
7/14/2014 8:35 pm

They certainly should not be messing around with you if they are not for real and honest.


1ClassyLady 68F
3276 posts
7/14/2014 6:38 pm

I am Taiwanese licensed pharmacist since 1977, came to USA in 1980. I attended USC (Univ. of Southern Calif.) School of Pharmacy, passed CA board license exam and became CA licensed pharmacist since 1987. I have worked as self-employed (owned my pharmacy), worked for Rite-Aid, Kaiser hospital pharmacy and CVS pharmacy full time. I used to talk to all different kind of MD on phone until my mom had osteoporosis, multiple bone fractures, spinal cord surgery, rheumatoid arthritis and hypertension in 2009. I took care of her for almost 5 years.

This guy user name as "Cardiologist_doc" tried to fool me. In my 1st response to his email here, I said just "pen-pal" to talk about "friendship". I used a very simple test, he couldn't answer my question. I know he is NOT a real MD. I have been dealing with MD's all my adult life, I know how to talk with MD. Pharmacists are very humble with MD but firmly to discuss medications when we suspect MD's mistake on dosage, indication, contraindications, side effects, .... etc. We don't joke about professional knowledge.

I have met 7 MD all in Southern California within 60 miles. I know their real name, office address, license #, DEA #, .... from CA Board of Medicine website. However, that guy is from Ohio state, that's why I can't check his license #. However, I Google his name, Matt Obi. There is only one person in USA named "Matt Obi" in Michigan state, NOT in Ohio state.

I actually already discussed with my 3 friends who I talk daily. They talk me both guys are fake. They said I am smart to ask medication with the "Cardiologist" and talked straight to that guy in Texas that I suspected him only subscribed for 3 days and cancel membership.

I never harm a person and know how to protect myself. So, don't try to fool me. I will post blog for everyone to see.


Honesty is the best policy.