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Caught more scammers provided email addresses I got 2 more emails from same city, Aldershot, in UK. They wrote typical form emails "if you don't mind", provided email address to chat outside then ask for money or some illegal actions (hacker, scammers, .....) You may see their photos before Chinese FriendFinder delete them. I will call Chinese FriendFinder to report them. I am so sick of them. Shame on them. jackbibber Hello, How are you Dear? I came across your profile and it caught my attention so decided to write you just to express how I feel..I will appreciate to know you if you don't mind....Have a great day Well I don't usually come online on this site,Please can you kindly write me Back to my Gmail ( Chinese FriendFinder won't allow me to show his email address) and tell me more about you..... Warm Regards victor11147 hi.. I just read through your profile and it sparks an interest ... so I thought I would drop you an email. similarity is a good start.. I'd like a chance to know you more if you are interested and haven't connected with anyone yet. I look forward to hear from you. Both jackbibber and victor11147 have been deactivated. That proved that my predictions they are scammers were right. Honesty is the best policy. |
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Online dating is all about "Trust". Age and distance are first to scan people. Everyone prefers certain age range, if NOT within the range, I usually won't consider. So many scammers wrote emails said "Age is just a number". No, that is the scammers frequently use excuse. I set my preference, if NOT meet my criteria, then there is NOT a match. Long distance won't work. To know a person takes long time, so long distance is NOT impossible to meet or verify that person. Scammers usually said "As long as we love each other, distance is NOT a problem"> No, that is NOT true. Scammers normally don't want to meet, but only want to chat outside either by email or text, then ask for money. If they provided email address and told you to add them on Yahoo ID, .... Forget it, I won't trust that person. It is NOT sincere. BTW, many profile change locations from Los Angeles to New York, from Beverly Hills to San Bernardina. Don't play game, I know those tricks too. I read profile very carefully and read between the lines. Because the scammers are usually uneducated. I saw many people type "headline" as "Life is to short to waste" or they don't know the differences between "it's" and "its", or "their" and "there", "than" and "then". "Lets" and "Let's",...... Forget about it. I won't read that profile. I have my guideline and standard, if NOT meet, I quit reading and block that profile. I have read thousands profiles and who is real or fake. Please refer to my other blog "Compose a profile". When I am on a date, I observe that person, the conversation, and interaction with me, ..... etc. Even that person is real person, age, distance, education, ..... are matched, but there are still many factors that might not fit for each other. Like an old saying "You have to kiss many wrong fogs before you meet your prince". So, you see there are difficulties to find that "Perfect Match". Scammers, if you read this blog, please skip me to next profile. Because once I smell anything wrong, I will block you and report you. Anyway, most of scammers won't read blogs because they are too busy prospecting new victims. Honesty is the best policy.
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No, I didn't follow her blogs later. I lost my appetite for a silly girl. She posted too many blogs over the same scam. She only can blame herself but nobody else. Hope she learned her lesson well for that USD $500+ tuition. My advice is use your own judgement, your own IQ. I once said in my blog, I have been on Chinese FriendFinder over 10 years (it's true). Some guys laughed at me that I can't find any man for over 10 years. No, I have dated 69 real guys. Scammers won't want to meet. If I am NOT a real person, I can't stay for over 10 years. Someone would reported me during the 10 years. I am a very cautious and picky person. I did find a man I like very much for over 8 years. He is a banker CEO/President/Chairman, Caucasian guy, 7 years older than me. He lost lots of money over a divorce and won't want another marriage again. He gave me good investment advices over the years and made me a fortune. He only wants "Friendship" with me. He talks about current events, politics, religion, stock market, real estate, heath, children,..... any topic but NOT romance. He is a very busy businessman. He is a very polite gentleman, educated (2 master degrees). He knows how to handle any obstacle, a book smart and street smart too. I like his personality, happy, humorous, optimistic, rich without arrogant, travel a lot, .... He opens doors for me, waited till I sat down, ..... chivalrous. I feel I have been respected. I finally found someone who is the ONE in a million, chance of a lifetime for me. He knows I like him very much. He told me he will help me with any obstacle I have encountered. I like him since the first meet in June of 2006 in a Starbucks. He has "entrepreneurial charisma" that attracts me very much. He looks very outstanding among others. He calls himself "Don Quixote" (work hard to reach the impossible dream). I have expressed my affection to him in an email. He invited me to a fancy restaurant for lunch for an hour. He goes to Spain twice a year to visit his older sister and emailed me from Spain. He traveled to China and emailed me at a coffee shop that has WiFi. I am lucky to know a man of my dream. I know he likes me but I want more than "like" - a romance. Honesty is the best policy.
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I made a call to AFF, hopefully Chinese FriendFinder will deactivate them. The scammers emailed same email (cop & paste) to many hundred "prospects", they didn't read my profile, they hope that one or two out of several hundreds will respond them. That's how they scam those who responded. The scammers didn't pay attention the beginning of my profile wrote "If you provided your email address in the first email to me, I will have my attorney write to your email address for legal action." I caught so many scammers already. That's why I am NOT a member on AFF. I wonder why these two guys live in the same city in UK???? They probably are in the same group, same teacher taught them how to scam women. A month ago, I read a girl's blog that she paid USD $500+ to scammer and tried to save him who begged her to pay more money to get his luggage. I couldn't believe that girl can be so stupid to trust those perpetrators. How can she trust a person she has never met? Honesty is the best policy.
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