hotelmikel 70M
533 posts
3/10/2015 6:18 am


scammers and other people with low moral standards,,,

with this social media, people think if you cannot see me I can say anything, do anything, be anyone I want,,,

C'est la Vie,,

there are some nice people out there ,,,, far and few,, there are times I wish I was 10 years younger have a good day and a pleasant tomorrow,,,,,


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/10/2015 3:08 am

Pofaris:

You are still young, I can tell you few of the things, so that you won't be fooled by those scammers.

I am very honest and ask for the same in men. I filed divorce in May 2004 and on Chinese FriendFinder since Sept 2004. I was 10.5 years younger than now. I have read many thousands of profiles and received many hundreds of emails. I can tell who is real and who is fake. I have same profile on many online dating sites. I could read every member's profile and contacted them. Until Feb 1, 2012, Chinese FriendFinder changed its software and about 2 months, I couldn't get on Chinese FriendFinder at all. Two months later, I could enter Chinese FriendFinder but NOT allow to read anyone's entire profile.

Anyway, I have dated 72 guys in 10 years mostly in 2005 to 2008. I always ask those guys real name, job, title, .... before I met them. I Google their names, checked out their information. Google even told me their home address until few years ago, Google stopped provide free information, but if I paid $0.99 USD I still can get home address. I even know those guy's ex-wife, his children's names. If they are MD, I can go on Calif Board of Medicine to check their license # and DEA license #. Those information are public information. You just need to check.

This guy emailed me said he wanted to know me "MORE BETTER". I immediately know he is NOT American. 2. I told him to provide his profile for me to read but he failed to comply. 3. I provided my first name in my profile, how can he miss that enlarged 5 times name? 4. He provided his email address and a website that gave me information about his NAME and a so called "Art gallery" address. Okay, I checked it out as I used to do. Google said "NO MATCHED RESULT". Plus there is a woman from Chinese FriendFinder he contacted her and gave her the website, she believed in him in the 1st time on March 7, but somehow, she found out of this fake artist Oscar on March 8. She was mad and posted complain on his Guest Book and said she reported him to AFF. That is the conclusion for me that this fake artist is a liar who contacted several people.

So, I want you to know "Read profile carefully, ask his name, Google it" Most important is DO NOT EMAIL HIM to the email address he provided because if you email him, you already let him know your email address. Do not call him because it might be a cellular and he will know your phone #.

Better Safe than Sorry
. You need to know how to protect yourself. Age and distance are important factors for me. If he lives too far to meet, the chance is very slim. I like older guys because they usually more honest and his children are adults. I don't want a guy still have small children for custody and child support, take and pick-up his kids from schools, .... I want just between he and I together.

I have my criteria, highly educated, taller, intelligent, successful, .... I don't care about appearance. I don't like handsome guys because I don't want guys who has been spoiled by women. That the way I am. I wish you luck to find a boyfriend.

Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/10/2015 12:36 am

Fake artist Oscar

Do NOT even tried to fool me. I can out smart of you. I can post a blog about you and another woman you contacted from AFF, Lili and another guy name Rory also gave you his email address and message at your website Guest Book as follow:

Oscar i really love your art work. it would be nice to meet you in person. because i have some job for you..

There is a law enforcement guy is waiting for you to contact him, so that he can catch you.

You are so stupid. You think your title CEO can fool me?? I told you that I am a very cautious person. I can Google your name, gallery address, the so called Art gallery, .... all turned out NO MATCHED RESULTS.

You provided your email address and a website and I will believe your website that your name, CEO. No, I am NOT that stupid. I check out those information.

I already caught so many scammers on Chinese FriendFinder and been here for 10 & 1/2 years. Do NOT underestimate me.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/10/2015 12:09 am

Lili:

If you saw my blog about this liar, Brazilian artist Oscar, please respond. I already reported him to Chinese FriendFinder by calling. I hope Chinese FriendFinder will deactivate him soon. He gave me his email address many times and a website called EricLouisa Ancient Art Sculptures just the same he gave you from AFF. I saw you posted on March 7, 2015 at Guest Book when you still believed him and gave him your email address.

But on March 8, 2015, you found out he is a liar, you posted another complain about this fake guy.

I already suspect him so I didn't give him my email address. I Google his name, his so call EricLouisa Ancient Art Sculptures, ..... and no matched results. I use Google Earth to check out his gallery address in Florida and it turned out to be a Nick Turmes Jr. - State Farm Insurance Agent address. He can't fool me. Another guy Rory also left message in his Guest Book said he will give him a big project. That Rory probably a law enforcement agent.

There are so many scammers, liars on AFF. They even create a website to show off he is a CEO of an art gallery. That is a big B.S.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/9/2015 11:40 pm

I also reported him to AFF, but the Chinese who answered the phone at Chinese FriendFinder said there are regulation and policy to deactivate subscriber. I said I have been on Chinese FriendFinder for over 10 & 1/2 years, got hundreds of scammer emails. Those scammers have been deactivated 10 minutes after I called.



Honesty is the best policy.