1ClassyLady 68F
3126 posts
3/15/2015 10:27 pm
I did NOT view anyone's profile

I am NOT a subscriber on Chinese FriendFinder and can't view anyone's profile entirely. If I put my computer mouse over a member photo, I can see the "headline" and 1 or 2 sentences of the beginning of profile. That's all.

Recently I have received two emails who accused me I viewed their profiles. I thought Chinese FriendFinder didn't allow me to view member's profile, so I only briefly viewed the beginning of profile won't count as viewing. However, I saw there are 142 persons in my "I viewed" section. This is a misunderstanding. I called Chinese FriendFinder and spoke to one of Chinese FriendFinder employees, he said I can't view anyone's profile entirely and should NOT count as a "VIEW". He told me NOT to worried about these two people said I viewed their profiles. He will put a note on Chinese FriendFinder computer saying "this member can't view anyone's profile".

So, if you are one of 142 persons, please understand that I didn't view your profile entirely. Trust me. I didn't. I am NOT a subscriber.






Outstanding12345
emailed me on March 13, 2015, Friday at 11:23 a.m.

Don't want to be rude but STOP VIEWING MY PROFILE!! I'm NOT INTERESTED!! Good luck in your search!


This guy emailed me on "Black Friday, the 13th" accused me that I viewed his profile and asked me to stop. OMG, I am NOT a subscriber and can't read anyone's profile. I am NOT interested in him either. Somehow, Chinese FriendFinder engine alerted him that I viewed his profile by mistake. That "Black Friday" evening around 6 p.m. my desktop computer went down 3 times "Blue Screen of Death". It was a terrible "Black Friday" for me.

This guy is very arrogant, egoistic, ... I didn't view his full profile (just browsed his location). Even if I did (so what?), I didn't email him saying I am interested in him. I was upset and called Chinese FriendFinder but Chinese FriendFinder didn't teach me how to set "Privacy Preferences" My desktop is dead, I used my smartphone to type this blog because I wanted public bloggers know what really happened on me because Chinese FriendFinder engine was malfunctioned. Now I have my desktop back, I want you to know the FACT. (I don't know how to insert member photo on smartphone).

There are many non-subscribers have the same issue.




Honesty is the best policy.


Jiali25 58M
3 posts
5/15/2016 6:23 am

Hahaha, you can view my profile anytime!


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/18/2015 7:11 am

    Quoting  :

I won't let that stupid guy bother me. I am on the 5th floor woman, he is on ground floor. He has underestimated me.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/17/2015 9:31 pm

I have blocked that Outstanding12345 from emailing, browsing my profile, viewing or responding my blogs, ......

It was a terrible day, Black Friday.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/17/2015 9:26 pm

    Quoting  :

I didn't find laogui blog but I know how to change it 15 hours ago.

My Account, click Privacy Preferences, at bottom 3 Viewing Activity Visibility: choose I would like to become "invisible" and view profiles discreetly.

Yes, I did it.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/17/2015 8:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Okay, laogui. it located at bottom up #3.

I changed that since 14 hours ago. Hope no more arrogant, egoistic guy email me again saying I viewed their profiles.

Viewing Activity Visibility: I would like to become "invisible" and view profiles discreetly.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/17/2015 8:12 pm

laogui:

I had a very bad "Black Friday, the 13th".

I tried to find your blog that talked about how to turn off the option that's why I clicked you photo to view your blogs (NOT your profile), I didn't find that blog.

I don't find the option of Viewing Activity Visibility: I would like to become "invisible" and view profiles discreetly. Where is that option located??

The first time ever, that arrogant, ugly, Outstanding12345 emailed me that I've viewed his profile. PolarisSg and Kayra are also Standard Member and they couldn't view member's profiles but they didn't get such aggressive email that I received. I was so upset on Black Friday.

Although my computer came back, but just about 1 hour ago, the same "Blue Screen of Death" came back. I called the computer store, they told me to bring it back. Sigh,..........



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/17/2015 11:53 am

laogui:

Have you turned off the option I mentioned to PolarisSg?
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I went on "My Account" then chose "Privacy Preferences". At "Member Profile Visibility" I chose "No, I do not want my profile accessible by Guests and Search Engines.

(Note that turning off your profile accessibility to Search Engines will not immediately clear their cache of your profile.)

Hope after this change, those claimed I viewed their full profiles thing will go away. It is really annoying that I received two emails complained I viewed their profiles.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/17/2015 11:04 am

I received two emails complaining I viewed their profiles. I swear I didn't read anyone's full profile because I am NOT a subscriber and Chinese FriendFinder do NOT allow non-subscribers to view any profile. I contacted Chinese FriendFinder for this matter and been told to ignore these two persons. So, I blocked these two persons to email me.

AFF only allow non-subscribers to view a mini-window of a thumbnail profile but NOT full profile. Somehow, I saw there are 142 persons I viewed according to Chinese FriendFinder which is NOT true.

I have a profile at SFF which has no problem. I got ZERO view of anyone's profile. After I posted this blog, other non-subscribers the same problem too.

I went on PRIVACY PREFERENCES and turned off the Member Profile Visibility. If this thing continues, I will shut down my profile temporarily to avoid those unfriendly people.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/16/2015 8:19 pm

laogui:

No, because my desktop (hook with 48 inch TV screen) was in a computer store for 3 days. I was very frustrated using the smartphone or laptop (Note Book) to go on AFF. I will check again for that later. I just got my computer back few hours ago.

I have to have my desktop, or I felt uncomfortable. I only have Chinese FriendFinder and SFF.

Thank you.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/16/2015 7:43 pm

I shall be very careful with my computer cursor on AFF.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/16/2015 6:56 pm

I also have a profile at SFF (Senior Friend Finder) that has ZERO "profile I viewed" even I used my computer cursor over photos and read "headline" and "few words of beginning of profile. Why Chinese FriendFinder showed I viewed 143 profiles? I am a "Standard" member on both website.

There are even "WOMEN" I viewed on AFF. What???? Impossible.



Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/16/2015 3:07 pm

Thank you for so many responses. My desktop was in computer store during weekend and I got many typos using smartphone and laptop (NoteBook). Finally, I got my desktop back today, Monday.

Honesty is the best policy.


hotelmikel 70M
533 posts
3/16/2015 6:50 am


With this social media where everything is a fantasy at times, the men who complain need their heads examined..

If a woman posts a picture of her self ,, Some Tom Dick and Harry's,
think the ladies are looking for -( ,,

what ever the reason we are here for,,, smile and take every thing with a grain of salt,,,,,


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/16/2015 12:13 am

Thanks laogui. Two guys emailed me "Stop viewing his profile. He is NOT interested". OMG, I am not interested in him either. It was Chinese FriendFinder computer glitch..

Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/16/2015 12:06 am

I edited this post "should NOT count as a view" It takes a little time to get approval.

Honesty is the best policy.


1ClassyLady 68F
3289 posts
3/15/2015 11:04 pm

Thank you for your support. I want people to know I can't and didn't view anyone's profile. It was Chinese FriendFinder mistake.

Honesty is the best policy.